Did you feel ‘different’ growing up?

Raboot The Admirer:
Absolutely. I can relate with a lot of what's been said on this thread.

Fat men always made me "feel funny", even before I started discovering my sexuality. After I actually developed and understood what sexual attraction was, for a long time I kept my preferences hidden. Sometimes I would stop and think about what would happen if the people I knew found out about what I like, and it was a bit scary for me.

Since I came out of the closet, however, I'm much more ok about it. I'll never reveal the feedism part of it but my friends know about my type. Telling them was a weight off my shoulders, (no pun intended). The sensation of being different never goes away but I'm not worried about it anymore. It doesn't make me inferior to everybody else!


Kudos to you! I'm glad you have people in your life who love and accept you.
2 years

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

Munchies:
I'm both an FA and a feeder. I enjoy actively making my partner fat as well as just enjoying his size.

Nijjrtman8:
I see,I thought that feeder was an umbrella term
As per what I said in the Opening post,what do you think I am into is called?


Ngl, there's a lot of possible fetishes listed and I am hesitant to label you as I don't know you.

You seem to have feeder, FA, sadistic, dom, and voyeur tendencies. I say this because you and I have similar interests and I know what I am. But I don't know you well enough to say how accurate that take is nor to what degree.

It's better to figure it out yourself over time than let internet strangers tell you what think you are.
2 years

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you're asking about how you would be categorized on websites like this, I'd say fat appreciator.

Nijjrtman8:
Why a fat appreciator and not a feeder?
I would not mind fattening her myself

Munchies:
It is possible to be both. A feeder take an active role the the feedee's weight gain. An FA (fat admirer) takes a more passive interest. They also may or may not want their partner to gain weight

Nijjrtman8:
Can you be an FA and a Feeder at the same time? How would that work


I'm both an FA and a feeder. I enjoy actively making my partner fat as well as just enjoying his size.
2 years

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you're asking about how you would be categorized on websites like this, I'd say fat appreciator.

Nijjrtman8:
Why a fat appreciator and not a feeder?
I would not mind fattening her myself


It is possible to be both. A feeder take an active role the the feedee's weight gain. An FA (fat admirer) takes a more passive interest. They also may or may not want their partner to gain weight
2 years

How does one calculate necesary maintenance calories for a fat woman's physique?

Spike:
It is almost impossible unless you go to a doctor for metabolic resting. Everyones is different ;{


This is correct. Plus, it's subject to change. That's why I said the calculator was crude.
2 years