benandjerryforever:
Eating dried fruits all day long in between meals
That is way too much fiber.
2 years
Ky Belly Boy:
She never knew anyone who wanted to get fatter. Or even that there was such a thing. So she really doesn't know how to feed someone or actually stuff someone. But we will try again
I'm sure you and your wife have taught each other how to do things to please each other. This is no different. You just have to be patient and communicate effectively with each other.
In many ways, you're very lucky. Your wife is neutral to your fetish. This means you can give her a new appreciation for it if you play your cards right. And who knows? It might even bring you closer together.
2 years
Ky Belly Boy:
We tried. But it didn't work well. She was watching TV and feeding me. I was hoping she would sit on my legs, caress my big fat belly as she stuffed me. Calling me piggy and rubbing and kissing my belly as she lovingly humiliated me. I sort of hinted to that when we started.
Sounds like you didn't clearly communicate what you wanted with her. She's your wife, not a mind reader.
2 years
biggerthebetter:
I have heard that the skin can tear when a person is 700 or 800 pounds. On an obese person say around 300-350 pounds stretch marks could form. How ever as with the human body a lot depends on genetics, some peeps have skin that can stretch more than others.
It really comes down to growing faster than your skin can keep up with. I've got stretch marks from childhood growth spurts. I've got stretch marks from rapidly putting on muscle. I've got stretch marks from when my hips widened during puberty. All from intense periods of growth.
2 years
Ky Belly Boy:
Mine would be to have a true feeder and encourager. Someone who would shower me with compliments about my big fat belly and be willing to help make it Bigger. So far it has only been me, stuffing my big fat belly. Not that I mind stuffing myself. But I wish I had someone to enjoy the journey with me. I love my wife. But she is so neutral to this fetish. Saying,"it's up to you." Whenever I ask her about me getting Fatter.
Have you asked her to feed you?
2 years
biggerthebetter:
I’m really not into the show either. Some are on death’s door. They have serious health issues that make being morbidly obesity not a desired thing. Some have been abused sexually and mentally and physically. Trey use food as a way to deal with their issues and pain.
The doctor on the show must be making bank for sure!
Just about everything on TLC is predatory, so I don't watch it.
2 years
Not fat, but me and heels are a match made in hell. I have so much respect for women who can walk in them. Unless I'm wearing wedges, I walk like a drunk newborn deer.
2 years
biggerthebetter:
Has anyone watched “my 600 pound life” tv show?
Their are some big gals on that show for sure. A percentage are bedriddened or find it hard to walk!
I've seen it. Never really cared for it. You're seening people at their most vulnerable. They aren't even getting paid for this either.
I also couldn't find it in me to lust after the patients when it's clear they aren't happy with their size.
2 years
jollyguts:
People actively say they will kill me if I shave off my beard completely. I'll always be thankful that I can grow a good one! It makes me look old though, and I feel like I attract an older crowd.
Well, it's an objectively good beard. I can tell you take care of it too. Always a plus.
Maybe you can play around with styles a bit. See what makes you look more your age. Unless you're into older women. If so, more power to you.
2 years
Tritta93:
Everyone on this forum is open about weight and weight issues, but at least for me not so much in real life. I wonder how usual this is.
When my husband and I started dating 10 years ago he had put on a belly - maybe 240 at 6’0”. I had known him a little bit before he went to college - he was friends with my older sister - and he was in good shape then but put on some weight in college. I thought he looked handsome (obviously or I wouldn’t have kept dating him) and he must have known that but we never talked about his weight.
We dated for a couple years and I knew he was putting on weight - nothing crazy but it was noticeable. I don’t know how many pounds but he wore 46 pants when we got married. We’d talk about food and how much he loved this or that or practical things like a bigger shirt but never about the fact that he was gaining weight. (I don’t think he intentionally gains weight I think he sees it as part of life).
Since we’ve gotten married (and he’s gotten bigger) we still don’t talk about it. Is this normal? I’m not sure what I’d want to say if we did talk.
Not talking about your partner's weight is normal in long-term relationships. If you want to bring your kink up, that's fine. Otherwise, you can keep things as it.
That being said, if you do want to bring it up, you can start small. You can say stuff like "I love a man with meat on his bones." or "I love your teddy bear belly. It makes you feel cuddly." Stuff that women with fat partners say even if they don't have a fetish. Then you can go from there.
2 years
