Fantasy Feeder

Taking the plunge?

I notice a lot of feedees and gainers on this site don't want to gain unless they have someone to gain for. I get why. Having someone to love and support you through your changes is lovely.

Unfortunately, changing your body to please someone else never ends well. It's nice to have someone who loves they way you look, but ultimately, you should only do it for your own happiness.

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Story feedback forum

Letters And Numbers:
Is there any appetite here for a thread to get into more in-depth constructive criticism of some of the stories here? I was reading the comments of a story today that had a critique and it seemed to me that this might be a more organized format for technical criticism like that.

Could also just take a book club format where we all read one short story a week or longer story a month?

Any interest?

Munchies:
This looks interesting in theory. The downside, however, is that most fetish stories aren't good.

I'm not talking about the kink aspect of it. I believe that you can write about any subject matter and make it good. I'm talking about the hordes of poorly written stories on FF, DA, Dimensions, etc.

Letters And Numbers:
So there are the hordes for sure, but there are also some really great writers as well (here, and on the other sites) who choose to *also* write erotica instead of *only* writing it. Some of those stories could be more fun to read critically. And there are also authors who honestly might want to improve, even if all they want to do is write a better sexy story?

Fair.

I got my creative writing start with fanfiction. There's oodles of article, videos, workshops, etc on how to write a good story. There's even some about how to write a good sex scene. It'd be nice to have something similar in kink spaces.

It really helped the quality of my writing, that's for sure.

2 years

Munchies

Story feedback forum

Letters And Numbers:
Is there any appetite here for a thread to get into more in-depth constructive criticism of some of the stories here? I was reading the comments of a story today that had a critique and it seemed to me that this might be a more organized format for technical criticism like that.

Could also just take a book club format where we all read one short story a week or longer story a month?

Any interest?

This looks interesting in theory. The downside, however, is that most fetish stories aren't good.

I'm not talking about the kink aspect of it. I believe that you can write about any subject matter and make it good. I'm talking about the hordes of poorly written stories on FF, DA, Dimensions, etc.

2 years

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Are you like this as well?

Spike:
I am asexual.
I am in the feedism communities as i model and maybe one day someone will feed me so i wont starve

I also have a triple belly and that is unique so i felt it would add to the feedism community.

So yes, there are other aces that are "into" feedism. It is just not sexual for me. If I were full for once it would be nice ROFL . Other than that I just have a hobby of taking pics with the lipedema body I was given .

I want to add in that if you are sexual to a kink, that is your kink, i would not classify that as asexual as you can still get horny and sexual... youre just focused on a kink. a fetish. Asexual is the lack of sexuality XD It's like how some people cant get it up unless its bdsm, etc. Its a kink.

I thought asexuality was when you don't experience sexual attraction.

I know a handful of ace people. Some are sex repulsed. Some enjoy sex and sexy things. (I am not including demi people in this btw.)

Of course, I'm not ace, so I can only go by what I've seen and been told by other ace people. So I may have an imperfect understanding.

2 years

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Diabetic gaining

Eatingbi:
Hi, I have a female friend who recently discovered she was a feedee/gainer and waiting to gain. She is currently 253 and wanting moreto Initially gain to 300 and possibly more later. The thing is she is diabetic type 2 with insulin/other meds, and trying to best avoid carbs to control her blood glucose better. She is having trouble gain and has been losing a little weight because of it; we are also kinda on a budget. Any thoughts, ideas, or suggestions would be great. Thank you!

Nuts, high fat fish (e.g. salmon), avocados

Basically any food that's naturally high in fat. It will take longer to gain, but it won't spike her blood sugar. You can get nuts and avocados for cheap - not too sure about the salmon.

As a side note, I'm also a type II diabetic. I find that cinnamon is good for stabilizing blood sugar. If she can't eat enough to make an impact naturally, there are OTC supplements that you can get at your local Wal-Mart.

There are a lot of natural remedies for managing diabetes. She shouldn't stop taking her medicine, but it can help get it under control.

2 years

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Using mass gainers to gain?

Missjanie:
That’s totally fair, I’ve been stuck at 260-265 for months now no resolve

It might sound counter-productive, but have you considered losing weight? Nothing drastic. Maybe 10 lbs or so. Then, when you regain, you'll gain it all back plus more.

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Budget

Spike:
i survive on less than 20$ a month.
Mcdonalds used to have recipts where you can get a free burger, you can buy pasta roni and tings in bulk for under a dollar, i can get 40lbs of chicken from the farm for 40-60$ . etc.
There ARE ways and do not let anyone say there is not.
Not everyone makes money, some of us have disabilities and are poor.

Where there is a will, there's a way. You're clearly a creative and cleaver person.

2 years

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Health issues

A gentle reminder that weight gain isn't an all-or-nothing kind of thing. There are several approaches, and most people will need to change their approach over time.

You can gain weight one way with no issues for years and years. Then suddenly, it stops being the best way. Maybe your health takes a turn, your finances can't keep up, or other situations might crop up.

Changing methods isn't bad. In fact, it can have an overall positive impact on your weight gain journey.

2 years

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Taking the plunge?

Babyberry:
As of right now I've probably had this kink for 3 to 4 years. Always being interested in purposefully gaining weight but too hesitant to actually do it, despite accidental gains.
Is there a way to just take the plunge or to remove the doubts?

It helps to figure out what your doubts are and why you have them.

For example, some people don't want to gain weight because they won't be able to do everything they currently want to do. Others are worried about what other people think of them.

You gotta ask yourself in these things are really worth stressing over or not. It takes some soul-searching, but you'll be able to make a choice you'll be happy with in the end.

As a reminder, weight gain isn't an all or nothing kind of game. You can gain until you don't want to gain anymore. You can lose it later. You can gain a combination of muscle and fat.

The world's your oyster. You can have whatever body will make you happiest.

2 years

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Health issues

Boby:
hello!

i have been fat my whole life. i was a fat greedy kid, but as a teen, i struggled trying to get in shape. but soon i started dating guys and i realised that embracing my fatness and my curves was the best thing i could do.

since then, i gained weight, i love my fatrolls, my tits, my fat ass, playing with food... but now i think i reached my limit.

i've had heart issues last year, and now i'm overcoming my first gout episode. i don't want to lose weight nor bodyfat, but i got kinda worried.

anyone else had health issues here?

If you don't want to lose weight or body fat, then you at least to to make some dietary changes.

My partner had a gout flair up when we first met. I had him tweak his diet and drink lots of water. Cleared up on it's own and hasn't come back since.

www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/in-depth/gout-diet/art-20048524

Please continue to take any medication you've been prescribed.

Also, if you aren't already doing it, go in regular walks to support your heart health. Weight training exercises are good to help you tolerate your growing mass.

Also, there is nothing wrong with losing weight if your health gets worse than you can tolerate. At the very least, you can lose it until your health gets under control and regain it in a healthier manner.

2 years

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