BerlinGainer27:
I really love huge double chins and I am sure some of you do too. Who would be willing to undergo plastic surgery to plump up your double chin? If so what size would you like to achieve. I am thinking that fat grafting should be possible to enhance any body part with fat as you wish these days, not just the common brazilian butt lift (BBL).
Are there maybe any plastic surgeons out there who would love to support feedees, gainers in their quest for the perfect fat body?

Hellobelly12:
hi! I'm a pretty new girl here, but I enjoy this fat community so much! I've been wondering so much if it would be a good idea to open an of as a nude model/content creator or whatever... I would be very scared tho of my family, I have no idea how they would react if they saw my nudes leaked somewhere... would you do that? or if someone has an of, how did you get into it? how is it going?

Intrigue992:
Do you get flavor fatigue during stuffing sessions? I need to plan my meals when stuffing so there’s a good mixture of savory and sweet. If not I quickly get tired of eating. I even try to make sure there’s different textures to keep things interesting. Are you the same or could you devour a platter of all one item?

Edxl:
Stomachs can also be quite sensitive, so a lot of people might enjoy attention there even if they are not specifically focused on their fat parts being given attention. (my wife is not in love with her fat bits, but she loves tummy kisses, for example). And youngish guys will not infrequently get erections in the morning, waking up with them or having it just after waking up. So no guarantee that your belly play was turning him on -- but it also didn't turn him off obviously, and even that is a good step.

I'd say keep giving attention to his softer parts, keep the food coming, and see how it goes. Hopefully he'll relax into it over time

Angy523:
Well, about morning erections...I know about it, but thank you for mentioning 😊 But we already had sex in that morning, we went to shower after that and back in bed. Anyway, the erection isn't the weird part here, but the fact he put my hand on his belly surprised me.

Btw, he used my phone and saw I googled this site. Idk if he realised I have this kink or he just ignored it. But yesterday he ate more than before and asked me to cook him a dessert. I wait to see if he keeps eating like this. If he does, I guess it means he knows about my kink and loves me pretty much 😋

CuteFarmer:
Telling men the solution to overcompetition is to compete harder, is only going to worsen the situation for other men. It's like telling poor people to improve their situation by taking money off other poor people, making them poorer. There's no net gain.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you see a problem, identify a cause and propose solutions.

There aren't many women active on the site? It's not because there are more men than women in the world. It's not because women want to stay single. It's because the internet and dating sites by extension are a hostile place toward women in general.

If to "compete harder" means making a safe and welcoming place for all people based on a minimum level of appreciation for people, their boundaries, and their individual desires, then yes, it will help.

Pluviophile:
I agree with this.

CuteFarmer:
You suggest there are so few women on this site because of behaviour from men? Leaving aside that this is really sexist.. and I'm sure would be an insult to the moderators.......where would the 90% of missing female FAs/feeders go instead? Another site? Deny their tendencies? Be real. Isn't it more likely that the OP was just right in the 1st place - there are fewer female fa/feeders than there are male feeder&feedees combined? That was his point. Why deny something that's so self evident?
I've no skin in this game, I'm lucky I've had some very nice ladies contact me on here. And I'm always respectful. But I don't think any amount of bashing the OP - or convoluted arguments - would dissuade most sensible readers that the OP just had a point. It's at least 10:1 men:women on here, so supply & demand will mean asymmetric opportunities. Be real. Admit to men the stats were always against them. Or you risk some very depressed men

Gainingbelly369:
I want my belly hang, but when i ever reach that state will my belly ever be flat again if i try to lose weight then. Or will my skin be lose for the rest of my life?

Fatpeter:
What I was getting at was more of an observation really. I’m not just talking about myself. There are heaps of guys on here, you only have to look at there pics, posts etc and see how few views or comments they get, or how few followers they have. For women on the other hand it is completely different generally speaking. But I guess that’s pretty normal really? Not just in the fat community. I think I may of just answered my own dumb question🤦‍♀️

PolyPinoyPuppy:
There's a fun, counterintuitive mathematical reason for the large disparity between the number of likes/engagement girls and guys get.

Let's say there are 5 people on the entire site: 4 guys and 1 girl. Each person, for whatever reason, will only give 1 Like. We'll also assume that these people are all straight.

The guys all give their Likes to the 1 girl. The girl will pick 1 guy out of the 4 to give her Like.

On average, the guys all have 0.25 Likes each. The girls, on average, have 4 Likes each.

Thus in this dating pool with an unbalanced gender distribution, the smaller population has, on average, 16 times more Likes than the other population.

If the ratio of guys to girls were different, you'd just square it to find the disparity; 2 guys to 1 girl would be 2 Likes for girls and 0.5 Likes for guys, or 4 times more likes for the girls. A gender ratio of 3:1 would result in a Like ratio of 9:1.

A quick binary search for the number of profiles girls vs guys have on this site shows about 12,000 girls' accounts and 48,000 guys' accounts. Even if we say most of those are inactive, the ratio gives us an insight into the ratio of actual, active users; namely, 4 guys to 1 girl.

So if you see that girls have more than 10 times the number of likes, comments, etc. compared to guys, this is why. It's not entirely up to standards or taste or whatever other excuse or justification some men use to be toxic. It's just math. You want to find a connection? Show that you're worth being that 1 Like out of 4.

CuteFarmer:
The registered users might be 1:4 as you say, I don't know. But at any given time, the ratio of female to males online is well past 10:1. Anyone can just check in and see that on the profile page. Be real.
If the stats showed an competitive disadvantage to women, would you be trying to explain it away?

CuteFarmer:
I can't speak for the OP, but there are stats here in front of everyone's face folks.
Look at how many men & women are on here (as profiles, or logged in at any time, or in the chat room at any time etc). There's a huge difference.
So of course on average it's going to be much "harder/competitive/potentially discouraging/however else you want to define it" for men on here.
This means ladies have much more choice, so on average they have it far less "hard/competitive/potentially discouraging/however else you want to define it"
If I was in a 'lower numbers' population that was in demand, I'd be grateful. Would I want to admit it gave me an advantage? I hope so. Would I be angry if someone pointed out this gave me a distinct advantage? I hope not.

And yes I know there are other preferences and identities (non-cis/TG etc, some of whom I'm really into myself). But even after that, the stats show a massive disadvantage for almost all types of men.

Have your opinions, but be real folks.

Many of us are queueing for a nearly empty store. Some of you get free home delivery

Munchies:
Wouldn't say it gives me an advantage. More like a different set of problems.

The issue is one of quality over quantity for most women on this site. I've encountered a lot of women on this site bemoaning a dearth of decent men on FF. I am not talking about personal preferences. I am more so talking about men that come across as creepy, toxic, or dangerous.

I adore fat men. And while I'm not looking for a relationship, I love talking kink or even helping people with their weight gain journey. Still, I come across scores of men who do not understand consent, do not respect me as a person, are manipulative, or just plain toxic.

Thanks to my experiences, I'm a dab hand in dealing with these people. But I have seen them run off other women on this site before. Others have gone so far as to stop interacting with men on FF completely.

So, no. There's a lot more to it than a simple numbers game.

CuteFarmer:
You are saying there is an imbalance in which gender behaves more poorly on FF?

CuteFarmer:
No dating site has a massive gender imbalance like this.

Telling men the solution to overcompetition is to compete harder, is only going to worsen the situation for other men. It's like telling poor people to improve their situation by taking money off other poor people, making them poorer. There's no net gain.

Re-read the comments sent to the OP. Some of them don't accept that there's advantage for females on here. There is.

Everyone on here should behave, male and female.
But the stats make it much harder for men on here. Just be real