BoysRCute:
Does anyone else see skinny teenage boys like just starting college, and want to just fill them up till they pop

Munchies:
Skinny boys that young awaken some times of maternal instinct in me (which is hilarious as they are young enough to be my siblings), and I think that they look so frail.

I want to feed then until I can't see their ribs anymore. So not necessarily fat, but defo not thin.

I'm weird. 🙃

Quink333:
This made me feel something 😳😭

Munchies:
Lol, did I awaken something? I seem to do that a lot on this site.

Quink333:
You rather deepen what was already there. 😖

Munchies:
Another thing I do all the time on this site. Completely inadvertantly.

Apparently, I'm just that powerful and amazing.

Quink333:
Such a bad influance 🙄

BoysRCute:
Does anyone else see skinny teenage boys like just starting college, and want to just fill them up till they pop

Munchies:
Skinny boys that young awaken some times of maternal instinct in me (which is hilarious as they are young enough to be my siblings), and I think that they look so frail.

I want to feed then until I can't see their ribs anymore. So not necessarily fat, but defo not thin.

I'm weird. 🙃

Quink333:
This made me feel something 😳😭

Munchies:
Lol, did I awaken something? I seem to do that a lot on this site.

Quink333:
You rather deepen what was already there. 😖

Fatpeter:
What I was getting at was more of an observation really. I’m not just talking about myself. There are heaps of guys on here, you only have to look at there pics, posts etc and see how few views or comments they get, or how few followers they have. For women on the other hand it is completely different generally speaking. But I guess that’s pretty normal really? Not just in the fat community. I think I may of just answered my own dumb question🤦‍♀️

BoysRCute:
Does anyone else see skinny teenage boys like just starting college, and want to just fill them up till they pop

Munchies:
Skinny boys that young awaken some times of maternal instinct in me (which is hilarious as they are young enough to be my siblings), and I think that they look so frail.

I want to feed then until I can't see their ribs anymore. So not necessarily fat, but defo not thin.

I'm weird. 🙃

Quink333:
This made me feel something 😳😭

Bigdaddyjack:
Most women on this site are too darn picky !!!

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?

Arden Feeder:
Thank you so much for your kind reply. I really appreciate the advice. He has told me before that a safe space is important and I'm still learning how best to provide that for him.

I'm afraid he has definitely been bullied into not being himself in the past and I definitely want to be that safe space for him. I don't think he fully trusts me enough to open up yet (given his past and how his past partners/family has treated him about this, I can't really fault him for that).

I am still learning what I am enjoy about the community if I'm honest, I grew up fat with people who taught me to hate myself, so I am having to relearn a lot of things about myself. My main priority currently is wanting him to finally be able to be himself and to be able to have that safe space to do so.

Any other advice though is greatly appreciated, I feel like a fish out of water right now. But I can definitely make sure to give him all the love and appreciation that I can.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
The only other advice I can give is to take your time, then; I'm still a fledgling in a lot of ways myself, though I've been lurking for quite a while. The longer you stay in the community and explore what it has to offer and the different viewpoints and perspectives people have, the better you'll be able to articulate for yourself and your boyfriend how you want to pursue feederism. Likewise, it will take time to develop that mutual trust. You've both already gotten past the enormous hurdle of one of you coming out of the closet, as it were, on being interested in feederism; congratulate yourselves and look forward to taking each next step one at a time.

And don't hesitate to post any questions you have on specific things as they come up and talk with people who are experienced. (I'm surprised Munchies hasn't chimed in yet, as she gives good advice and is a pretty experienced feeder.)

I'll ask some questions here if you don't mind sharing on your and your boyfriend's behalf. Do you know what his goals are as a feedee? Any specific ones, like a target weight? General ones, like whether he pursues weight gain for the physical attractiveness or to pursue the excitement of taboo? You mentioned also that he isn't a big fan of stuffing. Is this something he wants to work on but feels ashamed to partake in?

Kingwhatever1:
Very much tempted to try it. Wondering if any other cooking oil will do the trick?

Arden Feeder:
I have a piggie who is lactose intolerant and who has pretty bad heartburn, any suggestions on what I could fix him that is high calorie/will help him gain weight?