Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

NocturnalDevotion:
[quote]LoraDayton:
I didn't say you couldn't. I literally said that ascribing your health to your size is by definition fat phobic. Size is not a determinant of health. *****And it really should make you think twice that if you get off on people being unhealthy by your own definition why you want that. Couldn't possibly be that there is a superiority complex where fat people are inferior right?*****

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That is exactly what I was thinking!!!


There's a lot of that on this site. I can't tell you how many times I've run into people (mostly feeders) who slide into my DMs to treat me like a play thing because they look at my weight and think I'm chubby. But once I tell them I'm actually muscular, they treat me a lot differently.
2 years

Hating myself for this fetish and being fatphobic to others out of self hatred

Curiousicey:
Everyone on this thread calling OP disgusting did u not read their post?
They were telling honest thoughts, im sure it took a lot and u come here to bash? Shame on you.


I did read their post. I read it twice. And based on what I read, I came to the conclusion I did.

If you want to take a more empathetic approach, more power to you. I won't stop you or shame you for it. However, I will call a spade a spade.
2 years

Sumo

Sumo wrestlers awakened me to this kink before I knew what kink even was. But, oddly enough, I do not care about Sumo as a sport.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Understandable, if i make a thread for it whould you be interested to talk there?


Nope. I have no interest in sustaining psychic damage about something I explained to your ad nauseam multiple times privately.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Okay, im trying to understand how it connects with groups, because, as you put it, it can be said that racism (let's say against black people specifically) is blackphobia, (and yes, i know you're a person of color, i just can't think a better example rn)

Munchies:
Why are you bringing race into this? This is a thread about fatphobia in a movie that has nothing to do with it?

But yes. It is.

And that is all I will say about this topic because it has nothing to do with the original topic, and frankly, this isn't the first time I've explained this to you.

Enas:
Again I'm only trying to figure out how you all perceive it, because it doesn't make sense to me to call it Fatphobia, I'm not saying it's any better than Fatphobia, could be a lot worse than it, i just don't think calling it this way is an accurate presentation of the subject, and it is really problematic when it comes to try to find a solution for it. Specifically, whatever solution you might propose, it won't solve what you're perceiving as Fatphobia. The thing that is propably confused is if it's rationality. It's not irrational thus i dont think it's Fatphobia. As Lora put it, that makes a HELLA lot more sense, it's propaganda!! It has a goal and builds a logic (accurate or not) that will lead to a conclusion that will serve a goal!

Is this bad? WAITTTT!!!
don't say yes, immediately. Let's analyze it before we go there! Let's have a rational discussion! Maybe we'll learn how to deal with it from that journey!!, or learn what's causing it! Sounds good?

Btw does the above make any sense to you? Im deliberately asking because i wanna make sure what i have in mind isn't so badly warped that it doesn't make sense on my text, or worse it doesn't sound like i have a different opinion entirely


I said that this is all I will say on the matter. You will get no further explanations from me.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Okay, im trying to understand how it connects with groups, because, as you put it, it can be said that racism (let's say against black people specifically) is blackphobia, (and yes, i know you're a person of color, i just can't think a better example rn)


Why are you bringing race into this? This is a thread about fatphobia in a movie that has nothing to do with it?

But yes. It is.

And that is all I will say about this topic because it has nothing to do with the original topic, and frankly, this isn't the first time I've explained this to you.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Can someone explain to me what Fatphobia is? Because I feel like i have a slightly different view. (mostly concerning the phobia) I really wanna know what do you all think it is


While the suffix "-phobia" is of Greek origin, it means more than "fear of" in the context of marginalized groups. It can also refer to feelings of hatred, revulsion, or simply perceiving someone as inferior just for being a part of that group.

While scores of people are terrified of fat (see diet culture for many different examples of this) most are not terrified of fat people. Instead, they view fat people as lesser for being fat. This can lead to a eide variety of negative perceptions and actions from not accommodating fat people's needs to fat shaming and more.
2 years

Quick question

Chubster87:
I've been intentionally gaining for the last 3 months..my appetite has increased a lot but every now and again I feel full very quickly after only eating a sandwich and I feel full for a day or two. What's going on?


A lot of people get like this after stuffing themselves like crazy. At some point, your body just needs time to process everything.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

LoraDayton:
Using the term "healthy sized" is actually fatphobic. Size is not determinant of health.


JustGetYouFatter:
I can use whatever terminology to define myself as I want. In my youth, I was healthy both mentally and physically. 150lbs later, I was both heavily depressed as well as pre-diabetic with fatty liver, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol.


Somebody woke up and ate nothing but lemons today.

It's kinda telling that your first response after being told "Don't say that because it's fat phobic" is to double down instead of asking for clarification.

It's even more ironic as the topic of this thread is about fatphobia.
2 years

Hating myself for this fetish and being fatphobic to others out of self hatred

Jelly Rolls:
So I’m not proud of my little fatphobia habit. I know I have hurt people yet I feel this compulsion to hurt people (fat acceptance and fat proud people) because I have this deep internalized disgusted feeling towards my sexuality. I have always harassed fat people and told them that they are fundamentally wrong for being ok/being positive about being fat. I do this because I think the fact that I am a feeder and feedee is fundamentally and morally wrong. I just feel a release of guilt when I put happy fat people down. I can’t stand myself for being into this stuff, yet then I am so drawn to it and think it’s so sexy. I just feel that I am a broken person and I like to repent for it by “doing what’s morally right” and bullying fat positive people into hating themselves and believing that they are bad people like me. I just don’t know how to cope with all this hate. I wish I felt free but I know that the world hates me like I hate myself. I wanna be fat and flabby and enjoy it but I can’t help but think I am disgusting.

Munchies:
You are disgusting, but not for being fat. You are disgusting for going out of your way to hurt people because you are hurting.

You need some therapy and do some soul searching. You are an emotionally stunted person who needs to grow up.

Anjou:
He is not disgusting; just lost and damaged.


I said what I said. He knows what he is doing is wrong, but he won't stop. That makes him disgusting.

Lost and damaged would be if had conflicting thought about gaining weight but didn't go out of his way to inflict pain and suffering onto others.
2 years