Not fat, but I truly hate running. If you see me running anywhere, you better start running too. Because the only reason I'm running is if there's something to run *from*.
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MariaAlive:It's so old school that saying thanks to the 50's, 60's, 70's and even 80's. 'fashionizing' skinny/lean so it becomes the norm. but so many cultures love plump chubby women and it's considered taboo in some cultures to have a skinny wife
if only we'd have that luck
Sir Mix-alot made the famous "Baby Got Back" song that is - in many ways - a commentary on this. I'm American, so I can only speak for my country. But back in the day, Euro-centric beauty standards extolled a slim figure. Meanwhile, other cultures in my country (Black and Latino especially), preferred full-figured women.
Heck, the women in the "Baby Got Back" music video were supposed to be a lot bigger than the ones we got. But the powers that be made them get athletically built dancers instead.
It's wild.
2 years
Katriona:
How do you all manage so much steps 😂😂I work and I never walk more than 2k a day 😂. Weekebd I'm at 300 steps at my best 😁
I'm a very active person, lol.
2 years
MariaAlive:It really depends on the face shape and how the beard grows. if it's a neck-beard, please shave it, there's no point in hiding a double chin. If you do a beard, do it well ot shave it off and donate it to the high heavens above.
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Dear, lord. It *moves*.
2 years
I like beards. Just in general, though. Doesn't matter how fat or thin a guy is so long as he has decent facial hair. Otherwise, it's best to shave it all off.
2 years
doublefrosted:
Getting followers here is going to be the same as getting followers anywhere else on the internet: time + effort. You need to be making content that people want, and it needs to be frequent or quality enough that people don't want to miss it.
Content can be pics, videos, stories, gaining updates or forum posts that are entertaining, educational, or appealing in some other fashion. You also need to be contributing with some regularity so that people know that following you will be worthwhile.
Couldn't have said it better myself. Why should anyone follow a person if they aren't worth following?
2 years
Bigwideland:
Do the ladies want or go to BHM paid web sites. Do any BHM run them with any success? I have never seen any so think that BBW sites are just a male thing.
Sorry heading should be sites not sits, d'oh.
Someone once said to me that porn is for men. Erotica is for women. And while that isn't a hard and fast rule, most of the fat porn I've seen is with the male gaze (straight or gay) in mind.
The handle of BHMs I've seen that *are* straight mostly sitting/standing with their belly on display and eating/drinking. They don't really make a show of it either. And even then most of their audience is gay men.
Meanwhile, I've read a lot of erotica that's made for women, by women. Yes, guys will read it too, but a lot more women read erotica than watch porn. There really isn't porn made for straight women - fat kink or not.
2 years
Depends. Are you happy with your size? Do you want to gain, or do you just want to eat a lot?
2 years
On a bad day? 3k-ish. On an average day? 5k-ish. Occasionally I hit 10k.
2 years
You ask this question a lot, huh?
Like I told you before, if you participate in the forums and/or chat, have something to contribute, and be an overall decent person, you'll get followers.
You also need to be patient. You've had your profile for about a month now.
2 years
