BigBoyBravery:
Oh, I fully agree! I meant more in terms of dating. But, the same certainly still applies either way
While it's important to keep yourself groomed, I feel that certain aspects of appearance are overblown. Yes, you want your potential SO to find you attractive. However, a good partner will love you as you are. Don't gotta be a Chad or Stacy to land a loving partner who thinks you're the bee's knees.
2 years
Sphys:
Alright, I'll keep that in mind then, and how should the diet following the 2 weeks be? Should it be similar to what they've been eating but simply lessened in quantity? Such as to the point of being full rather than a food coma for example. And what were some of the variables I should pay attention to?
Personally, I recommend eating like normal. Don't stuff yourself crazy. Make sure you're eating healthy food. Stuff like that. Remember, it's all about giving your body a chance to recover from what you did as you were stuffing yourself to the brink.
As for the variables? Well, that really depends. I highly encourage you to see a doctor at least once a year because this fetish isn't without risks.
Other variables include your metabolism, how well you cared for yourself during gaining cycles, money, food access, ect.
2 years
Sphys:
How long should the adjustment time usually be? Would it be something like a month after a two week rush or what?
The break time period depends on the person as there are a lot of differing variables. But a month should be fine.
2 years
Seeing people get fat is, generally speaking, attractive. However, knowing your directly responsible is even better.
Celiamarie:
Absolutely! And then thinking about how I'll make her even fatter later...[/quote]
It's the best.
There are clothes that my partner will never wear again because he destroyed them with his fat. It's great.
2 years
Celiamarie:
For myself, I think a lot of what I enjoy with my feedee inherently comes with the fattening. While I enjoy watching her eat, it's the fact that I know that every bite is making her fatter that gets me.
Seeing people get fat is, generally speaking, attractive. However,
knowing your directly responsible is even better.
2 years
Sphys:
Cycles?
Yes. They gain as much as possible for a certain period of time before taking a break.
For example, you might gain as much as you can for two weeks before giving your body time to adjust.
2 years
PrimitiveDesires:
Definitely don't have to grow or fatten someone to be a feeder. Most of my jobs have been in kitchens for the simple fact that I love to cook food and sharing it with others. Not even in a sexual way it's just satisfying to feed people, to hear what flavors or textures they like and watching then enjoy their food.
Granted when it comes to a partner or an individual whom I find very attractive, then sure I'm full of deeper desires to fatten them up and play into the other sides of being a feeder.
As a home cook, I find it very satisfying when people enjoy my cooking. It's not even a fetish thing. It's about a job well done. I'd say it's on par with making a well-received painting.
2 years
Sphys:
As the subject says, I'm new, so I don't really know how stuff works and I thought I might as well ask a couple of here rather than trying to figure out what exactly to google.
On that note, first is something every new guy probably asks; is there any sort of relatively healthy way to gain? I know that after a point the weight itself will cause issues unavoidably, but is it possible to get someone to reach large sizes, maybe say a range of 300+ or 400 or something for example, without such a concern for diabetes or such? Or is that a pipe dream you'll only see in fiction?
If there isn't such a safe way to go about it, then what's generally considered the best way? Does using muscle shakes work fine or does that cause problems I forgot to consider? Since I dunno how diet stuff works
Thanks for anyone that helps, I might have other questions but that's what comes to mind for now
Slow and steady wins the race. It's extremely tempting to do rapid gains. However, they are unsustainable for a number of reasons. Examples include:
Gaining faster than your body can handle
Food is expensive
Clothes are expensive
Struggling to meet your calorie goals
Indigestion and constipation
The list goes on. Some of this can be avoided if you gain in cycles like a lot of uses here that do rapid gains.
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
what the heck is consensual non-consent
PolyPinoyPuppy:
There are hundreds of articles that can explain it better within more traditional BDSM contexts. Within feederism it would be something like tying your struggling feedee to the bed as you fill their stomach with gainer shake as they protest being "force-fed,"maybe with some kidnapping roleplay, but where you both agree to the activity beforehand, because the feedee would get off to that kind of domination, and have tools like safewords and pre-negotiated hard-boundaries to avoid actually violating the feedee's consent.
Some people get off on feeling helpless and under someone else's control. My partner loves it when I'm being an evil feeder - goes out of his way to get me in that mood.
Of course, there are regular check ins and I keep the situation highly monitored. We have a safe word, but he's never needed to use it.
2 years
Munchies:
Being a feeder means different things to different people. There's so much diversity that the most succinct way to describe it is "a person who likes to feed."
That said, I get off on spoiling my feedee and being responsible for his transformation.
S67:
I see! Thank you for replying[/quote]
Of course! I also want to point out that being a feeder doesn't mean that you also have a weight gain kink or even a fat kink. There are feeders who enjoy feeding, but prefer slim or in-shape feedees. There's also feeders that enjoy fat partners, but aren't interested in the weight gain aspect.
There are so many different ways to be a feeder that a vague definition is really the only way to include them all.
2 years
