BigBoyBravery:
Surely we need a whole section called 'Contrast: FFAs for Male Feedees' or something??
I've been thinking recently that I'd love to form a little community of like-minded folk, so I don't always feel like I'm the only one out here hehe 😜🙏🏾
Munchies:
FFAs for Male Feedees? My brother in Christ, that's just this site. Lotta female fat admirers and male feedees on here already.
BigBoyBravery:
My guy.. you missed out the most important part lol 😂 CONTRAST
Munchies:
That is still this site.
BigBoyBravery:
I can't tell if I've missed something or you're just picking holes in what I've said. 😅 This site is for all feeders and feedees, no? Well, I'm saying it would be cool if there was a section within this site for those of us who are specifically into male weight gain with partners who are trying to be stereotypically 'fit' or even 'muscular'. Much like the topic of this thread, but it'd be a whole section of the website or simply somewhere online that effectively facilitates the growth of a sub-community. (Maybe that already exists on this site and I've missed it. If so.. please send a link!)
Honestly, keeping things as is is for the best. There's already enough pressure for women on this site to look a certain way - even if they requirement is mostly unsaid. To have a verbalized expectation for a woman to look a certain way is further constricting.
2 years
ChunkyPeanutButter:
Tonight she said she’s my feedee! I adore this piggy
2seatsalways:
This reaction would make me feel cautious. Be careful here. Unless she has expressed interests in person and has shown you this feedee side make sure you aren't getting hurt in the process.
PolyPinoyPuppy:
I have to say, I have to agree with the sentiment here.
It may be because we're lacking context or insight into your communication styles, but I don't read much enthusiasm from that snippet of conversation--and that makes me worried that either you're being taken advantage of or she feels obligated to go along with this in order to continue receiving your support.
I hope I'm just being paranoid, though.
OP mentioned somewhere (can't remember if it was this thread or another) that he's into findom.
2 years
BigBoyBravery:
Surely we need a whole section called 'Contrast: FFAs for Male Feedees' or something??
I've been thinking recently that I'd love to form a little community of like-minded folk, so I don't always feel like I'm the only one out here hehe 😜🙏🏾
Munchies:
FFAs for Male Feedees? My brother in Christ, that's just this site. Lotta female fat admirers and male feedees on here already.
BigBoyBravery:
My guy.. you missed out the most important part lol 😂 CONTRAST
That is still this site.
2 years
BigBoyBravery:
Surely we need a whole section called 'Contrast: FFAs for Male Feedees' or something??
I've been thinking recently that I'd love to form a little community of like-minded folk, so I don't always feel like I'm the only one out here hehe 😜🙏🏾
FFAs for Male Feedees? My brother in Christ, that's just this site. Lotta female fat admirers and male feedees on here already.
2 years
Simonsunshineforever:
Hey guys.
So long Story Short my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years gained almost 30 kg in the first two years. She's now at almost 130 kg with a huge belly , massive tights and fluffy arms , a giant ass but still a cup boobs. And I'm wondering how that is even possible
Super simple. Everyone gains weight differently. Not only that, but your gf's body isn't unusual either.
2 years
Slixxx666:
I asked for advice. Not opinions. We have also talked about it. All good
We all gave you advice. The advice was to lay off. You just don't like how everyone came together and agreed you were being abusive.
The truth is that you weren't looking for advice. You were looking for validation. Because when you didn't hear what you wanted to hear, you got upset.
2 years
Somefeederguy1176:
This was helpful, thanks. While do want my future partner (very) large, I know for fact I would probably get frustrated in relationship in which I'm sole caretaker frustrating.
Having been a caretaker in a non-fetish way, I feel that most feeders into immobility are woefully unprepared - especially if they plan to be the sole caretaker.
2 years
Somefeederguy1176:
Hey,
Been lurking on site for a while now but I'm not sure where to post this question so I'll put it in the general forum here. How many feedee's actually want immobillity.
When I was previosly on this site, I got a lot of messages from feedees with profiles that established that immobility was an end goal. I don't think I want that from a partner... Would you say that this accounts for the majority of members on this site?
I ask because despite what my profiles say, I do hope to participate in this kink when money is no longer as tight. Any and all feedback is helpful
-Somefeedeeguy
From my conversations with a number of feedees and gainers, I'd day maybe 65% don't want to be immobile for real. It's strictly fantasy. But, there's still a good chunk of people who actively want to become immobile but don't have the means or are actively working towards it.
2 years
I very rarely lucid dream (doesn't help that I rarely dream). Personally I tend to go the flying route because I love feeling the rush of cool air over my limbs.
Also escaping the bad guys during chase scenes. It's like a high stakes game of tag. Love it.
2 years
Munchies:
Feedism is a taboo kink. For many people, sites like Fantasy Feeder are our only safe space for this kink. Unfortunately, too many of us are so focused on having a safe space to be feedist that we forget to make the space safe for our fellow feedists.
If we treat others the way we want, most problems in these spaces will be solved.
PolyPinoyPuppy:
This is well put. I think one issue is that people often lack empathy for different preferences and situations. It's too easy to assume that everyone wants what you want, be it a stuffing, pictures of genitalia, or astronomical weight gain.
Without being curious about other people's experiences and desires, we set ourselves up to fail at treating others with dignity and respect.
Yeah. I'm a sadistic domme, so I am extremely careful engaging others with my preferences. What might be a fun time to one person could be deeply traumatizing for someone else.
2 years
