Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Munchies:
Oh, honey.

If you were ranting about *only* the women you had interactions with, that would be one thing. I doubt anyone would have cared.

But no. You decided to lump *all* women into the same category. And that's why everyone is dog piling on you.

What's worse is that you started backpedaling when people of all genders started calling you out.

Sorry, love. You can't gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss your way out of this one.

Zampano708:
Oh, that they throw themselves at me doesn't bother me at all. I find it rather amusing. 😀 Apart from that, I didn't approach all women, but most of them... and just like you say, if I had only addressed my contacts, nobody would have been interested😁
Admittedly, I also knew a bit that I was biting into the hornet's nest and maybe wanted a bit of trouble . Not always just blah blah topics.

In real life, I can also deal to taking the contra part. 😀 I can handle that…
But arguments as I know this and that... or I do this and that... not verifiable...😉
and they weren't all that bad😀

Angy523:
I know there are already some topics with the same subject, but maybe I'll find some similar situations with mine.

Soo, long story short, I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight. Ofc this doesn't change how I feel about him and I won't force anything, but I don't understand why. When I met him, he was 10kgs heavier than he is now. He actually was joking about his belly and he always told me even I don't like his belly, I will get used to it. For some reason, he thought all my exs had 6 packs and he still thinks I would prefer a boyfriend with abs, but I assured him all my exs had bellies and I don't care about having abs. He started losing weight on purpose and he wants to get abs now. I tried to tease him telling him he'll have a belly in the next years and he always told me he doesn't mind that.

It should be easier for him to gain weight since his eating habits are pretty much helpful. He likes sweets and sometimes he drinks just soda (or at least he used to, now he is drinking less soda...he actually didn't drink it for some weeks, now he started to do it again). The only problem is that when he is around me sometimes he skips meals because I do so (lately I convinced him to eat even when I don't, but I still think he is eating less than he needs). I know in the past, when he was 15kgs heavier than he is now, he used to eat even 2 pizzas, but now he said half of one pizza is enough for him. Also, during these months he has some important exams which keep him busy and he doesn't always have time to eat.

Any suggestions?

spoop skerry:
I think it's just because there's not much incentive. Commenting a picture is only relevant to the one picture, most people that are really interested in a person just DM, I'd imagine.

Ess-dee-ess:
Hey y'all

I've been dancing around fully immersing myself in feederism for a LONG while.

I discovered my leanings back in (I think) 2015 or so, maybe 2014? And always thought that I'd be one of those "sometimes enjoying this while having an otherwise vanilla life" people.

However, this month, I've allowed myself to fully take part in a gaining contest, and I realized that this is what I /really/ want to do.

I've discussed it with my therapist, who agrees that mentally it seems that I could benefit from the self-actualization, and my (non-feeder) boyfriend agrees as well.

Shout out to my boyfriend, who is not on this site, but I still want to give him major kudos for taking on the feeder role for me last night so wonderfully

Anyway, this all to say that I'm looking for advice on how to do this in the most healthy way possible.

I'd like to spend my life with my boyfriend, and I'd prefer not to cut it short by my habits (as sexy as life-ending indulgence may sound lol). So right now I'm trying to find a middle path and I'd like some pointers from those who have been in the community longer.

I'd appreciate any tips, thank you!

finickyfeedee:
Last time I gained with cream I had this experience, although I haven’t yet with my most recent attempt. When it happened, it was a significant increase almost to the point of being scary. However, I am not sure if it was the cream specifically or just that I was putting in serious effort to eat more overall including the cream.

For me, it went away after a couple weeks of not actively trying to gain, which was a bummer because then I lost all the weight I had gained plus a little extra because I was busy and my appetite was low. However, I think there’s a good chance that if you persisted and kept eating and having cream for a longer period of time (I only managed to sustain my gaining attempt for a couple weeks before running out of steam) you could end up with long lasting changes.

Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Satana:
Lol... I have a fat partner in real life and still come here to masturbate (and interact with like-minded people).
And I see lots of women engaged with fat men IRL. Some are too afraid of "what people may think", that's true, but not all... Just like men who don't admit they like fat women. It's the same.
Can't see your point there. It sounds like an Incel speech ^^

Zampano708:
I don't know why you feel addressed when it's the way you say it is. I don't quite understand why you still need this, but that's up to you. I didn't say all women, but most did. That's still my opinion, just from the requests I get here and on Tumblr. Of course there are women who stand by it in real life, but most of them don't. That's sad, but then you don't have to invent some nonsense like online feeding or online encouragement to hide your weak back. By the way, I don't know what an incel speech is.