AaronM:
Well, as you said: the guys are the perpetrators and the patriarchy is the system that allows it happen for the most part. Perhaps you should address them instead of the ladies?
Not sure what women can do about it other than learn a very high level of Kung fu...
Honestly? There's only so much. The sad truth is that no matter what we do or say, most men will not listen until another man says something.
Also, patriarchy is not just a case of gross men being gross. It's also systematized as well. So even if we somehow got every man on FF not to be gross towards women, it wouldn't solve the problem entirely. However, it would help immensely. The more allies we women have, the better.