Is it the estrogen?

Ditzy:
My question is what is a lizzo?

ILuvChubbyChix:
A brief Google search suggests she's a plus-size black singer, rapper, and songwriter from Atlanta, GA born in 1988 who is of some note to some folks, it seems. Other than that, I don't know. I don't think I've ever heard any of her songs.


I listen to her infrequently. Imo, she's a pretty good rapper. I like her song "Boys". I am especially fond of the Pink Panda remix.
2 years

Thoughts on "miles away" feature

ILuvChubbyChix:
I think it's great!

It also doesn't really change much, since you can search for profiles and there's an option to limit to a certain given radius.

I can understand why some might not feel the most comfortable, but if you're worried about this, specify a location other than your own.

I will say this though.. it's moderately annoying if someone picks out a larger city/metro area, since this could "lead on" users who actually live there. It's even worse if someone picks out a country not his own, or a region that's too far off, since that can make it more difficult to talk about advice regarding things like local restaurant chains (America has a lot of regional fast food chains, for example), or of course, heavy cream v. double cream.

If someone wants to be less specific but still want to give a good general idea of location, a good choice is to specify the largest city in their metro area. For example, I don't actually live in Dallas, TX the city proper, but I live in a nearby suburb and I can commute to anywhere in DFW and can conceivably meet anyone there easily within a relatively short drive.

If you don't wish to be that specific, I'd probably recommend picking out a random small town within your state or province; the kind of place that's kind of hard to get to (far from any major highway), and the smaller the town, the better. This would eliminate most of the problems I mentioned. There's still some risk of "leading on" but it's far less likely.


As a stalking victim, I understand where you are coming from, but no. I've been stalked twice. I am not keen on a third time.
2 years

Controversial thoughts about feederism

Bigdj1977:
I completely understand that sentiment you expressed at the end of this post. I too started out in a field that has some physically demanding jobs but as I got bigger, I was lucky to find positions that are much more desk bound. You may have to get some additional training or credentials but if it allows you to live life more according to your preferences that is a small price to pay. Also, keep in mind that for many people, myself included, there comes a size where they have to eat a satisfying amount of food to just maintain or gain very slowly (this is the mid 400s for me) and are still reasonably mobile.

FattMatt:
My backup plan is to start teaching when I’ve gathered a few years of experience in my field. Maybe that wil open up the possibilities of gaining to an more extreme weight. And I know I won’t be bed bound by the time I hit 500 pounds. I think however that the image of a 400-500 pound hospital worker, isn’t widely accepted in society…

Ayumi Orihime:
Many people in the medical field are very fat phobic. As a pharmacist, when I do continued education, the non pharmacological advise for most health problems include "weight loss".

I wish they'd really get educated on the subject. Research shows that voluntary weight loss isn't sustainable in the long run and that the weight cycling is the real danger, not the fatness itself.

Maybe they feel "safer" assuming all fat people are greedy and lazy, this way they are "protected" from becoming fat themselves.

Blaming fat people for their fatness and assuming health issues such as high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, etc are caused by obesity (as opposed to "associated with being fat", which isn't the same at all) is very common in health professionals and it's been shown that many have a really bad perception of their fat patients.

Just suggesting that these issues could be linked to other factors also associated with being fat (stress, lack of exercise or weight cycling for example) is seen as controversial!

It's just ridiculous and I don't want to me a part of it. I've never told a patient of mine they should lose weight and I never will.


I think it depends on what health issue they have. I agree that weight loss isn't the end all be all. A lot of health concerns can be resolved by doing something else.

But some medical conditions can be helped by some level of weight loss. For example, my grandma has osteoporosis. While losing weight will not fix the problem, it can be helped by maintaining a lower weight. To put it simply, she had to lose weight because her bones are not strong enough to support her.

This also doesn't take into account the more extreme forms of obesity such as immobility. I don't think most immobile people will tell you that they are as fit as a fiddle. But on FF, I believe that is part of the appeal.
2 years

Overeating at night is better for weight gain than overeating at morning?

2xChins:
If it works for you then sure but I find that if I take in too much sugar/carbs before bed I tend to wake up feeling groggy or crappy.


Consider: Do late-night stuffings with less sugar and carbs. There are other kinds of foods besides carbs and sweets.
2 years

Double chin plastic surgery

BerlinGainer27:
That sounds just perfect. So you even get control over how big it shall be with your gain. Sign me up. I would continue to gain until it has the perfect (huge) size.


The fat graft will be proportional to the rest of your gains. This means that, depending on how much fat you've grafted onto your buccal area (double chin), you may have to cap your gains or have some of the fat removed if you get fatter.

Of course, this assumes that you find a surgeon that will give you what you are looking for. Plastic surgeons do fat grafts to the chin, but it's more to enhance the jawline. I don't think most (if any) will give a patient a big, flabby chin.

Feel free to prove me wrong.

If you want some more information about this, I found a link where real surgeons answer people's questions about facial fat transfers.

www.realself.com/questions/facial-fat-transfer/weight-gain
2 years

Betty boop laughs her way into obesity

Omg! I have that episode on DVD! I completely forgot about that one.

I watched it on repeat as a kid. I am pretty sure that did something to me. Just not sure what.
2 years

Unsure

9491S:
Hi, never really posted anything or known what to but here we go. Apologies in advance for any confusion

I (28,m), Like to think I’m a pretty run of the mill guy as it goes, pretty confident in most aspects of life etc. but I’ve always liked larger women. My gf and ex are both averaged sized. I’ve always had a thing for plus size women if I’m honest but never quite acknowledged it to myself until recently. It’s gradually got more of a thing as I’ve got older and I don’t really know what to do anymore. My gf wouldn’t understand, I know that so talking to her about it would be pointless. In the environment I’m from there is a weird stigma against liking larger people which I don’t get, especially if you’re not particularly large yourself. It’s just a confusing situation and I don’t quite know what to do.

I’m not one for sharing my thoughts on things like this normally however I’m in abit of a predicament and not sure what to do. Any advice would be appreciated or if anyone has been in this situation, any thoughts would be great. Thanks


I am curious about your predicament. What changed where you were no longer happy to keep it a secret?

I agree with what everyone else says. Y'all need to talk. It's fine if you need advice on what to say, but y'all need to talk.
2 years

What is the first step?

Indulgingto600:
Would it be bad to stuff myself every meal? Besides the stomach aches is there anything wrong with it? Also what do you mean by “top yourself off”


RIP your wallet. That would get very expensive very quickly. Not just the food, but you'd have to buy a lot of new clothes very quickly from the rapid weight gain.

This is, of course, assuming you won't vomit from being constantly full. Also the fact that you'd pretty much live on your toilet. All that food's gotta go somewhere.

You also run the risk of acid reflux disease.

Stuffing is fine. Frequent stuffing is sexy. But constantly stuffing yourself? Unwise.
2 years

So...maybe sensitive topic....

Anjou:
But do women of color like the thicc white boys more than ever...

Munchies:
I'm a WOC with a thick white boy.

I love him. I love his thickness. We are indifferent about each other's race. You know as it should be. To me, he is a man who happens to be white. My feelings for him wouldn't change if he were of another race.

He understands that I go through things that he can never understand. But he is supportive and listens to me when I talk about my struggles.

We aren't the "I don't see race" type of people. We do. Instead, we see our personhood first and our races second.

I am curious as to what sparked this question. Mixed-race couples have always been a thing. Yes, some decades ago, it would have been illegal. But it's no longer taboo. If anything, it's become mundane.

Etiola:
My parents are mixed races. I too see ethnicity, but I'm also a person first type of person. I'm autistic, and most of us are like this


Girl saaaaaame

It's not just an autism thing. I know a lot of people - of all races - who are like this and not on the spectrum. People are people, but it's impossible to ignore race. One might argue this is the most usual approach to this situation.

Race is a social construct. Some people interpret this as race being fake or not real. Neither of these things are true. Race is real. It's not bad. It's a neutral thing like gender or nationality. To deny its existence is as silly as denying people come in different shapes and sizes.

Yes, it impacts daily living. Yes, you can see it. But it's one of many elements that make up a person.
2 years

So...maybe sensitive topic....

Anjou:
But do women of color like the thicc white boys more than ever...


I'm a WOC with a thick white boy.

I love him. I love his thickness. We are indifferent about each other's race. You know as it should be. To me, he is a man who happens to be white. My feelings for him wouldn't change if he were of another race.

He understands that I go through things that he can never understand. But he is supportive and listens to me when I talk about my struggles.

We aren't the "I don't see race" type of people. We do. Instead, we see our personhood first and our races second.

I am curious as to what sparked this question. Mixed-race couples have always been a thing. Yes, some decades ago, it would have been illegal. But it's no longer taboo. If anything, it's become mundane.
2 years