BellyandCurves:
Inflation is really out of control. Getting harder and harder to feed myself when most of my paycheck goes to groceries, purchasing smaller and smaller amounts as everything goes up in price. Totally out of control and frustrating. Most young people cannot even afford to buy a house.

As we supposedly progress as a society, things should be easier, not harder.

Nofbar:
I need a practical book for fat couples, in particular one that addresses how fat couples can go from "How can we have sex when we're so fat?" to "We're fat and have very enjoyable sex and even kids.". Could I get some recommendations?

Why am I asking? I've always had a hard time being open about anything with anyone. That's not good in a marriage. So today I said that I was drawn to her confidence about being fat. That me being fat, her attitude made me feel at ease. That I wouldn't mind getting fatter. She said she's okay with me being fat and doesn't want me to lose weight if I don't want to, but she doesn't think she can accept me putting on more weight. She said that it would be more difficult or impossible for us to have sex and that's a big problem because we both want kids.

I remember hearing about books specifically for fat couples on dealing with the challenges of having sex while fat, but I have no idea how to search for them.

PhoenixChimera:
Blocking needs serious revision, it is the main reason I stopped using this site for a period-it certainly doesn’t make me feel that putting new content up would be safe here.

Chef Feeder:
I'm currently working on finishing my first story on this site, and the views I'm getting already is more than I was expecting. Its really motivating me to start writing stories based on an idea I've had for a long time.

As much as I love realistic stories, I'm a sucker for magic weight gain fiction, and I want to create a series of short(ish) independent stories that revolves around a magic/antique store that sells items that secretly have the ability to cause weight gain in different ways.

My only problem is I can't for the life of me come up with a solid name for the store, which would also be the series title.

I'm looking for something that would hint at the store's powers without being too obtuse.

I would really appreciate any help brainstorming so I can actually start writing.

Johnxyz:
When everything disappears from one member, is it possible to determine if that person left FF, or if that person is blocking you?

BellyandCurves:
Although this is a Feabie thing, please be aware of who you are messaging. I am still traumatized by this, but I was catfished. Quite badly. Profile looked good, things seemed to check out. Sent them a picture and they held it for ransom, demanding payment. I never sent them a dime, and deleted my account, but so many people have fallen prey to this.

I need to get this off my chest. I was stupid sending the photo, but the internet is a dangerous place. Look out for the real ones. The real ones are there for you, while the fakes suck out every piece of goodness inside you.

FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…
• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team

Chef Feeder:
I would love the idea of a more in depth fetish section.

What I think would be ideal is first keeping the main "Feeder, Feedee, FA, etc." and making them multi-select, as it's nice to have that main tag on one's profile. Then adding a subcategory that's separate where people can select their specific interests

Also one big improvement I'd love to see is the ability to hide answers/sections. Some questions I don't want to/don't see the point of answering myself, and would like to just hide them instead of having blank unanswered fields.


-While I'm here, what exactly is the purpose of the "Gainers" tab? Bc I've never understood what it's for.

Munchies:
Technically, a gainer was the LGBTQIA+ version of a feedee (the community used to be extremely heteronomative).

However, as the two communities blended, the terms "feedee" and "gainer" changed. Now, a feedee is a person who likes to be fed, and a gainer is a person who likes to gain. Some feedees do not like to gain, and some gainers do not like to be fed.

Chef Feeder:
I appreciate the answer, I actually didn't really know the full history behind the terms.

But I was wondering more specifically about the "gainers" tab on profile pages, between the "stories" and "posts" sections.

FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…
• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team

Chef Feeder:
I would love the idea of a more in depth fetish section.

What I think would be ideal is first keeping the main "Feeder, Feedee, FA, etc." and making them multi-select, as it's nice to have that main tag on one's profile. Then adding a subcategory that's separate where people can select their specific interests

Also one big improvement I'd love to see is the ability to hide answers/sections. Some questions I don't want to/don't see the point of answering myself, and would like to just hide them instead of having blank unanswered fields.


-While I'm here, what exactly is the purpose of the "Gainers" tab? Bc I've never understood what it's for.

0Seth0:
So my mother language is not English, its Dutch. Therefore I sonetimes doubt if I wrote something wrong or not. Plus I sonetimes find out that I mispelled some words. I'm nkt even sure if everything I wrote in this forum is even correct.

Does anyone know the best way of finding grammarly wrong or mispelled words/senteces? Or is there a specific program I could use for that? Let me know!

Morbidly A Beast:
You gotta really wanna be fat for yourself and well it’s nice to please other people, the simple fact is that it’s not a guaranteed thing you’ll ever be in a feedist relationship. Do it for you! Because you want to be fat!