AlphaTitan1235:
To give full context, I do have a pregnancy fetish and a chubby belly fetish, and I've never hid that fact from my wife, although I've never admitted to the degree in which I have it. To be honest I'm still fairly shy about that topic due to some drama in the past. Well the topic came up a while back where my wife asked "What would you do if I gained like 300 pounds". To which I jokingly replied "Well I'd probably leave you, just kidding".

I was joking with her but I felt awkward cause I didn't know how to tell her I would possibly find that attractive, but I wouldn't want that for her cause I love her so much. And given the fact that she's 4'11" and weighs less than 100 pounds currently, I know that much weight would severely hurt her. And i could never let her do that.

Well, recently, due to being on this site, I got the courage to tell her how I felt. In that I actually would like if she got a little chubby, and that I was trying to play off her question when she asked before. I'm just nervous that because I told her this it may make her want to change for me, and I don't want that. Can any of you offer any advice on this cause I'm fairly torn on the matter. I love my wife, and I just want to make her happy.

Munchies:
If a woman ever says "Would you love me if ___?", the answer always yes. Doesn't matter what. 300 lbs heavier, a worm, a table, 300 lbs lighter, etc. The answer is yes. She's asking you this question because she feels insecure and wants you to reassure her.

Just have a heart to heart with her. Plainly tell her what you want.

AlphaTitan1235:
Lol well I don't agree with the always say yes part. That's actually one of the things she always loves is when I just give a direct answer. And I know that cause she tells me. But only reason this question was different for me is because of the sensitive nature of the topic.
And I have, like I said when I talked to her about it, that's why I'm struggling a bit with it. I overthink a lot and I'm worried I may have screwed up bringing it up. Although it's probably nothing knowing my luck.

Also I I appreciate the input! Kinda didn't know where else to come to with this particular problem.

Chubbyghost:
How do you gain if gaining 8lbs over 10 weeks gives you high blood pressure..??

AlphaTitan1235:
To give full context, I do have a pregnancy fetish and a chubby belly fetish, and I've never hid that fact from my wife, although I've never admitted to the degree in which I have it. To be honest I'm still fairly shy about that topic due to some drama in the past. Well the topic came up a while back where my wife asked "What would you do if I gained like 300 pounds". To which I jokingly replied "Well I'd probably leave you, just kidding".

I was joking with her but I felt awkward cause I didn't know how to tell her I would possibly find that attractive, but I wouldn't want that for her cause I love her so much. And given the fact that she's 4'11" and weighs less than 100 pounds currently, I know that much weight would severely hurt her. And i could never let her do that.

Well, recently, due to being on this site, I got the courage to tell her how I felt. In that I actually would like if she got a little chubby, and that I was trying to play off her question when she asked before. I'm just nervous that because I told her this it may make her want to change for me, and I don't want that. Can any of you offer any advice on this cause I'm fairly torn on the matter. I love my wife, and I just want to make her happy.

YumNom:
Sounds kinda vauge what you want.

Bdrip21:
Just discovered the thread, amazing work! Need an update on New years and also those kohls shorts from last summer. My wife has gained a bit but definitely not as comfortable with it, even with the praise I give her.

Luna Gorda666:
I quit my old job and now I work from home, I have no need to do anything outside. I'd like some advice

Admirer63:
Don't put politics in feederism, it has nothing to do with it.
Society is like that, being fat will never be a focus because it is bad for health and it is considered unsightly by most people, and that's why I'm involved in feederism is the desire to go the other way.

FrecherTyp:
My you have so matching thoughts to my own but I must admit although I would love like crazy to get to know you....because of all of your discriptions alone, I would so enjoy to see exactly a girl like you gain (if we meet or are together or are in love with each other) just a few lazy pounds while you are with me. As you start realizing how I get even more aroused about you gaining for me you start to devise an sweet/evil plan to fatten me up using bet, games fitness competitions and using all smart and sexy fattening ways to trick me thinking of you like a sweet naive harmless little girl that fattens up so easily because I am such a genious secret feeder on you. With always pretending in our fitness competitions to be so exausted you only barely win whilst just adjusting your performance to my fitness level.
All those last weeks where you started to give me more and more beer in the evenings and always holding donuts, other deliscious snacks and shakes in your beautiful hands (me still thinking you still can´t stop snacking and ate all those snacks yourself and just feeding me the little rest while only putting the outaken bits in later to feed them to me, too. After having me made aroused enough you make sure I get in a food coma and sleep while you go down and train like your old self while I digest the food.
.....

haha sorry I am just a little drunk and ranting too many thoughts...lol a happy New Year to every one

Munchies:
That's a little weird, man. She said she's into staying trim while her partner gets fat. Not mutual gaining.

You should probably not post while drunk.

FrecherTyp:
yes you are right ...but I just wanted to well let who ever reads this know how easy it would be for a fit slim girl to hmmm...let´s say entice me in a way I think nothing other can ^^

Petitegirl:
I don’t know if some feeders here agree with me. I also experience it in real life in my friendgroup a lot: women that are so thoughtful of their own diet/excercise regime while they complete ignore that their partner is getting fat/are fattening him on purpose! Have you experienced that too?

I personally know that I am a feeder, super attracted to fat men and making them fatter. But sometimes I think it is crazy what different kind of standarts/rules I have for myself. For me it is really important so stay super skinny and fit, to workout everyday, be super active/healthy etc. The food i am cooking/preparing and feeding to others I would never touch. Also I would never want a partner to be as active/sporty. I want to make sure that they can be as lazy as possible (for example I would always get up to bring whatever).
And weirdly enough I also like if a partner checks that I am keeping my figure. For example that he would touch my stomach to make sure there is not a single bit of fat or that in a restaurant he would tell me to stop eating and than finish my portion.

FrecherTyp:
My you have so matching thoughts to my own but I must admit although I would love like crazy to get to know you....because of all of your discriptions alone, I would so enjoy to see exactly a girl like you gain (if we meet or are together or are in love with each other) just a few lazy pounds while you are with me. As you start realizing how I get even more aroused about you gaining for me you start to devise an sweet/evil plan to fatten me up using bet, games fitness competitions and using all smart and sexy fattening ways to trick me thinking of you like a sweet naive harmless little girl that fattens up so easily because I am such a genious secret feeder on you. With always pretending in our fitness competitions to be so exausted you only barely win whilst just adjusting your performance to my fitness level.
All those last weeks where you started to give me more and more beer in the evenings and always holding donuts, other deliscious snacks and shakes in your beautiful hands (me still thinking you still can´t stop snacking and ate all those snacks yourself and just feeding me the little rest while only putting the outaken bits in later to feed them to me, too. After having me made aroused enough you make sure I get in a food coma and sleep while you go down and train like your old self while I digest the food.
.....

haha sorry I am just a little drunk and ranting too many thoughts...lol a happy New Year to every one