Fantasy Feeder

Footwear?

Morbidly A Beast:
I am on my feet all day at work (I move a lot, not very fast but a lot) and by the end of the day I find myself in absolute pain (I’m used to some pain after a long day but wow) I’ve gotten a new pair of shoes with good cushioning and they didn’t do anything. Is this just part of being over 400 pounds or do I need something a bit more on my feet because I’m so big now? What have you or your fatty done for feets. I thought at first it cause I was out of shape but I don’t really have a problem moving so I’m not **that out of shape. Or do I just need to tough it out for a bit longer to get the feet’s back in shape?

RobbyP:
Title- Does Walking Barefoot Have Health Benefits?

www.healthline.com/health/walking-barefoot

I've walked barefoot and with minimal- or non-padded footwear for over 20 years now, worked in manual labor before and only spent one day in shoes which were slightly tight. There was quite a bit of soreness that evening, and from then on I only wear shoes which aren't tight at all, even if they're slightly loose. My feet remain comfortable. Padding should probably be treated like training wheels on a bike- there to protect initially, but will hinder development if used for too long.

Barefoot shoes are nice and all, but if he is in all that pain with cushion, they won't help his situation.

Barefoot shoes offer no support at all. Padding in and of itself isn't harmful. For some people, it's extremely necessary to function. But all padding isn't created equally.

He might need different support. Could need some orthopedic shoes. Honestly, a trip to the podiatrist may be in order.

All that said, being 400+ lbs is hard on the body. If you are on your feet all day and it hurts, that's not unusual. This can be alleviated somewhat by strengthening your lower body. Still, 400+ lbs is a lot of weight to support. There's a reason you see the 400+ lbs crowd sit a lot.

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Are double chins turn offs,turn offs or neutral for you?

TacticalMilk:
Kinda curious on peoples opinions about this since i got mixed opinions on them from my friends, also ive slowly been growing one and now its very difficult to hide my double ching while tilting my head

I'm neutral. That said, a round face and double chin can make some people look adorable.

I don't want a double chin, however. This is less about the double chin and more about it making me look like a certain relative that I despise.

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Help me humiliate my piggy (female feeder/female feedee)

Celiamarie:
Hello FF ❤️

We're a lesbian couple who have been playing with the feeder lifestyle since 2020.

Recently, we've began taking it to the next level. My piggy loves humiliation, especially if there's a light public element (think: taking her to the beach in last year's bikini, so everyone can see her fat rolls spilling out). We've only just discovered this forum and we'd love to hear what sort of humiliation you've put your feedee through?

We're especially interested in food play, elements of exhibitionism, and verbal degradation. Both food-based and sexual suggestions are appreciated, but it needs to have some sort of feeder element.

Thank you! Celia xx

It's been pretty light for me on the humiliation front. I've made him be a pig in public many a time before - usually by making him stuff his face all day as he goes about his normal routine. Coworkers, strangers, friends, ect.

I've also have forbade him from sizing up until he's destroyed his clothing with his fat. The day he wore a too tight button down and destroyed every button when he sat down too hard is forever in my spank bank.

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Fair feederism economics

Enas:
And to explain my take, i think that here (as with everything else) communication is key. It's not right of a feedee to try to play with their feeder to earn money, suppose they're also in a relationship (and not just... Content on the we

In other words, if it's a relationship, please love each other, first and foremost! 😅
And only after that... money shall be given by one member, for the other. If both persons have a clear mind, are both aware of what's going on and are okay with it.
Having said the above, i have to admit something for myself, as part of a relationship I'd love to be completely taken care of by my feeder. As part of the fetish (which whould be perfectly okay to stay in fantasy or RP if i dont find a partner who's okay with it and willing to sacrifice her resources and time, so i can just sit around and stuff myself)
Maybe, i could put it that, I'd love to be dependent on my feeder. And that extends to the economical level. But that's from my pov! The reality is that... I'd be kind of a leach to my feeder, and i dont know how to feel about that :c
Of course that might never happen, but the idea turns me on! And I'd just like to hear any advice, thoughts you may have on this (as well) and if its... well... fair!

As a feeder, I don't mind paying for things. Plus, I really enjoy spoiling my partner. However, ours is not a sugar mamma - sugar baby relationship.

If someone agrees to being a feedee's sugar parent(?), then that's fine. If it's a business relationship where one person pays to feed the other, that's also fine. It's all about everyone being on the same page and being upfront about your expectations.

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Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
He is 207lbs already. I'm not sure he's 100% comfortable with is weight, but I try to remind him every time how handsome and attractive I see him. Lately he even started to use his belly to put me in the mood. Either he starts to play with his belly or he just pulls my head on his belly to make me kiss it. I just love that, I'm really lucky to be with him.

🥳

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I want to be fat, but i dont want to be fat...

Jolene:
Being 450lbs, certain things i am having a really hard time with... Standing up from sitting, walking more than a few hundred feet, i cant reach myself to shave or even masturbate anymore, and i understand why- what i dont get, is why it hurts so damn much. I am literally in pain no matter what i do. Every muscle and joint in my body hates me,

I love how much my boobs have grown lately, i love how all the extra padding on my body feels all the time, i love food and i love the idea of being fatter, but its killing me, literally and figuratively, and then the next problem- i cant afford it...

I feel like losing weight is impossible now, but i also feel like gaining anymore will be signing an early death warrant....

What do i do?

My advice is to do things to improve your health. Don't focus so much on weight loss (even though that will probably happen to some extent).

Eat less processed food. If you know how to cook, learn some delicious but healthy recipies. Hop into a pool and do some water based exercises. Make sure you have a support network too.

It's not impossible to lose weight. Heck, you don't even need to become slim and trim. Just get to a point where your body can handle the weight. You can do at least that much.

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Feedism + fame = ???

BigBoyBravery:
If you were in the public eye, would you delete your FF account?? Are there any famous people who are open about feedism?

In terms of mainstream famous people? I think the closest is Tammy Slaton from 1,000 Sisters. And even that was a stretch because she used to date a feeder.

Seeing that feedism is widely condemned, I don't think any celebrity would be caught with an FF account.

You can get away with being a chubby chaser. Big people need love too, after all. But actively contributing to obesity? Yeah, I don't think that would bode well.

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Watching someone eat as a feeder: is it appealing to you?

ES-Draws:
I may be in the minority here, but I actually don't enjoy watching someone eat.

I like all the accoutrements of overeeating. Like, if they unbutton their pants, or cradle their belly, or groan with fullness. But if someone is just...eating? Not really into it, personally.

Now, if we're talking about drinking? Totally about that. Watching someone chug a fattening liquid is 10/10 attractive to me.

Makes sense.

Another reason I find seeing my partner eat is that it gives me the urge to sit on his face.

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Finding a balance between fitness and gaining.

Fatboi898:
And if you find someone who’s skinny there’s no way to tell it they’ll like you that way finding a bigger person will allow you to potentially indulge the experience more or make it easier on the relationship as I know this can be straining for some

This is why communication is key. You won't know anything until you talk about it.

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Finding a balance between fitness and gaining.

BigBoyBravery:
Oh, I fully agree! I meant more in terms of dating. But, the same certainly still applies either way

While it's important to keep yourself groomed, I feel that certain aspects of appearance are overblown. Yes, you want your potential SO to find you attractive. However, a good partner will love you as you are. Don't gotta be a Chad or Stacy to land a loving partner who thinks you're the bee's knees.

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