Fantasy Feeder

I can see other people's dms

FF Team:
Hi Munchies,

Thanks for getting in touch about this. I am very sorry this you experienced this. It is a chat bug that we are aware of and have been trying to fix.

As of yet we have been unable to replicate the issue, and are unable to 'test'because it happens sporadically. Can you give any further information about what happened / what you were doing on the chat?

Had the chat reset, were you about to click on opening a private chat with someone else, were you typing a reply, changing chat settings... any further information about this will be extremely helpful.

This is not something that should be happening, and we agree, it's a bug that needs to be fixed asap. Your privacy is of the upmost importance, and any help you or anyone else this may have happened to would be appreciated so we can get this sorted.

Thanks,
c00kie
FF Team

I wad chatting with a friend of my in a private chat. The screen froze up for a moment. I stopped typing because sometimes chat freezes and switches back to the main chat. And if you aren't careful, whatever you type will end up in the main chat. (By the way, this is another bug that you need to fix.)

As soon as chat unfroze, I expected to see the usual main chat in general. But instead, I saw a private conversation between two other users. I didn't look very closely because I'm not a terrible person. But from what I noticed, it was a conversation that happened about an hour or two ago at the time. I could see both participants as well. I had the option to scroll up and respond as well.

It is extremely irresponsible of you that I had to find out about the bug this way. You provided no notification about this at all. And if you did, you didn't put it anywhere someone could see it.

Judging by the kinds of messages I get, a lot of other people don't know this either. Where you planning on saying nothing and just fix it quietly?

2 years

Munchies

Blood pressure, sugar, gaining

Bigwideland:
I agree on the salt, I try and avoid it, and avoid process carbs, like white bread I eat whole grain or brown. If I have sugar it’s raw sugar.

Raw sugar is soooo good. I love it more than table sugar.

2 years

Munchies

I’m so done with chatting to people in this community…

Myusername4fantasyfeeder:
Quick check: have you ever actually fed anybody ever? And not just like somebody who was ill, but somebody in an explicit "I am a feeder and I am going to feed you" way.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
No. You?

EDIT: I visited your profile and maybe the better question is if you have insight to share from a feeder/feedee relationship, regardless of which side of that you fell on, which you believe needs practical experience to truly understand. I'll readily admit that I have gaps in my knowledge and shortcomings of experience. Part of why I'm here is to learn.

I've read a lot of your posts. You seem like a really sweet guy. Just focus on what works for you. Feedism looks different for everyone. And it's really dumb to say someone isn't a feeder if they've never fed anyone. It's like saying you can't be "insert sexuality here" if you're a virgin.

2 years

Munchies

I can see other people's dms

So, I was chatting with someone just now, and then FF glitched. Next thing I know, I'm looking at someone else's private conversation. I back out as soon as I saw it, but dear lord.

I shouldn't be able to see other people's conversations. And I pray to God they are not seeing mine. This is a *huge* privacy violation that MUST be fixed.

2 years

Munchies

Blood pressure, sugar, gaining

Dynamo:
Hi gang. I'll try to make a looong story short so I can get to my concerns.

This year I got wholloped with depression, and that caused me to lose some weight and hit the couch, too bummed to eat. I finally got back to the gym (because I love feeling strong and muscle/chub combo) but then in another unrelated activity, tore an elbow tendon. I'm slowly back into gentle workouts now. So this year I've been sedentary more than usual, and losing weight.

I wanna put it back on *and more.* However... My blood pressure is high (131/85). I also have a scale that reports visceral fat, and although I know it's not totally accurate, I watch the trend, and that's going up which I'm sure means blood sugars are up as well. (I'm predisposed to Diabetes.)

I saw the other thread about blood sugar and will be following that advice. I'm kind of bummed that I can't just "pack it on" and I'm not even "that big" yet.

I guess getting a lot of cardio in will help fix high bp? Clearly less sugar. AND still put some pounds on?? Has anyone been in this kind of position? Tips or advice?

If your blood pressure is too high, you need to cut your salt intake. Are you eating a lot of processed or pre-prepared foods? Do you cook with seasoning mixes? If you are, you're probably consuming a lot more sodium and you realize.

Also, cut back on caffeine. It constricts your blood vessels, which makes high blood pressure worse. Switch to tea if you need something to get you out of bed in the morning.

2 years

Munchies

I’m so done with chatting to people in this community…

Myusername4fantasyfeeder:
Stop talking. Start doing. You are a feeder. Feed somebody.

Munchies:
This is terrible advice. I talk to too many feeders who have this mentality. They are honestly the worst part of the site. They do not care about you as a person and want to get their rocks off.

They don't listen. You are nothing to them.

The other day, I got a message from a feeder who only wanted to feed someone. I told him I was a muscular domme feeder and wasn't interested. Still, he persisted.

I did scare him off by telling him he was cute and would look even cuter on my strap. So there's that.

Feeding - especially online feeding - is an art. And if you want to do it well, you have to get to know the other person on some level.

Myusername4fantasyfeeder:
I take your point, but the point of being a feeder is to feed. Things like "online" or "encouraging" or "talking about it" are marginalia, and I get the impression for people on FF that the marginalia has taken over to the detriment of actual feeding

Soldiers fight. Pilots fly. Jugglers juggle. Runners run. Somebody calling themselves a feeder has to feed.

Again, it's an art. If you go at it ham-fisted, you'll scare off the feedee.

Every feedee is different. Some like things more forceful and degrading. Others like it more soft and sweet. But either way, there has to be clear communication and mutual respect.

You're right that it's easy to get lost in the minutiae. But it's still an essential part of the process. It's a balancing act that varies from person to person. And you won't know what ratio you need until you get to know the person on some level.

I promise you it works. That's how I snagged my feedee.

2 years

Munchies

Situations or fantasies you want to see in stories?

bcain:
As of late I’ve been digging the concept of a fat person coaching a skinny person into their true fat potential. Teaching them their fattening habits and watching them blow up in the process.

This reminds me of an RP I'm going with a friend of mine on here. It's a fun scenario.

2 years

Munchies

I’m so done with chatting to people in this community…

Myusername4fantasyfeeder:
Stop talking. Start doing. You are a feeder. Feed somebody.

This is terrible advice. I talk to too many feeders who have this mentality. They are honestly the worst part of the site. They do not care about you as a person and want to get their rocks off.

They don't listen. You are nothing to them.

The other day, I got a message from a feeder who only wanted to feed someone. I told him I was a muscular domme feeder and wasn't interested. Still, he persisted.

I did scare him off by telling him he was cute and would look even cuter on my strap. So there's that.

Feeding - especially online feeding - is an art. And if you want to do it well, you have to get to know the other person on some level.

2 years

Munchies

Situations or fantasies you want to see in stories?

I would like more non-predatory feedism please. I get people like it, but most of the stories on here feature predatory feedism, and I can't read that kind of stuff. I usually wind up on AO3 to get my fix because there's more variety.

On a happier note, I'm very fond of stories where the feedee/gainer's belly is a project of some kind. Say, a bonding activity between partners, a challege for the feedee/gainer, or the feedee/gainer is part of something where they have to get fat or est a lot which leads to them getting fat.

Here's a free idea. Person A wants to be a cooking YouTuber. Person B offers to taste test or eat the food Person A makes. The channel does well, and Person B gets fat. Their belly and weight gain become integral to the channel.

2 years

Munchies

Weight gain and diabetes

I'm an unmedicated diabetic and an ex-gainer. My diabetes is diet controlled.

It is entirely possible to gain without making yourself sick. You just have switch up your diet.

For example, avocados, nuts, high-fat fish, and milk are all good ways to gain weight without spiking your a1c. It's just that it won't be as fast eating donuts and cakes.

2 years

Munchies