Profile update - we would love your input!

FF Team:
As this would be a new section on the profiles we are asking specifically for feedback about this.

Thanks for binging up the gender labels again, this is something we are going to be making changes to and will be changed once work gets underway on the profiles.

If we could keep feedback to this specific new profile feature / area that would be great.

We did speak about other kinks such as stuffing, padding, vore, inflation and were not really sure how to display this...Maybe we could have a tag / keyword area where you can add all your interested in. Do you think that would be appropriate, or do you feel it would need a specific section to discuss in more detail like the examples above?

If we had a tag area, we could have the option to add other labels. For example if your mainly an FFA you can have that as the section with the detailed questions. But in the tag kink area you can also add *Feeder - so its part of your interest but not the main aspect...

Thanks for your feedback so far, really appreciate it!


Personally, I think adding a new section to the profiles might be ... underused. Most people on the site have blank or barely filled out profiles.

I'd add the common fetishes as options under the pre-existing list of tags and make it a multi-select deal. Like a tagging system. For extra spice, have an "other" option that turns into a free-text space.

I do like the idea of being more descriptive with your interests. However, this would only make sense if people actually filled out their profiles. I'd just increase the word limit in the description and include things that would be useful to most people.

For example: Starting weight, current weight, goal weight, weight limit, experience level.

But that's just my two cents.
2 years

Free account

Nok:
Whew, two cents: limiting blocking is probably a BAD pr decision at the least, bordering on being actively inhumane. And probably bad business in other ways, since people aren't likely to get a premium account just to block profiles that harass them, they'll just leave the site.

And if it's really community that you worried about, in addition to unlimited blocks keeping people here better, you could just implement a block renewal protocol of some kind, perhaps a list of profiles you've blocked or unblocked, with blocks expiring after a year and requiring renewal in the form of rechecking a box in that list. Or something.

Munchies:
Not sure about the blocking renewal thing. But I agree with everything else you're saying.

Nok:
Yah, ditto, was just trying to think of a compromise they could accept.


Fair.
2 years

Profile update - we would love your input!

FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…

• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team


I would definitely update the gender thing - especially the trand labels. At the very least add trans man, trans woman, genderfluid, and non-binary.

Having the option to add multiple kinks would be nice. For example, some people identify as a feeder and an fa.

It would also be nice to add other categories for things like padding, inflation, and vore.
2 years

Free account

Nok:
Whew, two cents: limiting blocking is probably a BAD pr decision at the least, bordering on being actively inhumane. And probably bad business in other ways, since people aren't likely to get a premium account just to block profiles that harass them, they'll just leave the site.

And if it's really community that you worried about, in addition to unlimited blocks keeping people here better, you could just implement a block renewal protocol of some kind, perhaps a list of profiles you've blocked or unblocked, with blocks expiring after a year and requiring renewal in the form of rechecking a box in that list. Or something.


Not sure about the blocking renewal thing. But I agree with everything else you're saying.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Sumjohn:
Can't wait for another update from op.

Angy523:
I forgot to mention:
7. He gets tired much faster now.
8. He became lazier (even during sex, lately he just let me do most of the action)



But I'm still confused sometimes, he has some moments when he tells me he should lose weight because he got fatter. I started to think it's his way of teasing me because without me saying anything, he asked if we should make his belly smaller or bigger and I thought it would be safe to say it looks good as it is, but his answer was "I don't think so, I think we should make it bigger". Or he showed me a pic with a man with 6 packs and asked me if I want him to look like that. I said no and he said he's happy to hear that. Also, today he checked the scale, he told me he is too fat, but after that he came with me to eat some cake (I was the one who wanted it, but in the end he ate much more than me...basically he ate everything was left while I had 2-3 bites)


Sounds like home boy is developing a kink. Not sure what flavor, but it's certainly developing.

I think he loves to hear you reject conventional attractiveness for his growing body.
2 years

How many female feeders are on here?

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.

Munchies:
It really does. I can't tell you how many times I've had some truly depraved people slither into my DMs. Some examples:

Men openly asking me to cheat on my partner with them.

Dom feeders thinking that I'm secretly a sub feedee and trying to "train me".

People treating me like a cum rag.

Emotionally manipulative scum bags.

Men moving way too fast.

Don't get me wrong. I do get DMs from very lovely people. I've even befriended a few. But man, are they in the minority.

Pluviophile:
I've had very similar experiences in my DMs. There are some metaphorical diamonds in the rough, but dang it's few and far between.


It's all the audacity, really. Sometimes, I even get DMs from male feeders asking if they can take my feedee off of my hands.

I always show these to my partner. And without fail he ends up laughing his head off.
2 years

How many female feeders are on here?

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.


It really does. I can't tell you how many times I've had some truly depraved people slither into my DMs. Some examples:

Men openly asking me to cheat on my partner with them.

Dom feeders thinking that I'm secretly a sub feedee and trying to "train me".

People treating me like a cum rag.

Emotionally manipulative scum bags.

Men moving way too fast.

Don't get me wrong. I do get DMs from very lovely people. I've even befriended a few. But man, are they in the minority.
2 years

How do i continue gaining without stuffing myself?

StrykerDog:
I'm now at a weight where I believe I'll have to stuff myself to continue gaining, however, I don't find the process sexy. It's painful and uncomfortable. Is there any way I can continue gaining without really having to stuff myself? It's not really the food that I find out when it comes to weight, it's the end result.


You don't need to stuff yourself. You can eat until you are comfortably full. Just eat high calorie meals. You can also eat more frequently and drink your calories. Not just shakes. But another other than water (milk, juice, soda, smoothies, etc.).

It may seen counter-intuitive, but do at least some light exercise. It aids digestion, helps your body handle your weight gain, and works up an appetite. Even a 30 minute walk will help.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Sumjohn:
Can't wait for another update from op.

Angy523:
I didn't know if I should update this because I realised that exposing this kind of details to strangers make some people think they know more about me and my partener than they actually know.

But I guess I can give some updates once in a while. Sooo:
1. Just as I expected, he didn't lose weight. He ate less for a few days, but it did't last. He gained a little weight again, but idk how much.
2. He is at his heaviest since I know him, which made me show much more appreciation for his body. Just seeing him naked was enough to make me horny. He saw that and because I kept saying that he is too sexy, he asked if I would prefer him to lose weight or to gain weight. I told him I wouldn't like him to lose weight and he told me that it would be too hard for him anyways. I asked him why and he just said he doesn't want to eat less.
3. One day he told me he got fatter and that he was thinking to lose a little weight, but he wants to know my opinion. I told him he should do what he feels is better for him and I would support that. But he insisted he wants to know what I think about his gain and I told him I think he looks good. He still wanted to hear a clear answer, if I would prefer him to lose weight or not so I told him I would prefer not...he just told me "You make me really fat, you know that?" and I saw he got hard.
4. He is literally addicted to me playing with his belly. He always asks me to do this or to kiss it. Also, during handjob he pulls my head to kiss his belly.
5. He doesn't skip meals anymore. Even if he doesn't have time to eat, he finds a way.
6. He doesn't let me play with his belly in public anymore because he tells me it makes him horny.


Glad that you guys are doing great. May you have a long and happy relationship.
2 years

Do chubby guys just refuse to put themselves out there due to insecurity?

Chunkadelicc:
For me, it’s insecurity after numerous negative interactions. I would make accounts to try and appreciate my body and enjoy feedism. I was often met with creeps, or those who didn’t respect my boundaries. Being used for my slightly pudgy body, being an outlet to send unsolicited pictures to, being overshadowed and almost cast away by a community I held dear to my heart. I never knew why either.

I don’t plan on posting my body again anytime soon, all of my accounts surrounding it are long past inactive. There would be no support for a revival.

It’s insecurity after consistently feeling like you aren’t welcome, despite not knowing what you did.


I'm sorry you went through that, love. You didn't deserve it at all.

I hope you don't let others destroy how you feel about yourself.
2 years