Long distances

Morbidly A Beast:
Imagine all the yummy food you could eat and how many places you could see if you could freely travel with zero effort, heck you could be somewhere thousands of miles away from food and do whatever and be in a Luxury 5 star restaurant or something.


You can also do this!



I wish this were reality so bad.

2 years

The officer's wife

Morbidly A Beast:
From what I see Men in the military have wives who either 1.) get really fat 2.) cheat im honestly amazed you’re the only fat one in the meetings you mentioned


Ain't no way. The post implies this person has been a military wife for a while now. And in my experience, long-term married military wives with kids are usually over 200 lbs. On the low end. The thin ones are usually newly married, also in the military, are messy cheaters, or fitness nuts with family in the area.
2 years

The officer's wife

Hisplumpprincess:
My husband is a military officer. When I married him I was quite slim. But over time he encouraged me to enjoy my food and not diet. Gradually I became pudgy and plump and family started to notice. I was happy so I didn't care. Then I had a baby and continued gaining weight. My husband encourages it. He buys me double portions at fast food restaurants. Yesterday he baked me a pie. I lost weight and went down to 160 briefly and he told me I was losing too much weight. I gave up on dieting because I missed eating buckets of raw cookie dough and going to restaurants, and my weight began to climb again.

My worry is that he is a military officer. He's in good shape. And all the other officer's wives are slim. I'm the fattest one at all the meetings. I don't want him to change his mind and lose attraction to me or be disgusted by me. I don't know how a guy in such good shape could like a girl like me. I asked him the other day if he would tell me if I was too fat, and he said there is no such thing. He rubs my belly and puts his hand under it all the time. He strokes my chins and loves my huge breasts. H cup. He is very vanilla and I can't think of him as having a fetish, but he seems to love all the places I am "soft," as he calls it. He says he wants me to be soft for him.

Do you think I'm safe eating? Should I get bigger and test just how soft I can get? At 205 pounds I already feel breathless doing physical activity.

Also, does anyone want me to write a story about a military wife who gets fat while her husband is on deployment, and then has to show him her new body?


Most of the officer wives are slim? Mayne, what base are y'all stationed at? I grew up in a military family. In my experience, military wives tend to be full-figured - especially E-5 and above.

What's his MOS? How long have y'all been stationed at your current base? Trying to wrap my head around such an alien situation.
2 years

Long distances

Biglunch:
Unless you use a portal like in Munchies’ gif, teleportation involves killing yourself…

Munchies:
No need to be a party pooper. Enjoy the sci-fi and have fun.



Biglunch:
Party pooper?

I do enjoy the sci-fi, and I am having fun.

That’s why I enjoy analyzing the methods used for teleportation.

It destroys the original and makes a copy.


Unless magic ~

2 years

Long distances

Biglunch:
Unless you use a portal like in Munchies’ gif, teleportation involves killing yourself…


No need to be a party pooper. Enjoy the sci-fi and have fun.

2 years

Long distances

PositiveFA:
I love my fat fetish and subcategories of it, but the only thing unfortunate about it is it’s scarcity results in such long distances between the compatible. I still choose to be transparent about my fat fetish (with hintings of what I like) on “vanilla dating” websites. I would rather be single than settle for someone with secrets that lives close by. I think it’s time for teleporters to be invented so we can travel instantly to places that take so long to arrive to. 😏.


Forget feedists. I wanna teleport!

2 years

Extremely degrading words/phrases for feedee?

Grimalkin999:
My feedee absolutely loves to be humiliated and degraded, he’s into the extremes and has no limit. I am just getting into the degrading so I’m not sure what I can say. Any help would be very appreciated


If you're new to verbally degrading your partner, don't start on the extreme end. Ease yourself into it.

I'm a sadistic domme. When I first got into BDSM, there were times I had to stop a scene. Not because my sub needed it, but because I needed it. Over time, I figured out what I liked and what my hard limits are.

Be kind to yourself. Ease yourself into it. If your partner cares about you, he'll understand. Plus, it will feel more natural that way - especially when you get to the extreme end of things.
2 years

Writing tips - a thread

I've included some excerpts from my story The Queen Mother here on FF to show that you don't need to include measurements to do a character description justice.

Queen Ralia stands in the mirror unclothed as she looks at her naked form. Since her decree, it will probably be the last time she sees herself in this state. Her milk chocolate skin stretches over her slender yet well muscled body. There is hardly a bit of fat on her at all. She rubs her hands over her scalp and notes how stubble is forming over her normally shorn head.


Queen Ralia looks down at her stomach once they leave. Her lean abs are stretched over her bloated stomach. She can make out a few ridges of muscle. She mourns that soon no one will be able to make out any muscle. Her plan is to stuff herself nearly non-stop; it won't be long until her stomach will settle on her thighs.


At three months pregnant, Queen Ralia can safely say she is fat. Everything on her feels heavy. Her breasts and belly put a strain on her back. If it wasn't for her equally large backside, she'd probably topple over. Her giant thighs thud and slap against each other to the point that they rub each other raw. She's taken to wearing bands, creams, and powders all the time. The only time they don't touch is when she spreads them to make room for her belly. She isn't sure just how heavy she is, but she'll find out today at the healer.


The maids dress her in a patterned bra with a sheer cover-up piece. Well, perhaps "cover-up" is a misnomer. Not only is everything see-through, but also it just covers her flabby arms, breasts, and backside. Her wobbling middle is exposed sicking out with a slight hang.
2 years

Writing tips - a thread

LoraDayton:

2. Numbers don't really mean anything in the imagination when describing body changes or food volume. Unless there is a plot element specific to it, you don't need numbers. It will free you, I promise.


Letters And Numbers:
I agree with this completely, but I will also say that numbers are *extremely* popular. I get more positive feedback from weighing segments than from almost anything else.

So while I don’t just write to please the reader (anyone who has read my current story can attest to that), sometimes it’s nice to give people what they want, too! But all things in proper moderation.

Munchies:
My take on the numbers is that they can be used effectively, but most people in the community do not know how. To be clear, this issue isn't FF-specific. I see it in a lot of fetish spaces.

It's essentially a case of "show, don't tell." It's the difference between saying, "It's 32 F/0 C outside," versus "The biting cold froze the puddle of water." One tells you what's happening, while the other immerses you in the experience.

That said, I believe there is a time and place for numbers. For example, maybe you're writing a fit-to-fat story where the protagonist is coming to terms with their weight. Since her weight is integral to the plot, you could include that when it moves the plot forward.

Letters And Numbers:
I agree completely! 100%. But I think in this particular community, some readers *really* like numbers. It doesn’t make the story stronger as a story, but as fan service people like it. So it’s a choice the author has to make. I’m trying to take numbers out of my current story because that’s not the story I want to tell, but I can’t deny that it’s popular.


Oh, it certainly is. I do want to make some room for numbers because there is a kink aspect to it all. At the same time, however, a lot of people struggle to conceptualize it.

How many times have you seen a story where a female character is 5'2", 120 lbs, and fat? How many times have you seen a story where a B cup is "busty" or a D is "small"? And yet, when you scroll down to the comments, readers rave about the "superb" descriptions.

The truth is that no matter what you envision in your stories, your reader will envision something else. Your best option is to gently nudge them in the right direction trying to force them to see what you see.
2 years

Writing tips - a thread

Letters And Numbers:
This is a wonderful thread. Thank you to @Munchies for making it! And for all the great contributions!


Happy to help
2 years