FAMGM:
It’s virtually impossible to do by eye.

Assuming you’re of average muscle mass, your BMI is 42, and your “healthy” weight is around 189 lbs.

Therefore, you’re 123 lbs overweight, son!

On the basis that a “healthy” weight involves a BF% of no more than 19% (37.8 lbs of fat at 189 lbs), you’ve theoretically added an extra 125 lbs of fat (162.8 lbs total).

Assuming all of that is accurate, your body fat percentage is 51.59%.

BigTraffic6494:
Thanks! So pretty much could you tell by my gut if I have more or less abdominal fat than normal? And whether it’s severe obesity?

Raboot The Admirer:
I still have little experience on dating, but for what I have seen, most fat people don't even think they can be attractive to someone, not despite, but because of their size.
The two guys I have gone on dates with, (both "relationships" were extremely short, not-strings-attached), were so surprised that I found that aspect of them desirable. Maybe during a longer relationship you could turn a shy and insecure big guy into someone more confident, but I don't know.

I'm not suprised this is the case, unfortunately. Outside of spaces like these, being even a little chubby is still mostly being sold as the worst thing ever no matter what. I feel like most people around me have not even imagined that someone can be fat AND happy with their body.

This is why I would recommend any fat admirer, no matter their bodytype, to try and make the first step when they can. I would not wait for a chubby dude to flirt with me.

Morbidly A Beast:
Why do you associate being fat with masculinity? I do not. I see it more neutral. I mean if you feel more masculine as a man as fat that is.

FAMGM:
This is possibly one of the hottest stories ever written, and it seems to have disappeared.

Does anyone know what happened?

FatDave:
I swear it wasn't intentional lol.

Made some toast, put some cream cheese on it and wound up using the whole tub. I just bought it too lol.

I didn't pick the lifestyle, the lifestyle picked me!

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TheStoryteller:
Hey guys,

My current gf is the sexiest creature in all of existence. We’ve been dating close to 8 months and we’re pretty serious about it.

The thing is, I feel bad for not talking about my fetish explicitly.

She’s kinda chubby, and she doesn’t really like it.
She does appreciate me appreciating her body though, as she says it helps her feel better about it.
Since I touch her a lot in her chubbier areas, she tends to bring it up.

She’d be like - “you like touching my belly, don’t you?”

And I’d get a little embarrassed for being called out. I told her I’m into chubby women and men, and she obviously feels it, and I don’t mind that at all.

I do, however, feel bad about the WG fetish. Liking her belly is one thing, but getting hot and bothered by her recent gain is a different story that’s a lot harder to explain.

I know she doesn’t want to get any fatter. She doesn’t like the feel of it and it’s also bad for her career. I don’t really want her to gain, tbh, because I know it upsets her.

I don’t want her under the impression that I’d like her to do something she doesn’t want to, or that I’ve been trying to get her to gain on purpose. Since she hates cooking I cook most of the time, so I do have influence on her diet in a certain sense, but I swear to god if it wasn’t for me she’d be eating a lot worse.

I feel bad for not disclosing my fetish, but I also kinda don’t wanna talk about it. Is it wrong?

If you guys have any insight you can share from your experience, I’d love to hear it.
Thanks

Solarflare43:
I agree with you guys, thanks for the input.

I've been a bad mental place lately, my gf has been really stressed too and we haven't gotten to see each other much for weeks.

I got to see her last night and I realized how incredibly much I would miss her if she was out of my life. I would much rather have an average or petite her than no her at all

I've just been stressed and allowing myself to spiral in negative thoughts, but it is already getting better and I have a therapist appointment lined up soon

I think part of my healing will involve me giving up sites like this, but I am truly thankful for the wonderful and helpful people I've met here.

Thanks again!

StrykerDog:
I'm 230 lbs at 5'2, so I'm pretty big already, but that was unintentional. I want to finally start gaining on purpose, but I'm nervous about it, mainly because of my loved ones being worried. How do I make myself take the plunge and just do it?

Enas:
Okay so as a heads up, this is a serious issue for me, so I'd prefer if you'd take the time to think about what you wanna advise. Also, for the shake of transparency I'll try to be as honest as i can.
So i have a problem (or two) with feederism. Even tho I'm a very horny person and I'd really like to just be forcefed to immobility or something, i wanna do stuff in my life. Not because i wanna have a full life, but i see a lot of things in life that desperately need to be worked on and improved. I just can't ignore them. I have to do something to help, at least, fix them. But at the same time, my sexual need to do.... the things you can guess, is really strong and i just feel like i really need to do something about them as well. I'm in this state for over a year now, thinking that i can subsidize doing things for real with fantasizing. I don't think balancing these two is possible, since one has to steps completely on the other. (For example if i decides to gain, I'd love to go for something really extreme, close to or beyond immobility)
And on top of that I'd love to have a normal, romantic relationship where I care for my partner and i get cared for by her as well. In a mutual way. I feel like I really need all of these.
Do you have any advice? (if yes please try to describe your thought process fully)