Many feedees report being very conflicted about gaining when they start out.
But after they gain some indeterminate amount--after they "get over the hump"--their doubts about gaining go away.
Reasons can be:
They enjoy it more than they thought.
Whatever they feared about it turns out not to be (much of) a problem.
They realize how hard it would be to change their minds and go back to being thing and so just accept it.
Have you had this experience? How much did you have to gain before you were over the hump? Was it a sudden epiphany or a gradual thing?
If you have any details to share, feel free.
8 years
AskDrFeeder:
Do you ever eat so much you can't take a deep breath? If so, how often do you eat like that?
Cgarbo55:
I've done it for the past 4 days
I've got no hard data on this but: I've noticed that people who binge like that once a week or more often lose control and can't stop gaining, even if they manage to stop stuffing like that.
Some love it so much they don't care, but others find it problematic.
8 years
Do you ever eat so much you can't take a deep breath? If so, how often do you eat like that?
8 years
I can certainly imagine scenarios where I would.
E.g. say I coaxed her into gaining, and she ended up getting bigger than she liked and couldn't lose the weight. Even if she had made the choice to gain herself and had accepted the risk, I'd feel guilty.
8 years
Just keep tabs on which of her clothes fit. Don't let her throw away clothes that are too tight.
8 years
This solution to this problem is the FAs' Holy Grail.
It's the problem I always had with larger women I met outside of the community. Women usually like it if you like their bodies, but it's not socially acceptable (in most circles) to start with that.
I always felt like I had to figure out some other, more normal way to connect with them, a kind of "cover story". Of course it's nice to find such a story anyway, as it means you have common interests, but it can be challenging to figure that out based on one encounter. I wasn't that smooth with women anyway (contrary to myth), and this additional complication made it really tough.
I think going through the community or through tinder would be a great way to go; however, there are advantages to meeting people through common friends.
Let me know if you ever solve this problem!
8 years
This case may be consensual, but stealth feeding is so messed up that I don't think we should share stealth feeding tips on here.
8 years
One feedee told me she got nagged about her weight when she began gaining, but after a certain point her friends and family gave up. I guess they didn't LIKE that she was fat (and getting fatter) but they accepted it.
Anyone else experience this?
If so:
How much did you gain before they started nagging?
How much more did you gain before they stopped?
8 years
