Site verification

AaronM:
So I'm trying to get verified as well, but I can only seem to get my profile 97% complete.

Can someone please have a look at my profile and see if I'm missing anything?

Maybe the last 3% is just getting verified? If so I already sent a verification photo and I wait a bit.

Thanks in advance!


Looking at your profile, I think I see the problem. You didn't fill out the dating section. It's possible to have your profile 100% complete and not be verified. I know this because I'm not verified and my profile is at 100%.
2 years

Dear ladies of ff

AaronM:
Well, as you said: the guys are the perpetrators and the patriarchy is the system that allows it happen for the most part. Perhaps you should address them instead of the ladies?

Not sure what women can do about it other than learn a very high level of Kung fu...


Honestly? There's only so much. The sad truth is that no matter what we do or say, most men will not listen until another man says something.

Also, patriarchy is not just a case of gross men being gross. It's also systematized as well. So even if we somehow got every man on FF not to be gross towards women, it wouldn't solve the problem entirely. However, it would help immensely. The more allies we women have, the better.
2 years

Being a feeder

MarieTrans:
He's mad at me because of a misunderstanding that I tried to clear up but he wouldn't listen


Yeah, I'm getting those vibes from squish. But, suddenly, the trans statement makes a little more sense.
2 years

Being a feeder

IAmSquish:
Just gonna say.... I was there, in chat when this whole thing happened. There are screenshots and perhaps someone needs to get their story straight before bitching about it in public, where everyone can see, and comment. As it is a free platform.

Munchies:
What happened?

IAmSquish:
People were causally chatting, having a good time, then that topic came up. No one was initially attacked and there was a misunderstanding that was tried to be cleared up, but it was like a person didn't want to see it. Then it fizzled as the topic was changed.
I know that might be vague, but that is all I will say on it. The people who were there know the truth.


Duly noted.
2 years

Being a feeder

IAmSquish:
Just gonna say.... I was there, in chat when this whole thing happened. There are screenshots and perhaps someone needs to get their story straight before bitching about it in public, where everyone can see, and comment. As it is a free platform.


What happened?
2 years

Being a feeder

Miachu:
Damn this is crazy, let's see how this unfolds 🍿


I'm also shocked about the turn this took. I had an extremely mild take, too. Hardly controversial.
2 years

Being a feeder

ChunkyPeanutButter:
I read the first bit. It was very long which is why I stopped. It very much came off on “feeders Are supposed to feed, so if you say no you aren’t a feeder” which is why I stopped reading…


Do you realize how childish you are being right now? You are taking things out on a person who wrote several paragraphs validating your situation. The only I disagreed with you about is comparing your experiences to transphobia.

You need to take 5 minutes to cool your head and realize that not everyone who disagrees with you on something is against you.

If you don't want to read what I wrote, that's fine. But you don't get to make assumptions about me based on your incomplete perceptions.
2 years

Being a feeder

ChunkyPeanutButter:
Not sniping at all. Tired of being told I am not a feeder because I won’t feed everyone. And the first few words of your long comment, were saying that. So I didn’t read it. I’m a feeder and tire
D of being told I’m not because o so it just feed everyone who wants to eat.


No. The first few sentences were about why you shouldn't compare your situation to transphobia. The rest of my message was about why you are experiencing what you are experiencing and what you can do about it.

Why are you making judgements about my opinions without even reading my opinions? Don't you realize you are doing the very thing you say you hate being done to you?
2 years

Being a feeder

ChunkyPeanutButter:
I’m just sick and tired of “you won’t boy me food? You aren’t a feeder than” like I’m a feeder, my girlfriend isn’t a feedee, but I’m still a feeder.

Me spending money doesn’t change that. I was told in the chat on here that because I won’t feed random feedees; I am not a feeder


Yeah. Still doesn't mean you have to snipe at a fellow feeder.
2 years

Being a feeder

ChunkyPeanutButter:
A feeder feeding multiple feedees is like a guy dating multiple women…


I also want you to understand that feeding someone has a different level of significance to different people. On the low end, feeding someone is just a fun thing to do. It's all no strings attached, and everyone has a good time. On the other end, feeding is a sacred bond that should only happen with someone important to you.

None of these approaches are wrong. It just comes down to what's right for you.
2 years