Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t understand why BMI is a worth while measure of anything of value, it is literally height divided by weight (or vice versa) there’s loads of very fit and muscley people who have similar BMI to me and I’m mostly fat. I understand BFP because that’s actually a measuring of the amount of fat on your body (maybe it wouldn’t be worth it to get BFP on someone who is visibly obese?) It seems like a way to categorize people and assign health or unhealth based on nothing being fat doesn’t make you necessarily unfit or unhealthy - and even if it did why would it matter

BMI is a reasonable indicator of body fat for both adults and children. Because BMI does not measure body fat directly, it should not be used as a diagnostic tool. Instead, BMI should be used as a measure to track weight status in populations and as a screening tool to identify potential weight problems in individuals.

ButterHimself:
For me I have always been fascinated for some reason by people who are generally fatter or have bigger bellies. Maybe it was a result of media and how fat people are portrayed, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve found myself being a lot more attracted to chubbier women in general. How do y’all this you obtained this kink?

FAMGM:
There is no “category” for all of those things. You’re obviously a feedist. Now just get on with exploring the fact of it, rather than worrying about the precise taxonomy.

Nijjrtman8:
What is a "feedist"?

FAMGM:
The fact you are here at all suggests you already know.

Or is it purely a random accident in an inherently chaotic universe that you have popped up here, on “fantasy feeder”, to ask what a feedist is?

Anyway, I’m off to bang my fat-faced, b-shaped mistress.

DoesntMatter01:
I never thought of a cruise as such of a potentially fun place for people like us 😅

Raboot The Admirer:
Absolutely. I can relate with a lot of what's been said on this thread.

Fat men always made me "feel funny", even before I started discovering my sexuality. After I actually developed and understood what sexual attraction was, for a long time I kept my preferences hidden. Sometimes I would stop and think about what would happen if the people I knew found out about what I like, and it was a bit scary for me.

Since I came out of the closet, however, I'm much more ok about it. I'll never reveal the feedism part of it but my friends know about my type. Telling them was a weight off my shoulders, (no pun intended). The sensation of being different never goes away but I'm not worried about it anymore. It doesn't make me inferior to everybody else!

Munchies:
I'm both an FA and a feeder. I enjoy actively making my partner fat as well as just enjoying his size.

Nijjrtman8:
I see,I thought that feeder was an umbrella term
As per what I said in the Opening post,what do you think I am into is called?

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you're asking about how you would be categorized on websites like this, I'd say fat appreciator.

Nijjrtman8:
Why a fat appreciator and not a feeder?
I would not mind fattening her myself

Munchies:
It is possible to be both. A feeder take an active role the the feedee's weight gain. An FA (fat admirer) takes a more passive interest. They also may or may not want their partner to gain weight

Nijjrtman8:
Can you be an FA and a Feeder at the same time? How would that work