Fantasy Feeder

All day b-day stuffing

AlmostOverweight:
So I asked my girlfriend to keep me overfed all day for my birthday. She isnt into the fetish so surprisingly she agreed. I havent done an all day stuffing before so im kinda wondering what kind of foods i should start with and what she should have around to keep me topped off, (maybe a bottle of whip cream idk)

All day stuffings require a lot of planning and foresights. My advice is to get all of your favorite foods and alternate from savory to sweet and heavy to light. Remember to take breaks.

Also, you should be eating something at least every hour. Doesn't have to be big and heavy. Just keep yourself topped off. Keep yourself in the sweet spot where you are quite full, but can move around if need be.

Also, eat foods with fiber throughout the day. You're eating a lot of food, and you'll need to keep it going. Espcially if you are eating things like cheese and bread.

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Goal vs. reality

Ex-gainer here. When I started my journey, I was 115 lbs and dreamed of being a curvy 200 lbs woman. Since I gain pretty evenly, I probably would I have been a plus-sized hourglass.

Fast foward to 130, and I notice I feel heavier. Nothing major, but I don't feel as light as I used to. And I notice a jiggle on my sides whenever I power walked. It was a sensor heck scape. So I decided to gain muscle and fat at the same time.

I was not prepared for how much I liked putting on muscle. I've always been active, but not like that. I felt strong and lightweight even though I was getting heavier. It was a real struggle because the body I dreamed of wasn't the body I was getting. I knew that if I changed things up, I could be fat. But I just couldn't stop exercising. It was like a drug.

I was around 150 when I started making peace with my conflicting desires. I knew that the fat woman of my dreams would never be a reality. And I realized I would never be happy at that weight. I stopped gaining at 168 and have been maintaining ever since.

I don't regret it. I look beautiful and I feel powerful. I stare at myself in the mirror and I no longer feel the disdain I felt at 115. I didn't get what I wanted, and I couldn't be happier.

2 years

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You catch me with your best friend

Dmal202121:
How do you punish my fat ass

*Hayloft intensifies*

But in all seriousness, I'd make you exercise and feed you green smoothies. Torture you with being healthy until *I'm* confident you've learned your lesson.

Then, I'd feed you constantly until you are too fat to please a lover and then leave.

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Should i gain again

PolyPinoyPuppy:
I hope you don't mind me asking, but why did you lose the weight in the first place? A hundred pounds in a year is about 2 pounds a week for 52 weeks, which is at the upper end of a healthy rate of loss from what I understand.

I second this. If you want to gain and gain sustainably, you need to resolve why you lost the weight in the first place. The way you lost weight is somewhat concerning. If you gain more weight, you will likely have a major setback - or at least yo-yo for a while.

Being fat is more than a body shape. It's a way of life. And if you aren't mentally prepared for that lifestyle, you will be miserable.

2 years

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Change the chat highlight color

When someone selects you in chat, it highlights them in yellow. Unfortunately, the text is white. It's not so bad when I view it on my phone because I have blue light filtering on 24/7. But since I don't have that on my computer, I cannot read what the white text says. I have to find their profile picture in the main chat and go to their profile in another tab to read their bio.

It would be great if you at least adjusted the color to improve readability.

2 years

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Coming to terms with wanting to gain/ going through with it.

AveragePizzaConsumer:
I play soccer couple times a week and my parents are still a big influence in my life

How are they still an influence?

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Doubts

Marcel2q:
Here we go again: every time I put on a few pounds (and June was a great month 😏), I have the usual doubts.
To tell the truth, when I look in the mirror stripped of my clothes and see myself fatter, with some new, noticeable extra fat, I find myself much sexier. But I must also say that now I have a huge belly and when it is naked it is sexy too, but when I am dressed it seems to me that clothes look bad on me 😔. My figure seems disproportionate to me: I'm big everywhere, but my belly is gigantic!
Honestly it seems too much. Then I love my fleshy arms, my round butt, my boobs, etc .. And the result is always the same, that I am full of doubts ...

If you love how you look naked, but hate how you look with clothes, you're probably not dressing to your body shape. Take the time to figure out what cuts and styles look best on you.

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Coming to terms with wanting to gain/ going through with it.

AveragePizzaConsumer:
Hi everyone so last year I started getting into fat related things such as gaining etc. and recently I decided I wanted to start gaining but I haven’t went through the plan since im worried about others reactions and my parents. Im in sports and go out etc and I don’t know what to do.
I have slowly gained some weight currently sitting at 170 but im nervous about others and my family please help.

What sport do you play? Are your parents still in charge of you?

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How to deal with family ?

KaocolaZero:
Hey guys ! Long time since came here, i thought i was ok and could live my feedee life on my side, but it appears that i still have things to learn lmao.

Anyways, i wanted to have some advice or experience from people who already had to deal with their family and their massive weight gain. I personally always had issue with that, and it was getting worse lately, my family never liked my gain and me being like this. I've always tried to avoid conversation about the subject, always finding excuse about health issue, stress and any bullshit i could come with to avoid answering too much despite my weight.

But now i'm going to face a new issue very soon, i haven't see them since almost 2 years now, they live far away and my mother got sick, without mentioning covid problem. We didn't met in almost 2 years as i said, only talked on phone. But now that my mom is ok they want to pay a visit, they were disappointed when i told them i won't be able to come, and they insisted and told me they will come, so i had to agree.

I've gained a lot since the last time they saw me as you can imagine, they were already scared and ashamed about my weight, now it's going to be worse, i reached the final stage of the death feederism game if we can say, living the bed is not really an option anymore. I just don't know how i'm going to deal with the situation, they will also meet my feeder for the first time who is my ""boyfriend"" that's how i present him.

So people who have been through this or something similar, how did you deal with that ? It's my parents and i love them so i can't just ignore them and cut the bridge, but i know they will have a very bad reaction and i have no idea how i will handle it. Don't hesitate to share your experience or advice, i'm taking anything.

Thanks a lot if you have idea or experience

So, your parents, whom you do not live with and do not support you financially, are coming to *your* place.

Sounds like to me if they want to visit you, they have to abide by your rules. Which means you can enforce whatever boundaries you want.

You don't want to talk about it? Done. You don't want to be bashed over your weight? Done.

All you gotta do is stand your ground. Get your feeder to help if you need it. But ultimately, you are in charge here. If they want a relationship with you, then they need to treat you with respect. This goes for every thing - even outside of kink.

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Feeders how skinny is too skinny?

Fatmanrocker:
I’ve been into feederism for a while now i’ve never really indulged in any of it. (I’m a Male 193 lb Feedee/Mutual Gainer) But now things are different and I really want to give this a try I’m pretty excited!

Which leads me to my questions. I’ve seen a lot of people on here saying things like they prefer people who are already a little bigger.

which got me to thinking how skinny is too skinny to start out with?

Should I try to gain weight before I go out and try to find a feeder/Mutual Gainer?

What is everyone’s Preferences on starting with a brand new feedee?

Can’t wait to get to know you all a bit better!

Munchies:
For me, that would be severely underweight. Because at that point, kink is the last think on my mind. I'm more focused on getting that personal medical attention. And stuffing that person may make them sick.

Fatmanrocker:
Thanks for the reply!

Really that's interesting so what for you is a good starting weight?

Also just to be clear I'm "193 pounds" unless that's a joke and it went over my head XD

I don't have one. I know what's too fat for me. (Immobile, or at a weight where daily living is quite uncomfortable.). But I don't really have a preferred starting weight.

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