It took me a good 6 months to get weight to actually stick on me when I first started to gain.
Don't get all discouraged just keep up your plan and don't weigh yourself every day.

Thanks for the reply so I have learned something new.

I keep seeing posts about this and find it fascinating.
What is it about it that makes it erotic?
I searched You Tube at least a year ago and never found any real concrete reasons as to why people do it.
No other info online about it and it seems to be a subject people just don't study.
One thing I learned being here is that both men and women do this.
Clue me in on why you do it?

Better than being the bass player.LOL

Same old same old work, sleep,work.

I think it did in my case. I lost a little over 100 lbs for ankle surgery and when I regained the weight I ended up with a lower belly that was flabby whereas I didn't have it prior to the weight loss.

I have had way more people compliment an outfit than I have on than tell me I look terrible because I am too fat.
The main thing is have respect for yourself and dress as nicely as you can.
Think about what you are wearing is what I mean.
Just because you may be very large doesn't mean you can't dress properly and look decent.

I agree most people are to wrapped up in their world to pay attention to people around them.
I find the people that do notice are fat themselves.

Welcome to the reality of gaining weight.
You will be buying clothes more often.
When I was an active gainer I would shop at Goodwill or consignment shops for jeans/leggings and skirts.

I hear ya Juan.
Once I got a lot fatter I would try to hide mine a bit with longer tops so I get the self conscious thing.