Argh, serious issues!
Hi...know how you feel..really
Until a couple of years ago I was slim and muscular,working out at gyms etc My conversion to the fat life (I had always had a fat fetish and like my food
)was fraught with your sorts of doubts..it took several tentative starts into gaining before I accepted it fully.It's not easy..all the people commenting in a politely (or even not politely!)way about your weight gain and the automatic assumption that you want to lose it;society's general prejudice (work etc)against fat as a sign of weakness and uselessness.Can you live with that?If you think not and that it will make you unhappy,then don't do it.
As for girls,as I know,there is no denying that it will limit those who are sexually attracted to you.However,my experience is that most women are a lot less superficial than men and though they might not be looking for a big man,they will not rule out a man just on that..personality,intelligence,sense of humour etc meaning alot more to most women in my experience.
Well,might not be much use,but those are my thoughts
Until a couple of years ago I was slim and muscular,working out at gyms etc My conversion to the fat life (I had always had a fat fetish and like my food)was fraught with your sorts of doubts..it took several tentative starts into gaining before I accepted it fully.It's not easy..all the people commenting in a politely (or even not politely!)way about your weight gain and the automatic assumption that you want to lose it;society's general prejudice (work etc)against fat as a sign of weakness and uselessness.Can you live with that?If you think not and that it will make you unhappy,then don't do it.As for girls,as I know,there is no denying that it will limit those who are sexually attracted to you.However,my experience is that most women are a lot less superficial than men and though they might not be looking for a big man,they will not rule out a man just on that..personality,intelligence,sense of humour etc meaning alot more to most women in my experience.
Well,might not be much use,but those are my thoughts
14 years
80kg mark, biggest yet.
Congratulations..keep on gaining,you'll love it..I'm at 224lbs now (whatever that is in kg!?!)
14 years
Once you grow fat......
gettinchubby84 wrote
The cravings are true... I used to be able to get by with nothing after dinner.. now I can't go without at least one snack afterwards.. I'm addicted to chocolate milk and doughnuts..the bavarian cream filled ones are the best.. it would already be difficult for me to drop the weight i've gained. Pizza and bacon burgers are also very addictive...once you get used to the high fat food.. your body loves it...I don't even want the healthy stuff anymore... but I still eat it for the proper nutrients.
Same here...cannot believe how much less I could eat before I became a gainer..now hooked on the extra food and would find it VERY difficult to go back...not that I want toThe cravings are true... I used to be able to get by with nothing after dinner.. now I can't go without at least one snack afterwards.. I'm addicted to chocolate milk and doughnuts..the bavarian cream filled ones are the best.. it would already be difficult for me to drop the weight i've gained. Pizza and bacon burgers are also very addictive...once you get used to the high fat food.. your body loves it...I don't even want the healthy stuff anymore... but I still eat it for the proper nutrients.
14 years
I wish...
Maximum wrote
Don't worry about it, sometimes this thing just has to remain a fantasy, you look wonderful as you are, don't worry about the horny guys on here telling you to fatten up, your fine.
Agree...you are stunning..would love to grab those love handles of yoursDon't worry about it, sometimes this thing just has to remain a fantasy, you look wonderful as you are, don't worry about the horny guys on here telling you to fatten up, your fine.
xx
14 years
About you
Name:Neal
Age:43
Sex:male
Orientationansexual...go for the very feminine either female or male
Type:feedee/gainer
Hobbies:work takes up most of my time,but the usual stuff plus horse riding
Likes:rebellious,open minded and kind people/food
Dislikes:bigots/violence/war/authority
Age:43
Sex:male
Orientation
ansexual...go for the very feminine either female or maleType:feedee/gainer
Hobbies:work takes up most of my time,but the usual stuff plus horse riding
Likes:rebellious,open minded and kind people/food
Dislikes:bigots/violence/war/authority
14 years
