^^^^^^^ what Ahr said!

And for that matter, if you both want this, why not have some fun with it? He could be providing more desserts, or maybe go shopping for some larger clothes he'd like you to fill. By getting him to participate then I think you can both relax about it more as well as enjoy it more.

I'm not specific to SSBBW, but for me, generally being most attracted to fatter women "just is." In much the same way that I'm attracted to women, (not girls, not horses, etc). Since I can remember they have just been 'my type.'

Body size is not the only factor in who I'm attracted to, by any means, but it is probably the single strongest physical factor.

And of course, I think because of general societal views, most fat people have had to deal with a little less of a privileged social position in life, which sometimes results in being more empathetic, self-aware, and prone to develop strengths beyond looks--so that helps too in the non-physical category.

Typically we go for Christmas dinner at my sister's on Christmas eve, then on Christmas day my wife must show that she is a better cook by making something amazing, then my parents host a huge boxing day brunch for a couple of dozen people, with food flowing around for hours, so it is easy to eat all that I can still fit in.

By the end of that three day stretch I'm generally really stretched out.

I finally tried this on the weekend, just a cup of half and half with that much Dr pepper. Taste was OK, it went down easy, but wow did it make me feel full...but still hungry. Gut all swollen up, but as I went along the street doing chores I ended eating a huge cookie, a chocolate croissant, and some maple candy. Seems to be a kind of perfect stuff to gain concoction!

Thanks!

What ratio of the two do you like to use? (I want to try this sometime, but might as well learn from the expert first!)

This is very much a "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink"type of situation. But of course you do your best to at least lead her to water.

The easier thing is convincing her totally that you find her attractive. You can joke, be sincere, get romantic, show her with actions, looks, and words.... In short don't back off, but step it up, until she is saying" I know you think I'm sexy and beautiful, but....."

Then you can play the card that you won't let anyone insult your gf ...... Including your gf. This can be a relationship test--is she more commited to her view of the world, or you? If the former, it could be rocky, so tread carefully. But don't let her insult herself, or not go out, or not wear nice things. If you can afford it, jewelry might be good here....it is reasonable to ask her to wear stuff you have given her, it may well draw compliments, and it makes a statement to the whole world about how you see her.

And finally be part of her taking good care of herself. Encourage vegetables, getting enough sleep, going for walks, limiting salt and sugar to something reasonable, etc. It is a lot easier to feel better about yourself when you actually feel good physically.

But all of that is just leading her to the water, the rest is all her.

Good luck.

In the early going you can gain a fair bit of food weight. Much of that weight will be stuff in her digestive track, only a part will be permanent fat.

In a few days of stuffing I can go up around ten pounds, but once back to normal eating only a couple of those will stick around.

I'm not coming back, because I never left, lol. But I'm good with my current, very casual and very fun, guild. There are still millions of people having fun with this game

I love that you did this with champagne! Fill up with only the best ingredients :-)

(and some day, I must try this....)