Note that many people DO manage to stop, but they very often overshoot their goal weight by quite a bit.

I've noticed that people who get in the habit of binging until they can't take a deep breath often can't stop gaining. Even if they stop binging like that, their appetites are out of control.

Binging like that is so crucial to some feedees that they take the risk anyway. It would not be my recommendation but I'm sympathetic.

(I posted a thread on this a few years ago called "Moderation". It was not a popular topic!)

Easier for feeders than feedees? Or vice versa?

Both. Pot belly with rolls on the side.

There's the Korean movie "Plump Revolution". It does have decent production values, but the character really doesn't gain much. Not sure if the actress herself gained anything but it's possible. It's a little frustrating to watch because it could have been good (not great!) movie with just a few changes.

It should be enough that others notice. At least 12%, maybe 15%.

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I helped one woman with this problem:
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Note that what NOT to say is at least as important as what TO say.

Many feedees report being very conflicted about gaining when they start out.

But after they gain some indeterminate amount--after they "get over the hump"--their doubts about gaining go away.

Reasons can be:

They enjoy it more than they thought.

Whatever they feared about it turns out not to be (much of) a problem.

They realize how hard it would be to change their minds and go back to being thing and so just accept it.


Have you had this experience? How much did you have to gain before you were over the hump? Was it a sudden epiphany or a gradual thing?

If you have any details to share, feel free.

You're welcome to illustrate any of mine! "Self Discovery" would be interesting...

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