Munchies:
Not eating processed foods help. However, it's not fool proof. Also, just because the food isn't processed doesn't mean it's healthy.

Adding onto that, just being fat increases your risk for a lot of health conditions. It doesn't mean that you will get them. There are plenty of healthy fat people out there. But, there are also plenty of people who can't get fat or can't gain past a certain point lest they encounter health issues.

This is why regular check ups are so important with this kink. Because anything could go wrong at any time. Best to get regular check ups and head off any issues as they come.

As far as what makes one woman's risk greater than the other? There's a lot of things. Pre-existing conditions, genetic, and environmental factors are the main reasons. However, especially with genetic factors, it's not always clear what will happen until it happens.

Nijjrtman8:
Why wouldn't not eating processed food be of help?
Why does being fat simply increase your risk of health conditions?
How does one know if a woman will encounter health problems when getting fat? (Besides from looking at her family)
Is going to the doctor really required? People here usually go once something hurts or there is some oddity
There is no concept of "check-ups" here

Solarflare43:
Is it possible to lose visceral fat while keeping most of my subcutaneous gains?

I've developed quite a large belly, but the hardness of my waistline has started to make me worry about excess visceral fat. It is very firm to the touch

My thighs I'm very happy with, they've gotten nicely wide & jiggly

Is there any way I could cut down on my waistline a good bit to create a more feminine shape / lose visceral fat but keep my thighs?

Possibly gain even more overall but then hit the gym hard?

I'm going to start exercising but I'm hoping there's a way to keep my fat thighs without having to entirely replace them with muscle

Munchies:
You initially said that you'd make her eat only the calories she needs to eat during her pregnancy. This is what I'm taking issue with.

Besides, even outside of kink, controlling what a pregnant woman gets to eat never ends well for the other person.

Still, it would be best to consult medical professional about what is best for mother and baby. Based on our previous conversations, you still have a lot to learn about basic nutrition.

I am confused why you are so hesitant to involve medical professionals. As far as I can tell, Romania has free healthcare. So, even though you've told me that you're poor, wouldn't you be able to take her to the doctor?

Nijjrtman8:
Public healthcare here isn't free for minors much less for adults which pay their dues to the state

Munchies:
Feedism isn't without risk. Diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, joint damage

Munchies:
Sure, there are some women who will be able to gain through their pregnancy and be none the worse for wear. But not every woman is like that. And the only way to be safe about it is to make sure she has access to medical care.

Nijjrtman8:
What makes them different?
Also,unfortunately "risky kink behaviour" is the only way for me to make kids without the help of viagra
And for me making kids is one of top goals so it is very essential I accomplish

Munchies:
Munchies:
You are not thinking about this hypothetical feedee wife as a person. You are thinking of this hypothetical feedee wife as an object.

I see this all the time on FF. No matter how much a feeder loves their feedee, if they treat them as an object, things won't go well.

Nijjrtman8:
I do not understand how I am thinking of her as an object? I will not force her to do anything,just convince her that it would be best to eat much less during the pregnancy for her own sake and comfort
Is there something bad about this?

Munchies:
There is a difference between being poor and having kids versus engaging in risky kink behavior without having access to medical care and having kids.

Do not conflate the two.

Nijjrtman8:
What do you mean by risky kink behaviour?

Munchies:
You don't make her do anything. She is her own person. If you are worried about her, you can have a conversation.

I'm a domme feeder. I can't make my sub feedee do something he didn't consent to do. Even though he gladly submits to me and loves to please me, I can't expect him to suddenly eat less after I stretched his stomach out. It's unreasonable.

Nijjrtman8:
But you said that I should take care of her and that if she keeps gaining during her pregnancy it will make her even more tired
Wouldn't the smart thing to do be spacing the gaining phases especially when she is pregnant?

Munchies:
It's very simple.

Don't have kids if you are unable to take care of them.

Nijjrtman8:
Are you trying to say that most of the country of Romania should stop having kids?
Are you trying to say that most africans should stop having children?

Munchies:
But if you cannot obtain the medical care than your hypothetical family needs, it is wiser to wait until you are.

Nijjrtman8:
What if that may never come?

Munchies:
It's not an exact science. But, if she has a family history, has had pregnancy complications in the past, or if she's having a high risk pregnancy, it's more likely she will have complications.

Also, keep in mind that if she does keep gaining consistently through her pregnancy, she may become more tired than if she kept her weight under control. So, if you go that route, you'll need to step up and help her.

And she'll really need you after she gives birth. Pregnancy and birth are hard on the body. And taking care of a baby (especially a newborn) is even harder. Don't be surprised if she wants to take a break from actively gaining.

Nijjrtman8:
How would I make her eat just what her body needs in terms of calories if she regularly overeats?