AskDrFeeder:
We all have various sexual tendencies, caused, no doubt by genetic and environmental factors that differ from on individual to the next. Feedism is one such tendency. Autosexuality is another. Feedees are feedists with an extra dose of autosexuality .

Duncan:
Thanks for this wonderful answer Munchies, this is exactly my position so far. Trouble is, I couldn’t have this discussion about her insecurity so far… Working on that !

I think she is so conscious about her because she is very clever (I insist on that point). I think she tends to develop theories on her life instead of simply enjoying it. This is one of the reasons why I am procrastinating on this discussion and live in a globally satisfying status quo. Maybe not all topics can be talked over?…

Duncan:
So, I never thought I would be that desperate about my fantasies but I think I will need some help. I would like to get opinions and suggestions about my story.

So, my wife and I are a stable couple, two kids. My wife always had a tendency to overeat and has always been a full figure, though except in the few years when we met and married. She is much rounder now after the births and her body hypnotises me so much that I just cannot not think about her literally every minute. I would like to see her embracing herself and feel more sexy about her weight… and additionally I would like us to take more intimacy time.

Unfortunately she appears very self-conscious about her weight. She gets a little mad when I touch her belly (which drives me totally crazy) and simply tells me that "she feels being touched" meanwhile showing very little emotions. She is speaking about loosing weight but doesn’t really act.

I am almost afraid to bring a discussion about how much her weight drive my emotions as I think she will find me suspiciously insistant and could get irritated.

Any other topic of discussion is going extremely well, but how much I love her waistline seems to be a taboo.

Just a precision: we live in France now but we are from North America. We have theoretically direct access to all croissants and pastries we want.

Any ideas?

Munchies:
It's not so much that the feedee makes the feeder fat as it is being in an environment that encourages that behaviour makes it easy to give in.


Canuck:
this was totally how i went from being fit to being fat, to start with... my girlfriend at the time was already super-sized and not interested in gaining, so i wasn't even acting as a "feeder" per se. but she had a really big appetite, for food and for drink, and was a bit of a gourmand. we went out to eat a lot, and for drinks, and it was those habits that rubbed off on me.

and going to the gym in the morning isn't that attractive when you are exhausted from staying up late, and a little bit hungover, lol.

i think environment and lifestyle are huge. that's probably why you see so many fat families - everyone is just eating the same stuff, behaving similarly.

Burnerforwagie:
My favorite thing about this fetish was the contrast between my toned, fit body and my feedee bf’s body. By the time he reached his goal I did weigh a few pounds in fat more, but it realistically wasn’t something hard to bounce back from. A few pounds turns to skinnyfat, and before I realize it the idea of gaining is a sudden turn-on. Quarantine happens and I stop going to the gym, start eating with my “feedee” (if you can still call him that) and take heavy cream before bed. Fast forward to now, and we both can pass as the obese foodie blimp in the relationship XD
I know a good amount of “feeder turned feedee” stories exist out there, but should feeders actually be conscious about this kind of situation going in?

Hhhggg:
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I am quit sure that you will get that belly in no time.
Getting oral for being stuffed will make 95% of men eat .

Greentrees8733:
Okay *yes* effective, but no pavloving without consent lol

Angy523:
There is no "pavloving", I swear 😅 We have sex often anyway and it's not my fault I get horny when he eats much. Anyway, I don't think it's considered as pavloving if 1-2 out of 3-4 times a day happens to be after he eats. Also, we both gained weight lately so even if it was, it didn't work well.

Gorochu:
Fun fact, don't panic if you lose weight at some point, you are going to lose muscle mass.

May your transition goes as smooth as the curves you'll grow!

Danieeelo:
How advisable would it be to take contraceptives to enlarge the breasts?

Mikk707:
Thank you so much for all the great advices, I’ll make sure to buy double the amount

We agreed to go shopping for snacks of her choice, but I’ll make sure what ever she orders at McDonald’s I’ll order two of them

And perfect, I’ll make sure to not only rub her belly but all over, and should I wait until she’s almost finished eating to pleasure her ?