Profile update - we would love your input!

FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…

• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team

Chef Feeder:
I would love the idea of a more in depth fetish section.

What I think would be ideal is first keeping the main "Feeder, Feedee, FA, etc." and making them multi-select, as it's nice to have that main tag on one's profile. Then adding a subcategory that's separate where people can select their specific interests

Also one big improvement I'd love to see is the ability to hide answers/sections. Some questions I don't want to/don't see the point of answering myself, and would like to just hide them instead of having blank unanswered fields.


-While I'm here, what exactly is the purpose of the "Gainers" tab? Bc I've never understood what it's for.


Technically, a gainer was the LGBTQIA+ version of a feedee (the community used to be extremely heteronomative).

However, as the two communities blended, the terms "feedee" and "gainer" changed. Now, a feedee is a person who likes to be fed, and a gainer is a person who likes to gain. Some feedees do not like to gain, and some gainers do not like to be fed.
2 years

Check grammar and mispelled words

0Seth0:
So my mother language is not English, its Dutch. Therefore I sonetimes doubt if I wrote something wrong or not. Plus I sonetimes find out that I mispelled some words. I'm nkt even sure if everything I wrote in this forum is even correct.

Does anyone know the best way of finding grammarly wrong or mispelled words/senteces? Or is there a specific program I could use for that? Let me know!


Personally, I use Grammarly. There's a free version, but you can also pay for premium. It's super useful not just to write stories, but to help with everyday usage too.
2 years

Fattening first fumbles

Morbidly A Beast:
You gotta really wanna be fat for yourself and well it’s nice to please other people, the simple fact is that it’s not a guaranteed thing you’ll ever be in a feedist relationship. Do it for you! Because you want to be fat!


I second this. Also, any feedist relationship you have isn't promised to last

Feedism is, in a way, a body modification fetish. So if you are changing your body, you should do it in a way that you'd be happy about with or without a feeder. After all, you have to live in your body.
2 years

Profile update - we would love your input!

FF Team:
As this would be a new section on the profiles we are asking specifically for feedback about this.

Thanks for binging up the gender labels again, this is something we are going to be making changes to and will be changed once work gets underway on the profiles.

If we could keep feedback to this specific new profile feature / area that would be great.

We did speak about other kinks such as stuffing, padding, vore, inflation and were not really sure how to display this...Maybe we could have a tag / keyword area where you can add all your interested in. Do you think that would be appropriate, or do you feel it would need a specific section to discuss in more detail like the examples above?

If we had a tag area, we could have the option to add other labels. For example if your mainly an FFA you can have that as the section with the detailed questions. But in the tag kink area you can also add *Feeder - so its part of your interest but not the main aspect...

Thanks for your feedback so far, really appreciate it!


Personally, I think adding a new section to the profiles might be ... underused. Most people on the site have blank or barely filled out profiles.

I'd add the common fetishes as options under the pre-existing list of tags and make it a multi-select deal. Like a tagging system. For extra spice, have an "other" option that turns into a free-text space.

I do like the idea of being more descriptive with your interests. However, this would only make sense if people actually filled out their profiles. I'd just increase the word limit in the description and include things that would be useful to most people.

For example: Starting weight, current weight, goal weight, weight limit, experience level.

But that's just my two cents.
2 years

Free account

Nok:
Whew, two cents: limiting blocking is probably a BAD pr decision at the least, bordering on being actively inhumane. And probably bad business in other ways, since people aren't likely to get a premium account just to block profiles that harass them, they'll just leave the site.

And if it's really community that you worried about, in addition to unlimited blocks keeping people here better, you could just implement a block renewal protocol of some kind, perhaps a list of profiles you've blocked or unblocked, with blocks expiring after a year and requiring renewal in the form of rechecking a box in that list. Or something.

Munchies:
Not sure about the blocking renewal thing. But I agree with everything else you're saying.

Nok:
Yah, ditto, was just trying to think of a compromise they could accept.


Fair.
2 years

Profile update - we would love your input!

FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…

• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team


I would definitely update the gender thing - especially the trand labels. At the very least add trans man, trans woman, genderfluid, and non-binary.

Having the option to add multiple kinks would be nice. For example, some people identify as a feeder and an fa.

It would also be nice to add other categories for things like padding, inflation, and vore.
2 years

Free account

Nok:
Whew, two cents: limiting blocking is probably a BAD pr decision at the least, bordering on being actively inhumane. And probably bad business in other ways, since people aren't likely to get a premium account just to block profiles that harass them, they'll just leave the site.

And if it's really community that you worried about, in addition to unlimited blocks keeping people here better, you could just implement a block renewal protocol of some kind, perhaps a list of profiles you've blocked or unblocked, with blocks expiring after a year and requiring renewal in the form of rechecking a box in that list. Or something.


Not sure about the blocking renewal thing. But I agree with everything else you're saying.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Sumjohn:
Can't wait for another update from op.

Angy523:
I forgot to mention:
7. He gets tired much faster now.
8. He became lazier (even during sex, lately he just let me do most of the action)



But I'm still confused sometimes, he has some moments when he tells me he should lose weight because he got fatter. I started to think it's his way of teasing me because without me saying anything, he asked if we should make his belly smaller or bigger and I thought it would be safe to say it looks good as it is, but his answer was "I don't think so, I think we should make it bigger". Or he showed me a pic with a man with 6 packs and asked me if I want him to look like that. I said no and he said he's happy to hear that. Also, today he checked the scale, he told me he is too fat, but after that he came with me to eat some cake (I was the one who wanted it, but in the end he ate much more than me...basically he ate everything was left while I had 2-3 bites)


Sounds like home boy is developing a kink. Not sure what flavor, but it's certainly developing.

I think he loves to hear you reject conventional attractiveness for his growing body.
2 years

How many female feeders are on here?

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.

Munchies:
It really does. I can't tell you how many times I've had some truly depraved people slither into my DMs. Some examples:

Men openly asking me to cheat on my partner with them.

Dom feeders thinking that I'm secretly a sub feedee and trying to "train me".

People treating me like a cum rag.

Emotionally manipulative scum bags.

Men moving way too fast.

Don't get me wrong. I do get DMs from very lovely people. I've even befriended a few. But man, are they in the minority.

Pluviophile:
I've had very similar experiences in my DMs. There are some metaphorical diamonds in the rough, but dang it's few and far between.


It's all the audacity, really. Sometimes, I even get DMs from male feeders asking if they can take my feedee off of my hands.

I always show these to my partner. And without fail he ends up laughing his head off.
2 years

How many female feeders are on here?

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.


It really does. I can't tell you how many times I've had some truly depraved people slither into my DMs. Some examples:

Men openly asking me to cheat on my partner with them.

Dom feeders thinking that I'm secretly a sub feedee and trying to "train me".

People treating me like a cum rag.

Emotionally manipulative scum bags.

Men moving way too fast.

Don't get me wrong. I do get DMs from very lovely people. I've even befriended a few. But man, are they in the minority.
2 years