New here, need some advice,

Where you gain is totally genetic. Since you are transgender, you can get hormone therapy, but even then there are no guarantees.
8 years

"why are the plus-size champions shrinking before our very eyes?" by chloe elliot

Not too many other places for them to come from. Not too many fat athletes.
8 years

"why are the plus-size champions shrinking before our very eyes?" by chloe elliot

There are not that many role models for BBWs and BHMs, and it is a shame to see a role model denounce their size.
8 years

"why are the plus-size champions shrinking before our very eyes?" by chloe elliot

I didn't read the Sun article, but it has happened for years. Celebrities like Carney Wilson, Oprah, Roseann, Camryn Manheim and so many more. This upsets me too.
8 years

Watching someone get fat!

It's a little of both. It's nice to see one of "them" become one of "us." It's also nice to see someone who is already a BBW/SSBBW. But after a point, even if it is 500 pounds, I don't think adding more weight is exciting.
8 years

Not sure if it's right or wrong?

It is totally wrong. It is her decision to attempt to be at the weight she wants to be.
8 years

Moobs jiggling when walking

Size is not the only aspect of jiggling. This includes women. Some are perky and large and don't jiggle much. Some are small and saggy and jiggle even at an A cup.
8 years

"the allure of the pregnant woman"

Curious 1:
Good points growinglovehandles

TBH, aren't feedees trying to recreate the pregnant look with fat? That would explain why we are all excited by growing bellies


Not me. I have zero interest in pregnant women, but I love fat women.
8 years

Telling my partner

I would go very slowly and look for clues. You say she is chubby. Does she talk about losing weight? Is she OK with her weight? Does she like to eat? Start out by letting her know you like larger women. Then perhaps make jokes about seeing her get larger and see how she reacts. Does she reject the idea of getting larger? Does it gross her out? Or perhaps she would like to enjoy eating more.
8 years

Is being out of shape a turn on?

johnxyz:
I love to see women have a hard time walking, etc. Not so hard that they are in bad health, but hard enough to where they need to stop and rest and are out of breath.

GrowingGrace:
Well then you would have loved to see me this morning!


When you first gain weight, your body is not used to it. If you stay the same weight for a while, you'll probably stop. If you continue to gain, you'll stay that way. You've got a lot more to gain, so hopefully your body will get used to the extra weight eventually.
8 years