Looking for someone to rp

Rose_Edwards wrote:
I really want someone who will force me into becoming a fat pig/cow and make me dress like one and behave like one! I also want them to tease me to no end calling me names pinching my fat tits and belly and do even more!


Define "even more"...
10 years

Writing wg erotica dilemma

Here is an essay I wrote some time back about this. Also, check out the essay link here. Let me know what you think.

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Writing WG Erotica: A One-Handed Occupation"

People are often asking my advice on writing erotica.

Now, I don't pretend to do this better than anyone else.

I hope I'm better in bed than on the page, to tell the truth.

However, the best advice I can give is to read an article on writing sex scenes which was published in Utne Reader some years ago. It is an excellent article and deals with the nuts and bolts (or nuts and other body parts) very well -- and in a fun way.

Here is the link to it:

www.utne.com/Literature/How-To…

One place in there he mentions that it is okay to be aroused by your own writing -- whether you are writing with one hand or two.

Now, that is always a big problem of mine -- and probably a big problem for many erotica writers.

I got to thinking about this while reading the first weight gain erotic piece by beellygirl: fav.me/d4z7u76

It is a story dealing with the joys of feeding another while pleasuring oneself (Good story, by the way; go read it now. Well, when you finish reading this...).

Got me to thinking about problems and issues for us weight gain erotica writers. I am not saying beellygirl has this problem, but I definitely do.

The problem: I write what I write because I enjoy it so much -- perhaps even too much. Thus, typing one-handed at times.

And now, when you consider writing weight gain erotica, this problem expands into new dimensions.

What I need when typing weight-gain erotica:

1. One hand for the keyboard.

2. One hand for feeding myself.

3. One hand for, uh, you know, pleasures which may arise.

Okay, you see the dilemma -- not enough hands.

Or too much to do at once.

I believe in evolution as much as any monkey descendant, but I really can't wait for the species of weight gain erotic author to grow another hand.

I think I need a partner.

Or perhaps a new hobby which doesn't tax my physical limits so.

Have a great day, and keep living life to the fullest!

Grab onto your hunny, and grab something to eat (or feed to your loved one).

Do it now. This may be the only lifetime we get for this kind of joy.
10 years

Feedee frustrations

I wanted to encourage you as well, but this guy does it so beautifully.

And besides, like you, I don't have much to show for all my searching either at this point.

I hope you don't give up and become bitter or anything. You express yourself so beautifully, and anyone can see in your words that you have a soul capable of great love -- and worthy of great love as well!

I look at the following story with hope, and I wish you that hope as well. Love is there for us, I am sure. I like the encouragement he gives, and I am taking it to heart myself. I hope you do also.

I wish you the best, Ali! I know it seems just a platitudinous cliche to say so, but . . .

Hang in there!

ivabr2 wrote:
For find my supersize feedee girl I was lost 9 years and many tears) In you search you can find or great soul or great body, or you fatish friend. I found all of it in one girl and I am happiest man on the Earth! I arrive to she by great road, 2 days in way, 2000km, other country... But she is bigger, than in ***, prettier, than at photo, and the best girl in the world) I really love she) Some day you will find you feeder, great boy, you dream will come in real world. Not wait him! Search, date, tear! And you dream will come to you! Good luck!
Sorry my English, I am from Russia)
10 years

Forcefeeding/being forcefed

This sounds just absolutely wonderful to me! What a life!

FeedMeMoreMaster wrote:
I want to live with a man who is secretly fattening me. Eventually, I realize what is happening and he admits what's going on, but it's too late. I've grown (pun intended ) to like it aND am addicted to food. We have fun feeding for awhile, but after he gets used to it, he pushes me to the brink, constantly forcefeeding me. At first, I think things have gone too far, but then I completely give in. My sole existence becomes eating, growing and pleasing my master...
smiley
10 years

Fattening and teasing your bf

Otherland, you are always such an enthusiastic supporter of so many weight-gain writers here!

I think you should take this and turn it into your own story. You write very well, and this is quite a hot fantasy!

Do it!

otherland78 wrote:
Oh i love sweet smart teasing knowing exactly that I somehow love my chubb but hate to be less fit than my gf who just tempted me with all her sweetness and somesexy seduction to always eat more forget about restraints and thoughts about getting chubby ......
Me always deying the fact i didn´t do any sports for years now while she is using every weakness to make me eat more get lazier and let me go on thinking I am still as fit and only slightly chubby.

Nurturing my thoughts when they come up about asking her if i should get in better shape again.

Just grabbing my softer bely and telling me : " NA ....see that little pudge you as former sportsguy will get rid of that in a month for sure , didn´t you always said it´s only easy for you to gain weight not losing it."
then she grins and give me some tasty icecream .....

After some pounds she starts teasing me more grabbing my belly chubb cause now she can easily find places where as before i could just flex my abs and prevent that, now there is just to much chubby that this could have any effect even sucking in my belly won´t work, somehow it seems she got faster catching me or grabbing at me hmmm.....

The teasing gets even more often now as she gets a little revenge out of me doing that to her more chubby form before so often.

Not only sweet words get to me but some evil revenge things she thought of for some month now.........
Somehow it dawns on me that now i really got myself very chubby with some little ;-) sweet pushing from my gf.

Now she even uses teasing me for making me insecure letting her chosing our food more careful as she says.

She starts being very sure about my now changed eating habits so she tells me tomorrow after breakfast we will start with a little workout programm and a little fitnesstest to see if it´s still so easy for me to slim down as it was back then (when i was doing sports 5 -6 times a week hmmm) .

She would think such a little experiment would be funny to see if i have the same will power than her when she slimmed down about 30lbs some time before.....

So today after a massive breakfast she starts coming in to the kitchen with slim tight workout pants to show of her more trained and fitter form to me while my belly pokes out slightly under my very tight white shirt revealing some softness around a full belly .
No wonder after that breakfast she made me today to comfort me and give me strenght for our first fitnessasessment.

Grabbing some prominent lovehandles she asks me how many situps and push ups and such things i hardly can remember i was doing back 5 years ago
....hmm my chubby bf we will see how many you can do now ....!!!^^

Get Up poking me gently and repeatetly in my belly until i get up grunting and stuffed from all the pancakes ......


:-) oh i would love something like that happening to me or playing such things in real life from time to time ^^
10 years

Your kinkiest fantasy

What an amazingly well-described fantasy! I hope you find the perfect guy!

Miranda00 wrote:
My fantasy... I am a very good looking woman. Fit, trained, Well educated. Still, my dream is a hole other story. The thougt of giving myself to a man who would like me to transform. To make me to the girl of his dream. To control. To tell me right from wrong. Just the thougt of letting go is making me crazy. Probably it will stay in my Dreams. ..But it's ok. Just let me have my fantasies. I dream and enjoy every single moment of them. Some Day.. maybe..I will meet The man of my dreams. A man who enjoy a submissiv woman who would do everything to please her man..... I will continue dreaming.. Maybe someday U will be there
10 years

Dropping the ball on teasing.

This is a very interesting thread that goes to the heart of a dilemma for many -- how far to carry even a mild fantasy like teasing.

Teasing can be very erotic to someone, but then it can become almost like bullying, and that may indeed be a turn-off for the same person.

Teasing can be done in a loving way, or it can turn into something meanspirited.

And both are erotic to some, but both are not erotic to all.

little belly wrote:
this is a sort of old thread but i thot i'd pick it up..

my take on, well, not just teasing or sub/dom things but really, everything, is to talk to my partner/sweetheart about what they like, check in often, and get clear consent.

even if i just want to hug a friend, if i don't know for sure that they like hugs, i ask. it feels really terrible to accidentally cross someone's boundary, regardless of the boundary

talking about what each of you likes and doesn't like sounds scary, and it can be awkward at first, but my experience is it almost inevitably makes excellent foreplay.

in one fell swoop you can find out what kind of teasing a person likes, make them feel safe by asking what their boundaries are and promising to respect them, and at the same time find yourselves getting really turned on by that conversation.

also, anytime something uncomfortable happens (and it does happen, even with the most vanilla kinds of sex!), it's important to find out (if the other person is comfortable with talking about it) what exactly wasn't okay and what to do differently next time. it's helpful in situations like this to step back a little (ie stop the sexy times) but not completely.. usually i like to hold hands or maybe cuddle when talking about things like this.. everyone's differnt tho, so ask yr partner what's comfortable for them.

also, it's worth mentioning that if you upset someone, don't demand that they explain why they're upset.. tell them you'd like to learn from your mistake/learn to be a better lover if they're comfortable with talking about it, but be careful not to pressure them. smiley

hope this is helpful!
10 years

Don't know what to do

You are in the right place. I think we all have these conflicted feelings, and that is part of what makes this such a powerfully erotic desire.

I hope you just decide that it doesn't matter what people think -- in fact, what they think about this may make you so hot that you decide to just let go, enjoy life and enjoy whatever delicious humiliation comes your way!

Best to you...

curiousgainer12 wrote:
Everyday my feelings and urges to gain weight grow stronger. I touch myself thinking of weight gain or reading weight gain fantasy. I get wet when I think about being called a piggy or porky. The thought of caressing a fat belly or my fat thighs rubbing makes me cum. Yet I haven't made real effort because I'm scared but when I think about getting teased about being fat it makes me wet, yet I'm scared of what people will actually think. I want to get fat so bad because it turns me on. Has anyone else had to fight these feelings? Do you feel better sexually? I mean the idea of fat humiliation gets me so hot, I should be trying to achieve it so why am I so scared to be a piggy?
10 years

Before we found ff...

I love your story! What a testament to your persistence in finding love!

Best to you both!

Delicatefame wrote:
Before discovering fantasy feeder I mostly watched youtube videos, messaged guys on there and made some lifelong friends. I was pretty low key about being a feeder, and kept it to myself.

Then I first found FF and felt right at home. It was nice to be a part of this community who can relate and understand me. But then it went downhill a bit. I deleted my profile on here after I had gotten in a relationship with guy who wasn't into the whole feeder thing. Which is totally fine everyone has their own kinks, likes and dislikes. But he crossed the line many many times and made me feel ashamed for being an FA and feeder and even had the nerve to call me a monster. Please note that I never pressured my kinks onto him at all, I even helped him lose 70lbs. So I decided to just push them all away, and hide my true self. I thought maybe I could "cure" myself from being a feeder or FA . Wrong! I felt even more alone than before, I felt like I was walking on eggshells every time I wanted to even cuddle him.

Eventually we broke up mutually and I rediscovered FF. My god it was so liberating to come back after three years of being judged. I regained my confidence in myself and and made new friends online and offline who really are accepting of me. smiley Now I am happily in a relationship with someone I met here. I couldn't be more thankful for finding fantasy feeder. This site has given me hope, confidence, friends and even love! smiley
10 years

Chubbed up boyfriend

How's it going now?

Inquiring minds want to know.

Well, at least, my inquiring mind wishes to know what has happened the last 8 months.

It's okay if you don't want to share, but I am curious about his.

Z

ThatArtsyType wrote:
So I've been out of town for the last eight months, with only a couple visits home here or there. The first four were fine - I even made another visit to see him in February.

However, I cam'd with him last night, and it looks like he's put on quite a bit of weight for such a short time... as in, his chest used to be flat as a board with a sorta nerdy thinness - and since February he's developed a faint pudge and the beginnings of moobs.

All while I was out of town. I'm overwhelmed with excitement to go back, but kinda nervous too.

I've always kept this fetish strictly to this site, and (personally) have a hard time reconcile deliberate extreme fattening with health concerns... but now I'm finding myself hoping he doesn't drop it too quick over the summer, or maybe even continues to slowly gain... Ahhhh!!

I'm not really sure what to do here, because as far as he's told me, he wants to be athletic...

Well, I'm armed with the info that his favourite food is butter chicken. Not sure whether making it for him is crossing boundaries or being a stellar girlfriend at this point... help?
10 years