Offered diet pills

Anjou:
Was it wegovy? There is a push now by the AMA to get obese people on it. Even though I think it is in short supply.


I'm not a fan of diet pills and other forms of weight loss medication. I don't think it's wrong to take medication for weight loss. Sometimes a person needs to take them, and that's okay.

My problem is that too often, medication is suggested for weight loss when what most people need is lifestyle changes. The medication often comes with side effects. Plus, many people are taking them for cosmetic purposes.

I could understand if someone something like Wegovy because they need to lose weight for medical reasons, and that's the last stop before surgery. But I see too many stories of people taking stuff and they are otherwise healthy and not very fat at all.

It makes me even madder because doctora have been prescribing things like Ozempic to people who just want to shed a few tens of pounds while diabetics are needing to ration their life saving medication.

But that's just my two cents.
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Feeders or encouragers out there... do you prefer thin, chubby, or fat to start with?

Morbidly A Beast:
something tells me that feeders wanting a thin/skinny/fit feedee is a lot like wanting a puppy but losing interest or appreciation when they are a full grown dog, and it’s something I can’t really shake.

Feedees: do it for you! As someone who was fat before choosing to actively gain.


Not all feeders with thin/fit/skinny feedees are like that, but it's definately a thing.

I'd say the best way to tell isn't if they go for the thin/fit/skinny feedee, but rather how they feel about comittment and bodily autonomy. Basically asking if the feeder will treat the feedee with empathy and respect - understanding that the feedee has the final say no matter what.
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Feeders or encouragers out there... do you prefer thin, chubby, or fat to start with?

I don't think I could choose. Slim guys are so cute when they thicken up; you can keep at it for years and years. Chubby guys are just objectively good, no matter the size.

It wasn't mentioned, but I enjoy seeing muscular guys soften up - even better if they retain their muscles.
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It's a myth that fat people can't feel the cold!

Summerr:
Because I'm huge and I can. Omg, it's freezing. Even with the heating on it's still chilly 🥶

Weetabix:
As an amateur scientist I'm trying to figure this out. The temperature in a room can be 23C but because it's cold outside we feel cold inside.

There's either something more to this or it's just women act like princesses when it comes to their comfort.

Munchies:
It's actually a very well-studied phenomenon with many papers about it. Some links for your convenience:

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

I will say that if something is common in a large group of people, it's probably not an overreaction.

Weetabix:
Well that is interesting but the article does assume it's cold. What I am finding with my partner us that she is cold not because the room is cold but because it's cold outside.

I have set up regular temperature, pressure and humidity logging plus a button to record too cold, comfortable and too hot. I've not set up outdoor temperature monitoring which means the experiment is still incomplete.

I think the article gives me something to think about in that women may react to the idea that it's cold by conserving heat by shutting off blood flow to the extremities. This would actually make them cold.

When my woman says she is cold, her hands actually feel cold, colder than the room! I should measure her hand temperature for my experiment.

I myself am like a 2kw electric fire. Heat comes off me so much that I was out today in a T-shirt watching all the people wrapped up in sheepskin coats and scarfs.


There are non-gender-related reasons why someone may feel cold. Your wife may have an iron deficiency or poor blood circulation, for example. Of course, only her doctor will be able to say why she feels the way she does.
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It's a myth that fat people can't feel the cold!

Summerr:
Because I'm huge and I can. Omg, it's freezing. Even with the heating on it's still chilly 🥶

Weetabix:
As an amateur scientist I'm trying to figure this out. The temperature in a room can be 23C but because it's cold outside we feel cold inside.

There's either something more to this or it's just women act like princesses when it comes to their comfort.


It's actually a very well-studied phenomenon with many papers about it. Some links for your convenience:

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

www.pfizer.com/news/articles/cold_wars_why_women_feel_the_chill_more

I will say that if something is common in a large group of people, it's probably not an overreaction.
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Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

Miachu:
I ended up ghosting all my friends for like 2 days, I honestly felt so down and embarrassed over it, and what made it worse is my BF say it

However I've spoke to some of my friends about it now


Oof. Well, if they are quality friends, they will still love and respect you.
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Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

BlackjackandBerries:
I'd die. I mean I'm already worried because my best friend may have snooped through my phone while I was asleep. I've accidentally had this website open on my phone tab while playing quipplash because the jack box website swapped out of my tab to a tab of fantasy feeder I forgot to close... it was long enough to where she saw it. Basically I am terrified of people knowing. Idk how you cope.


Girl, why your friend be snooping through your stuff? Das weird. Fetish aside.
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Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

YumNom:
How did it happen?

Miachu:
I accidentally shared some fat related art in my group chat of friends, during a live discussion about the Super Mario movie




How'd it go?

I have some friends outside of this kink that know I'm a feeder, but it's not something we talk about very much. Kinda hard to naturally bring it up in conversation when you're the only one that's into it.
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Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
Anything you do to get more calories in will cost money, cream is the cheapest option for the most calories by far. I don't understand how anything I've said could be construed as unhelpful

Munchies:
I want to be clear. I have no issues with you recommending heavy cream to OP. Even better if it works for you. My one and only issue is that you stated that since OP was worried about the cost, they weren't actually interested in seeking advice on gaining.

Milkshakeandfries:
I kind of assumed that anyone asking advice about how to consume more calories understood that consuming more calories is going to be more expensive than consuming less calories. Also when I was a member of the site years ago, it seemed full of people who just wanted to talk about it, not actually do it, so I'm just trying to understand why if someone is earnestly seeking advice, they'd flatly reject the most economical as being too expensive. My apologies.


Considering your life experience, I can understand how you might come to that conclusion. I would say that, in the future, maybe don't make any kind of accusation unless OP posts more details.

You gotta remember that everyone has different life situations. What might be doable for one person may not be doable for another. And if you were right that OP is a poser, there's no need to stress about it either. Not unless you are doing the funding of course. 😋
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Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
Anything you do to get more calories in will cost money, cream is the cheapest option for the most calories by far. I don't understand how anything I've said could be construed as unhelpful


I want to be clear. I have no issues with you recommending heavy cream to OP. Even better if it works for you. My one and only issue is that you stated that since OP was worried about the cost, they weren't actually interested in seeking advice on gaining.
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