Who here started as feeder/fa and turned a 100% feedee?

Encourager Queer Guy:
I know it's quite common, I am just fascinated by that process and how it happens.
is there a specific incidence that triggers the switch or does it happen over time?
are there signes? is it easy to accept and adapt to the new lifestyle?
is the feeder/FA phase just a form a projection of what will eventually happen?


Not necessarily. I started out as a gainer. Now I am a feeder and an FA. Still, I'm very much in the minority.
2 years

How can i delete my fantasy feeder profile?

Blubberbellym:
Hey, I've been asking for help on how to delete my profile, I don't see it anywhere in the settings options, someone said it could be because I'm on a mobile browser instead of the actual website. But I'm sure there's a way it can be done regardless. Can someone please help me?


Sorry to see you go, but I understand why you are leaving. I wish you well in all of your endeavors.

If you want to delete your profile, you go to your account. There will be a delete button on the upper right-hand side of the page.
2 years

Had to block my first person today

Morbidly A Beast:
Don’t feel pressured into downloading an external app to communicate with someone. That’s sus behavior, I would honestly report them because people like that are not real. correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t that against ToS?


Looking at the website rules, it is not.

fantasyfeeder.com/about/rules
2 years

Had to block my first person today

Weetabix:
Plenty wrong with trying to conduct a romance on here. The 5 message limit creates anxiety when the person does not respond for instance. This then puts pressure on people to take it to another communications platform that may not be so anonymous. It could be that one feels ghosted because the other ran out of messages. They then urge the other to join them on another platform which may come across as controlling or needy.

It really is a bit crappy. I raised the point that FF can be a bad place in past conversations and people proved me correct. This time you've been careful not to prove me correct because I signposted the trap for you.

If people are going to have a successful romance on here they need to keep it lite and short. Then meet before the flame burns out.


I'm confused.

I'm not a hostile person. There are people I might disagree with, but I don't go out of my way to cause drama. Not unless someone is trying to come after me.

I know that you and I have had negative interactions in the past, but so long as you don't treat me poorly, I have no desire to be hostile with you.

As for the romance, I met my current partner on here. Honestly, it's the best relationship I've ever had.

But, of course, we are straying from OP's initial post about gross people taking advantage of her.
2 years

Long term feederism and pregnancy

Munchies:
At this point, you need to do your own research about the human body. There's a whole lot that you don't know, and I am not doing a dissertation about human biology on a fetish site.

And yes. Check ups are required. So much can go wrong in a short amount of time during a pregnancy for both mother and baby. A pregnant woman will go to the doctor multiples times to make sure she and her child are safe. She might go even more often if it's a high risk pregnancy.

Nijjrtman8:
What and where did you learn about the human body to be relevant to this "kink"?
Ah,so you are saying that check ups are suggested to make sure there aren't any problems related to the pregnancy
What other problems would interfere with the pregnancy if the woman is morbidly obese and not stopping any time soon? Would lack of oxygen to the fetus be one of the possibilities?


I studied biology in college. I also have an avid interest in it.

But, as I said in my previous post, do your own research. There are tons of medical texts and articles out there that you can read for free. You are on the internet. Go forth.
2 years

Read my bio before messaging💕

Emmiejaja:
My stomach keeps making weird noises.


What an interesting combination of subject and body
2 years

Long term feederism and pregnancy

Munchies:
Not eating processed foods help. However, it's not fool proof. Also, just because the food isn't processed doesn't mean it's healthy.

Adding onto that, just being fat increases your risk for a lot of health conditions. It doesn't mean that you will get them. There are plenty of healthy fat people out there. But, there are also plenty of people who can't get fat or can't gain past a certain point lest they encounter health issues.

This is why regular check ups are so important with this kink. Because anything could go wrong at any time. Best to get regular check ups and head off any issues as they come.

As far as what makes one woman's risk greater than the other? There's a lot of things. Pre-existing conditions, genetic, and environmental factors are the main reasons. However, especially with genetic factors, it's not always clear what will happen until it happens.

Nijjrtman8:
Why wouldn't not eating processed food be of help?
Why does being fat simply increase your risk of health conditions?
How does one know if a woman will encounter health problems when getting fat? (Besides from looking at her family)
Is going to the doctor really required? People here usually go once something hurts or there is some oddity
There is no concept of "check-ups" here


At this point, you need to do your own research about the human body. There's a whole lot that you don't know, and I am not doing a dissertation about human biology on a fetish site.

And yes. Check ups are required. So much can go wrong in a short amount of time during a pregnancy for both mother and baby. A pregnant woman will go to the doctor multiples times to make sure she and her child are safe. She might go even more often if it's a high risk pregnancy.
2 years

Losing visceral fat keeping subcutaneous?

Solarflare43:
Is it possible to lose visceral fat while keeping most of my subcutaneous gains?

I've developed quite a large belly, but the hardness of my waistline has started to make me worry about excess visceral fat. It is very firm to the touch

My thighs I'm very happy with, they've gotten nicely wide & jiggly

Is there any way I could cut down on my waistline a good bit to create a more feminine shape / lose visceral fat but keep my thighs?

Possibly gain even more overall but then hit the gym hard?

I'm going to start exercising but I'm hoping there's a way to keep my fat thighs without having to entirely replace them with muscle


Good news! When you lose weight, visceral fat burns before subcutaneous fat.

I can't promise you won't lose some thigh fat, but you'll still be jiggly.
2 years

Long term feederism and pregnancy

Munchies:
You initially said that you'd make her eat only the calories she needs to eat during her pregnancy. This is what I'm taking issue with.

Besides, even outside of kink, controlling what a pregnant woman gets to eat never ends well for the other person.

Still, it would be best to consult medical professional about what is best for mother and baby. Based on our previous conversations, you still have a lot to learn about basic nutrition.

I am confused why you are so hesitant to involve medical professionals. As far as I can tell, Romania has free healthcare. So, even though you've told me that you're poor, wouldn't you be able to take her to the doctor?

Nijjrtman8:
Public healthcare here isn't free for minors much less for adults which pay their dues to the state


Well then, if this is to important to you, it's in your best interest to study biology and nutrition to get a basic understanding. You will also need to set money aside because children are very expensive. You are single and childless for now, so you have some time.

I will also say that if you truly want a feedee wife and have kids, you'll need to step up and help her with the day to day things. Earning money isn't enough. If she's going to grow for you, you'll have to help her with the things she'll struggle to do.

You also need to be prepared if she decides she wants to or needs to lose weight. Because if you can't make peace with that, your relationship is doomed. Since you say you can't get it up otherwise.
2 years

Long term feederism and pregnancy

Munchies:
Feedism isn't without risk. Diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, joint damage

Couldn't diabetes,high blood presure and high cholesterol be countered through a diet lacking super processed foods?
What about the joints?

Munchies:
Sure, there are some women who will be able to gain through their pregnancy and be none the worse for wear. But not every woman is like that. And the only way to be safe about it is to make sure she has access to medical care.

Nijjrtman8:
What makes them different?
Also,unfortunately "risky kink behaviour" is the only way for me to make kids without the help of viagra
And for me making kids is one of top goals so it is very essential I accomplish


Not eating processed foods help. However, it's not fool proof. Also, just because the food isn't processed doesn't mean it's healthy.

Adding onto that, just being fat increases your risk for a lot of health conditions. It doesn't mean that you will get them. There are plenty of healthy fat people out there. But, there are also plenty of people who can't get fat or can't gain past a certain point lest they encounter health issues.

This is why regular check ups are so important with this kink. Because anything could go wrong at any time. Best to get regular check ups and head off any issues as they come.

As far as what makes one woman's risk greater than the other? There's a lot of things. Pre-existing conditions, genetic, and environmental factors are the main reasons. However, especially with genetic factors, it's not always clear what will happen until it happens.
2 years