luvschubyangels wrote:
Talking about one's weight is usually not done, so any time a guy talks about how big he is is pretty hot. I've never fed anyone in person though except an ex who wasn't really into it, so it's just stuff said online.

My favorite word is butterball, anything referencing that is awesome. Love "tubby" too. "I'm becoming a real butterball, aren't
I?" "Getting fat." "I'm getting really fat aren't I?" "Am I too big for you?" "I can't get these pants buttoned!" "I can't move", while sitting in a chair after eating. And him patting his belly while he says any of that is insanely hot.

Once someone made a slightly vore reference about Thanksgiving if we possibly got together. "I'd be the biggest Butterball there." I nearly c*me in my pants.

I've talked to a couple of guys about letting me embarass them slightly while out in public, like wearing a tshirt that's too tight and having his belly hanging out a couple inches below. "if I'm too embarassed, can I hug you and hide my belly against you?" and "Will you hold my hand?" also make me nuts.


Talking about weight in any way though pushes my buttons, it's so rare for anyone to be willing to do so.

nerdy girl wrote:
but what if it's just because your boobs are that big??? lol

luvschubyangels wrote:
That's definitely a huge part of it for me (no pun intended).

Spoiling someone and taking care of them. Overfeeding is like making sure someone has everything they need, and more. If someone was staying over at my apartment for instance, I would make sure the temperature was right, and they had enough blankets, and had towels, a toothbrush, etc. Strangely, to me, overfeeding is just another part of that kind of hospitality so to speak. I don't know if I'm stating that in a way that makes sense.

I like it the other way around too, I like protective, generous men. Not feeders though, as I'm losing weight, but being generous otherwise.

Since I'm very attracted to round, plump bodies, it definitely works out. To me, if a guy gets fat when we're dating, that means he's happy, content, and well taken care of.

Fattening a guy purposely is not only very erotic to me, but it's like physical evidence of deeply loving someone.

I go for him being sub occasionally, but not all the time, but as part of that, if he lets me change his body, even control it for a while, it's a demonstration of complete trust in me. If you let someone do something to you that is going to make you vastly less attractive to most of the opposite sex, that's a whole lotta trust that the person will stick around. Illogical perhaps, but there is it.