AskDrFeeder:
People have given up trying to get you to lose weight.
real
11 months
just following your appetite and being consistent is more than enough to gain it doesn’t need to be cramming endless calories into your mouth some of us have actual stuffing fetishes we want to be miserabley full don’t conflate people who do 20k calorie feats with people who are just trying to gain, also no one does 20k calorie everyday consistently that would wreak absolute havoc on just about every aspect of your body.
11 months
Munchies:
If you can come up with all these reasons why it's inappropriate to talk about your sexual fetishes with your parents and still ask why someone finds talking about sexual fetishes with their parents, I worry about you.
Enas:
Well, you had used the word unhealthy to describe what i described as inherent honesty.
I disagree, i think honesty is healthy for a community and its individuals, in general. And thats why i had asked why.
The reasons that i gave are still valid, but they dont at all have to do with honesty itself or the honest person, but, as i said for the first two, they exist in the very specific context of our sick society. In other words, the reason that telling your parents about this is not a good idea, even if you feel the need to, is because society is so bad it wont even allow you that!
I hope that made sense?
I only want to feel accepted and welcomed as a fat person when it comes to friends and family i don’t need to know what gets my family members off just like I don’t need to tell them I get off to having a stuffed belly and gaining weight. There’s no essential truth being lied about it’s just not appropriate.
12 months
Munchies:
What I wanna know is why do people wanna tell their family about their kinks?
Ngl, that's weird. Even if you were vanilla, your fam ain't wanna know what revs your engine.
Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think he wants to explain his kinks, I think he just anticipates criticism for putting on lbs cause he’s always been skinny. Obvi I’m not him so I can’t say if that’s what he means but I’ve encountered enough people who ask questions like his.
Munchies:
Makes sense, even though I don't agree with telling your parents about your sexual interests as a general statement.
I dunno, maybe I'm just built differently. When I was gaining, I just bullied my family into not talking about my body.
100%
12 months
Faust:
Personally while I’ve gotten comments on my weight gain, nobody has asked me about it so far. I feel like it’s a bit taboo to ask things like that typically
While I have received comments, unsolicited diet advice etc no one has out right ever asked why I’m getting fat, suggested I was doing it on purpose or anything of that sort.
You’re exactly right it’s inappropriate and rude to put someone on the spot like that, and generally people don’t or aren’t out to cause other people distress unless there’s an ulterior motive
12 months
Munchies:
What I wanna know is why do people wanna tell their family about their kinks?
Ngl, that's weird. Even if you were vanilla, your fam ain't wanna know what revs your engine.
I don’t think he wants to explain his kinks, I think he just anticipates criticism for putting on lbs cause he’s always been skinny. Obvi I’m not him so I can’t say if that’s what he means but I’ve encountered enough people who ask questions like his.
12 months
Also you don’t need to explain how people understand if you eat more than you burn you gain weight lol
12 months
I wouldn’t sweat it, trust me.
We fetishize being fat so weight gain to us is naughty but to most people it’s just something that happens
12 months
