Fantasy Feeder

Writing tips - a thread

LoraDayton:

2. Numbers don't really mean anything in the imagination when describing body changes or food volume. Unless there is a plot element specific to it, you don't need numbers. It will free you, I promise.

Letters And Numbers:
I agree with this completely, but I will also say that numbers are *extremely* popular. I get more positive feedback from weighing segments than from almost anything else.

So while I don’t just write to please the reader (anyone who has read my current story can attest to that), sometimes it’s nice to give people what they want, too! But all things in proper moderation.

My take on the numbers is that they can be used effectively, but most people in the community do not know how. To be clear, this issue isn't FF-specific. I see it in a lot of fetish spaces.

It's essentially a case of "show, don't tell." It's the difference between saying, "It's 32 F/0 C outside," versus "The biting cold froze the puddle of water." One tells you what's happening, while the other immerses you in the experience.

That said, I believe there is a time and place for numbers. For example, maybe you're writing a fit-to-fat story where the protagonist is coming to terms with their weight. Since her weight is integral to the plot, you could include that when it moves the plot forward.

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Writing tips - a thread

STORY CRAFTING - PART 2

Characters

Arguably, creating characters is my favorite part of any story. I've made entire universes (and multiverses) just for one character to live in.

Here are some links with tips to make good characters:

www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-tips-for-character-development

www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-tips-for-character-development

www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-tips-for-character-development

I mentioned this in another thread, but having references goes a long way with character creation - especially ones that involve weight gain. I'm fond of using this site, but there are others out there:

www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-tips-for-character-development

If you struggle to get characterization right, try taking a personality test as your character. It will help you better understand them.

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Writing tips - a thread

STORY CRAFTING - PART I

When it comes to creative writing, it's not the idea but the execution that makes a good or bad story. Think about all the great stories you've seen with weird premises. Or, heartrendingly, the terrible stories with great ideas.

No matter how wacky, any idea can make a good story. This brings us to the main elements of story crafting:

-Characters
-Setting
-Theme
-Tone
- Point of View
-Conflict
-Plot

It's okay if you don't have all of these hammered out when you start writing. Usually, developing one develops the other. It's not uncommon for things to morph as you figure things out.

There's no one right way to develop any of these aspects. So think of these posts as general guidelines rather than definitive rules.

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Feederism symbol

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t really see the point unless you’re not actively gaining or fat, could be useful for feeders? It’s pretty obvious you can tell us by our bellies… but obviously not all fat people are in on our thing.

I've spoken to a number of feeders on FF. I've notice that the repressed (usually male) feeders have fetishized fatness so much that neutral behaviors become signals to them. Things like wearing ill-fitting clothes, weight gain (especially if the person doesn't make an effort to lose the weight), overeating, etc.

If we had a community-wide symbol, it would eliminate the need to ask someone if they are a feedist. However, I foresee this encouraging objectification and ostracization. Secret symbols don't stay secret for long. The mainstream crowd doesn't like us. Sooner or later, they'll find out about it and go on hate brigades.

Kink discussions are probably the safest option for now. This seems to be the case with most fetishes - even mainstream ones.

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Feederism symbol

SnM4BDSMinFL:
Something tells me it was never widespread. I've been on (admittedly mostly lurking) around a number of feedism-related sites since the early/mid 2000s and I can't recall ever seeing that.

Sadly, I think these days adopting such a symbol for the community would merely serve to act as a target for oppression. At least in some parts of the world, anyways.

Every few months or so, I see a random post online talking about [insert thing here] to secretly identify feedists. I understand the appeal, but it's hard to get everyone on the same page.

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Diabetes questions

MickRidem:
Oh! 🤣🤣🤣 I was so distraught and looking for info, I just threw out a search and raised a zombie?? 🧟‍♀️ My mistake! Jeez what a week I've had... LOL!

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Feedist thruple

AskDrFeeder:
I have imagined being in a relationship with two slender women who find out I'm a feeder who compete for my affections, each one trying to gain more weight than the other.

Maybe if one falls too far behind we tie her up and force feed her or whatever--there are many variations.

Munchies:
Could have sworn you were married. Oh well. Maybe you and your wife are poly.

AskDrFeeder:
Ha! I'm divorced. But it's just a fantasy anyway. Even when I was married I had those.

My condolences

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Diabetes questions

Bigfatjeebus:
Thank you so much for this information!!!!! Honestly this is what I have been looking for for so long.

In regards to your question, losing weight puts me into a deep depressive spiral and completely shuts off any sexual desire and really messes with how my body generally feels (it feels...gross ) when I lose weight.

I essentially have the opposite reaction as to when a civilian feels when they gain weight.

I've talked with numerous therapists over the years about this and it really isn't meeting criteria at all for BDD or any other mental health disorder. While I do have mental health issues, they are the typical ones most people experience (anxiety and ADHD).

So it puts me in a very tough spot if I had to lose for physical well being. So I'm trying to maximize how I can stay or gain at this weight. Don't get me wrong...I absolutely love the size I am now...and if I had to cash out and remain this size I'd be totally happy. But gaining to my goal weight has always been a dream of mine before I die.

MickRidem:
Like you, and for my own many reasons, weight loss puts me in a depressive spiral as well. I recently got the "high blood sugar" alert and I'm trying to cope.

Munchies:
I get you. I'm happy with my body (stacked and jacked baby), so if I had to lose a whole bunch of weight, I'd be devastated.

But look at it this way - you're just stabilizing yourself. Improving the foundation as it were. Once you get yourself to where you need to be, you can better achieve your goals

I know it sucks, but you are going to be okay.

MickRidem:
I assume you're answering Bigfatjeebus, but I appreciate your comment and understanding as well.

I was talking to you, silly bean. Bigfatjeebus posted about a year ago, and I don't necropost.

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Writing tips - a thread

GETTING STARTED

In my opinion, the most challenging part about writing a story is getting started. Maybe you don't have an idea. Perhaps you have too many - or even something in between. We've all been there.

The best thing you can do is write. Don't worry if it's good or bad. You can punch up a bad story, but you can't fix something that doesn't exist.

I've included some articles with different tips and tricks to help out:

www.masterclass.com/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-writing

www.masterclass.com/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-writing

www.masterclass.com/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-writing

www.masterclass.com/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-writing

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Writing tips - a thread

Hello everyone!

Since there is a demand for it, I'm making a thread with tips and tricks I've learned to be a good writer.

There will be multiple posts as I want each post to focus on one specific topic. Feel free to ask questions or post your tips and tricks.

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