I often have the fantasy of someone getting revenge either by forcing (or encouraging) another to gain weight -- and also revenge by getting fat themselves.

This seems a common theme in some of the short stories on here as well, so I know I am not alone in this fantasy.

For example, a man dumps his wife or girlfriend, and in a vengeful mood (or simply to console herself), she eats and grows fat. The same fantasy works for the dumped male as well.

Anyway, check out this story of a real-life story where the guy - a UCLA football player -- gets ripped after being dumped by a cheerleader. Interesting story, and you might find the photos quite intriguing as well. I imagine this all going in the opposite direction, of course -- him as fit when dumped then gaining weight just to "show her".

Here is the link to the story and plenty of photos of him and others:

espndaily.net/worlds-first-muscle-building-combo-revealed/

I have to admit that I find it very hot. That may be disturbing to you, Missy, and it does disturb me as well. But the reasons I enjoy this site (the swelling bellies, the weight gain, the consumption of food -- eating for two!) are the same reasons I enjoy the sight of a pregnant woman.

I find your pics, MissMissy to be quite erotic. Your shape and size, I find so desirable. And your glowing face, your countenance is so beautiful it almost makes me cry.

In the same manner, I find myself staring at photos of the latest Kardsashian to bare herself -- this time in pregnancy. I don't know any thing about the Kardashians as celebs, but here I am enjoying the visage of a beautiful woman, ripe and plump with child. Should I feel bad that I find this erotic? Am I perverted? I don't know.

What she says about all this is enlightening:

"I’m at my best when I’m pregnant. It’s such an amazing feeling, the transformation that your body goes through. There’s something about that that’s so empowering and beautiful and I just really embrace it. It’s what a woman’s body is made to do."

(For a look at Britney Spears, Demi Moore, Kourtney Kardashian, Brooke Shields and other celebs showing off their nude pregnant bodies, go to
***.com/style/another-kardashian-bares-it-all-c1417626357972/photo-cindy-crawford-photo-1417626547992.html Story on Kourtney and a gallery of her nude pregnant pics at
dujour.com/news/kourtney-kardashian-nude-pictures-interview/ )

I have thought about this a lot because generally, I find pregnant women to be very attractive to the point that I am aroused by them. I hope that doesn't upset you any, MissyMiss, but it is true. And I am certain many others (both men and women) feel the same way.

I used to think I was somewhat perverted and unusual in my peculiar interest in pregnant women. I thought this was all because I was into weight gain, BBWs and bellies in general. These days, though, I wonder if perhaps the reverse isn't true:

That I am fascinated with female bellies and female weight gain because of a biological attraction to females who are pregnant.

Let's face it, guys (and gals)! There is something just inexplicably hot about a woman from the moment her baby bump becomes noticeable until she is swollen and ready to pop! I don't know what it is, but plenty have zoned in on the fact that she just seems to be "glowing" and indeed, her face seems so happy so much of the time.

I think this goes to our need to reproduce, and a sensual pregnant belly makes us all (men and women) extremely excited at the continuation of our species. That's the biological quirk we have which causes us to favor pregnancy and to view it in such an otherwise disturbing manner.

Of course, there are other sides to this as well. There is the naughtiness factor as in pregnancy is the result of good old-fashioned fun sexual activity.

And then, there's the fact that she represents good old motherhood. She is a mom-to-be, and in that role, some of the stodgier psychoanalysts might say that we guys (and maybe even women) want to bed her. I don't know about that, but there is something very hawt going on here for many of us, including yours truly.

Also, there is a vulnerability about a pregnant woman which causes all to want to shield her and protect her in so many ways. But on the flips side, she often shows a strength and courage which we all find desirable. She represents the best of all humanity -- and her strength comes from her ability (and in the modern world, her willingness) to grow a huge belly and become a mom, all for keeping humanity going.

Philosophically, then, she represents the very best we have to offer, a promise of a better day -- a hope for the future, no matter how dreary and desperate today may seem.

You probably are right. Most of us are older guys. I don't think guys get into this as much until they get into their late 20s or later -- maybe once they start getting a bit of a paunch and realize how much fun growing fat can be.

I know that's what happened to me.

Define "even more"...

Here is an essay I wrote some time back about this. Also, check out the essay link here. Let me know what you think.

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Writing WG Erotica: A One-Handed Occupation"

People are often asking my advice on writing erotica.

Now, I don't pretend to do this better than anyone else.

I hope I'm better in bed than on the page, to tell the truth.

However, the best advice I can give is to read an article on writing sex scenes which was published in Utne Reader some years ago. It is an excellent article and deals with the nuts and bolts (or nuts and other body parts) very well -- and in a fun way.

Here is the link to it:

www.utne.com/Literature/How-To…

One place in there he mentions that it is okay to be aroused by your own writing -- whether you are writing with one hand or two.

Now, that is always a big problem of mine -- and probably a big problem for many erotica writers.

I got to thinking about this while reading the first weight gain erotic piece by beellygirl: fav.me/d4z7u76

It is a story dealing with the joys of feeding another while pleasuring oneself (Good story, by the way; go read it now. Well, when you finish reading this...).

Got me to thinking about problems and issues for us weight gain erotica writers. I am not saying beellygirl has this problem, but I definitely do.

The problem: I write what I write because I enjoy it so much -- perhaps even too much. Thus, typing one-handed at times.

And now, when you consider writing weight gain erotica, this problem expands into new dimensions.

What I need when typing weight-gain erotica:

1. One hand for the keyboard.

2. One hand for feeding myself.

3. One hand for, uh, you know, pleasures which may arise.

Okay, you see the dilemma -- not enough hands.

Or too much to do at once.

I believe in evolution as much as any monkey descendant, but I really can't wait for the species of weight gain erotic author to grow another hand.

I think I need a partner.

Or perhaps a new hobby which doesn't tax my physical limits so.

Have a great day, and keep living life to the fullest!

Grab onto your hunny, and grab something to eat (or feed to your loved one).

Do it now. This may be the only lifetime we get for this kind of joy.

I wanted to encourage you as well, but this guy does it so beautifully.

And besides, like you, I don't have much to show for all my searching either at this point.

I hope you don't give up and become bitter or anything. You express yourself so beautifully, and anyone can see in your words that you have a soul capable of great love -- and worthy of great love as well!

I look at the following story with hope, and I wish you that hope as well. Love is there for us, I am sure. I like the encouragement he gives, and I am taking it to heart myself. I hope you do also.

I wish you the best, Ali! I know it seems just a platitudinous cliche to say so, but . . .

Hang in there!

This sounds just absolutely wonderful to me! What a life!

Otherland, you are always such an enthusiastic supporter of so many weight-gain writers here!

I think you should take this and turn it into your own story. You write very well, and this is quite a hot fantasy!

Do it!

What an amazingly well-described fantasy! I hope you find the perfect guy!

This is a very interesting thread that goes to the heart of a dilemma for many -- how far to carry even a mild fantasy like teasing.

Teasing can be very erotic to someone, but then it can become almost like bullying, and that may indeed be a turn-off for the same person.

Teasing can be done in a loving way, or it can turn into something meanspirited.

And both are erotic to some, but both are not erotic to all.