Thoughts on "miles away" feature

Miachu:
Recently the "Miles away" feature was added

What's everyone's thoughts on it?

For me I find it a bit scary at times lol


If you are looking for an in-person connection, it's a helpful feature.

If you are a stalking victim, like me, it can be kinda scary.

That being said, I protect myself by putting a fake location and not revealing too much about myself or my location.
2 years

Is it the estrogen?

Anjou:
Because the boys out there are getting thicker than lizzo now😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Munchies:
*Glances at my feedee*

Nah, I think it's the stress eating. World's on fire. People eat as a coping mechanism. COVID lbs are no joke.

It do be a good look, tho.

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think it’s a stress thing, I think it’s just a boredom not being able to go to the gym or being as active, thing

For me it was just being more comfortable to being able to eat whatever I want, where as before I felt guilty or judged when I went out or ordered


Boredom from lockdown is def part of it. But there's also the stress eating part of it as well.
2 years

Shin splints and knee stiffness?

MitchHedberg:
99% of people have a dominant leg whether they're aware of it or not. Go kick a soccer ball. Which leg did you use? That's your dominant leg.

To add to that though, my left ankle was injured as a kid and I believe I've subconsciously compensated with my right to make up for it.

At the gym I use the hip abductor machine, leg press, a calf raising machine and I'm starting to do wall squats.

I don't know exactly but I do have quite a bit of muscle mass in general and that includes my legs.

I exercise and eat nutritious foods for my join health.

I don't know how to answer your questions about my walking or standing. I walk and stand in a way that's normal to me I guess, and I try to actively avoid ever having my legs completely straight or my knees locked.

I haven't been to a doctor about this yet though I can say with a high degree of certainty that I'll just be told to lose weight instead of get recommendations for ways I can strengthen my joint support while staying fat and getting fatter.


Well, this was a fine way of being told I'm weird. I never use the same leg to kick things. It's all about which is the more convenient leg.

Anyway, you should stand with your feet shoulder width apart and knees slightly bent. And as another user mentioned, you do need to get proper shoes for your feet. Everyone's feet are different with different needs. Something to look into.

Lastly, if you are eating healthfully, exercising, and still have pain, you really do need to see a doctor. They can better assist you than any internet stranger can - even the ones with a medical degree.

Maybe maintaining a lower weight will help. Maybe it won't. Either way, you'll need to make a choice about what you want. We all know that heavier weights can cause joint damage. You can mitigate it, but the higher you go, the harder it is to avoid.

Burying your head in the sand will not protect you from reality.
2 years

Belly shapes?

DollGirl:
Big and Round. preg/ mpreg looking bellies ftw


Those are super hot. I also love it when the gut's grown so much it hangs.

My feedee has one of these and it turns me on so much. Even more when he's full to the brim after an all day stuffing and can't move.

I like to tease him and say he's got an overdue food baby while he's panting on the couch.
2 years

Is it the estrogen?

Anjou:
Because the boys out there are getting thicker than lizzo now😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍


*Glances at my feedee*

Nah, I think it's the stress eating. World's on fire. People eat as a coping mechanism. COVID lbs are no joke.

It do be a good look, tho.
2 years

Shin splints and knee stiffness?

MitchHedberg:
I like to go on long walks and always have, but I've noticed that since crossing around 200lbs I'm more likely to feel a tenderness in my shins (especially on my non-dominant leg) after a while, or if I have to stand for a very long time.

I also feel an occasional stiffness of the knee, which I presume is some kind of weight-related arthritis.

Any tips on how to avoid this issue while continuing to walk? I've been trying to do more leg-muscle strengthening exercises recently but I think part of the problem is my "form" when walking and standing. I find myself wondering what the perfect standing form is so that I'm putting the least amount of pressure on my joints, diverting it instead towards various muscles.


My question is why do you have a dominate leg?

Also, what exercises have you been doing, how long have you been doing them, and how much of your leg is muscle mass?

What are you doing for your joint health? How are you standing and walking?

Most importantly, have you seen a doctor?
2 years

Controversial thoughts about feederism

I'm glad that conversations like this exist. A lot of FF is hyper-focused on getting as fat as possible by any means possible. And while that's not necessarily a bad thing (for the most part), I think we need to have more conversations about the real-world aspects of this.

People with aspirations that conflict with their ability to indulge in this kink/fetish/lifestyle are valid. People who gain weight and decide they prefer things to stay a fantasy are valid. People who want to gain weight but feel on the fence about actually doing it are valid.

It doesn't make you less of a feedee/gainer if you have to maintain or lose weight for any reason. It doesn't make you less of a feedee/gainer if you keep everything in the fantasy realm.

You belong in this fetish just as much as those actively gaining.
2 years

Message characters / words

Jiggle Junkie:
Feature Request: word count in the mailbox next to messages. That way members can estimate from the word count whether a message is worth opening before they open it for a one- or few-word vacuous message.

FF Team:
Just moving this suggestion to a new thread. I will note that in the past we have considered removing the subject line completely from messages, so that the first line of a message appears in the inbox instead, which would give users more insight into whether they want to open a message or not. Maybe this is something we can re-think about to change in the future.

Cheers.
c00kie

Jiggle Junkie:
Vote against removing the Subject line. That’s removing useful information in terms of judging whether to open a message, not adding to it.


I also vote against removing the subject line.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

*happiness noises*
2 years