Slixxx666:
Has anyone been involved with a feedee/partner/wife/husband who got cold feet? Why partner is feeling unsure now after almost 3 years. I love her but she weighs 445lbs. I love her but she is also almost 500. Should I lay off or just make her a half ton. I mean in all honesty she can barely sit up.

Slixxx666:
Nice. My partner is 445lbs. She seems unsure but whats another 65lbs for a half ton women!

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

Munchies:
Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?

J8o8h8n:
Nothing too crazy, just normal sized meals with some snacks in between them.

Munchies:
Honestly, it would be best to increase the portion size of your meals, but not too drastically. Have another helping or two. Maybe increase your snacks. Get used to feeling comfortably stuffed after you eat. If you want to push yourself, eat a little bit more, but nothing too crazy.

Also, don't focus on heavy meals. You'll struggle to digest and find yourself eating less than you planned. Instead, eat a good mix of things. Since you are focusing on your capacity, don't focus too much on calories. I promise the weight will come.

J8o8h8n:
You make valid points. Honestly, the breakfast that I ate was really filling and satisfying, once I tried to stuff myself with an even bigger lunch right afterwards, it was too much and made me feel sick and I wasn't really able to eat it all or anything else for a while afterwards.

Honestly, if I decide to go all in on gaining, I might look into starting my day with that breakfast, and then just eating as I normally would, just with slowly trying to increase the portions. Starting my day with a baseline of 3000 calories and a nice, filling, but not uncomfortably so, breakfast would likely cause my weight to increase substantially if I could keep it up consistently. Two sausage egg and cheese McGriddles, a Cinnamon Roll, a Large Mocha Frappe, and a Large Burger King Hashbrown isn't a ton of food, but it packs a ton of calories.

Ssbbwari:
The odd aspects of being morbidly obese.

Hi, I'm Amira. I've been gaining weight for over 9 years. During the duration of my journey l've discovered what many would find less appealing or odd. I found that eating has caused me to growl. Before I became aware I'd have friends & family become concerned about the noises my body produced. Whether it was a snack, or a dinner they'd mention the growling. At some point I did get fed up with the constant questions; "Are you okay?" "Do vou need help?" It was something I never understood until today, I finally caught on to what exerting had been so concerned about, it was like vibrating your mouth, or holding your breath and trying to speak. There isn't too many things to compare it too. Now that im aware of this I try to avoid doing it but somehow it just doesn't work! I'm not sure many others can relate to this.

Munchies:
I just want to add that a lot of people confuse capacity with calorie count. This is a mistake.

Capacity is all about volume. You can achieve this with no calories at all.

On the flip side, some foods are more calorie dense than others. 100 calories of one food may be a larger amount that 100 calories than another. Add onto the fact that some foods are harder to digest than others. So you may struggle to eat more with one food than the other.

J8o8h8n:
Definitely understand that. I mean, if I'm going to gain, I want to eat high calorie foods more frequently and increase my capacity so that I can eat even more of those high calorie foods (so it becomes kind of a gaining snowball lol).

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

Munchies:
Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?

J8o8h8n:
Nothing too crazy, just normal sized meals with some snacks in between them.

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

J8o8h8n:
Between eating my entire 3000 calorie breakfast and about 2500 calories of what is supposed to be my 3500 calorie lunch, I'm feeling pretty tired. Is this a normal feeling when you push yourself past feeling full? Gonna see if I can finish the rest of the meal off later today and, if it's not too much, I might do another smallish (1000 calorie or so) McDonald's meal tonight too. I feel like stuffing with 7500 calories in a day is a good start to a potential gaining journey (or at least a test gain lol).

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?