For feeders: ideal feedee start weight??

Jackywantstogain:
I’m a new feedee coming up on 200 lbs from 170. I would really like to try out having a feeder and I was curious if my weight is too low to attract any feeders. Like I said I’m new so I haven’t given much time.

Would you rather have a feedee start closer to 200ilbs or 300 lbs??


All sizes are good sizes. I've had feedees start at under 200, pushing 200, and about 400.
2 years

Where to preserve old deleted stories?

Raboot The Admirer:
A while ago, I opened a topic about how The Weight Room from Dimensions Magazine was removed from the wayback machine. I asked if someone was interested on the stories I had saved before it closed, but after thinking about it, I feel I should just go ahead an reupload them somewhere, for anyone to be able to see.

My problem is that I don't know how or where to do this. Any suggestions for good places where I could reupload them are welcome.
The stories I got fall under the "FFA and BHM" category.

Letters And Numbers:
There’s probably a billion ways you could do this, but you don’t own the rights to any of those stories, you just have a copy of them. It might be unlikely, but if either the original author or Dimensions wanted you to take them down it would be a hassle for you and the new hosting site.

The other issue, as far as I’m aware, is that Dimensions stopped hosting those old stories because there were so many underage characters.


Yeesh. That's certainly a big problem.
2 years

How do you manage to eat 5000 calories in a sitting?

Gafeedee1:
The most I can stomach seems to be 2500

My partner ate about 3k to 4k calories a day before we met. I meticulously stretched his stomach out over a period of time until he could eat over 10k in a day.

Some things to keep in mind:

Don't eat filling things. If it takes a while to digest it, you'll be less likely to eat more later.

Adding sauces, cheese, dressings, and other things to food bumps the calorie count.

Regular overeating stretches out the stomach.

Eating small, frequent meals helps you eat more calories a day.
2 years

A soft or hard belly

Falcor:
Ladies, do you prefer a man with a soft belly or a manly gut? Or does a six pack is your “belly” choice?

Gentlemen, same question, do you prefer a woman with a doughy belly or an about to burst heavy round gut? Or maybe a slim figure?


I'm very flexible with my preferences. While I generally prefer fat men over ripped me, abs are sexy.

I prefer squishy bellies to hard bellies. The only hardness should come from how tightly I pack his belly. Plus, visceral is more dangerous than subcutaneous fat.
2 years

Fiance absolutely ballooning

Kstar:
Recently me and my partner have bought and moved into our own house after dating for several years.

When we first meet each other she was fairly chubby at about 175lbs (she's 5ft tall), however over a few years she slowly got down to about 135lbs.

Now she doesn't know my preferences but she knows I love how she looks. But after buying this house things have gone into overdrive.

In the last 7 months we've been in this house she has honestly ballooned. Going from roughly 135lbs when we bought it, to weighing in at just over 200lbs a bit over a month ago. Honestly part of me wouldn't be surprised if she was 210-215lbs now.

Any attempts she has had at dieting have gone out the window and I just don't know how I got so lucky.

I couldn't imagine how fast she would gain if it was intentional.

Anyone else got lucky like this?


Seems like your wife knows she married a chubby chaser and is leaning into it hard. Good for you. I wish you guys every happiness.

Perhaps you can feel comfortable enough to tell her everything.
2 years

Looking for an old commercial.

BigBellyBurgerBoy1:
I'm looking for a Chicken of the Sea commercial, and I could use some help. Remember that commercial with that woman walking to an elevator with a flat tummy, in front of gawking men admiring her figure, until she finally gets in and exhales to let her belly hang out when the doors close? I'm looking for a version of that, but with Chicken of the Sea Cups, instead of just regular Chicken of the Sea. If anyone knows what I'm talking about, please hit me up as soon as possible. Thank you.


I gotcha fam:
2 years

Brain between mildly and moderately on the autism spectrum; what it's like also having this feti

RobbyP:
*----fetish*

The only way to navigate conversations is to stick to reason and evidence, and do my best to focus on what seems relevant. I have little sense of what would bother people about what seems true. Consequently, I've had mixed results "coming out" to normies, and it appears ot reveal more about their character than mine. Those who immediately insult, degrade, couch-faint or try to make me afraid are themselves slaves to their own fear(s) in those moments.


As an autistic person and a feeder/fa, I don't feel strongly about this. It's just a part of me. I'm blessed to have friends who either are feedists or at least accepting of it. Still, I don't feel a strong desire to tell the whole world. Not because I'm ashamed but because it's none of their business.

It's like telling people you like vanilla sex. Nothing shameful, but it's no one's business.
2 years

Unsure?

Slixxx666:
We chatted. Thank you all for the advice.


2 years

Bf getting out of shape makes me conflicted

Primal23:
The saying goes "you can't out run your fork". Weight loss is like 80-90% what you eat and that last bit is exercise. Exercise overall is great and healthy, for the most part. So him getting more of it is a good thing. As you mentioned, unless he is doing intense long workouts there is most likely nothing to worry about. On the contrary, many people gain weight when they start working out. They over estimate how many calories they burn exercising. They then feel that can have an extra treat that blows away the calories they just burned and then some. Which your BF seems to have done.
Of course, supporting him in whatever path he chooses is the way to go. Does he know that you like that he gained weight? Honest communication is the best solution. Overall, I wouldn't worry to much. Weight loss takes time and a lot of work. Without some serious dietary changes I don't think the scale is gonna be going down for him. Quite the opposite actually lol. Take care!

Biffa:
Thanks for your response smiley Yes, I support whatever he wants to do with his body and ultimately want him to be healthy, which I've told him. He does know about my preferences and has been ok with letting me encourage him to gain, within reason. Although he does get insecure from time to time, he doesn't seem interested in losing weight at this point.


Even the most enthusiastic feedee will have days they feel insecure. All you can do is to help is make him feel loved and sexy.

As someone who's partner and feedee is actively losing weight, my advise is to look for reasons to find him sexually attractive as his body changes. That way, as he loses weight, you won't feel one way or another about it.
2 years

Better parametric search for stories (and other)- views, length etc

GrafenbergsPunkt:
Why cant the stories be sorted by number of views? I remember that this was a feature some time ago, not to mention the number of views is listed in the story details so I cant imagine why it's excluded from the search parameters.
Also, being able to sort by story length/chapter count would be a nice bonus.

Similarly, in videos, being able to search by length would be nice. And related to the search by date- having a date, or at least month/year tagged in the video info would be much preferred to the "X months ago"


Adding onto that, it would be nice to exclude tags too.
2 years