Milkshakeandfries:
A carton is only like $3

Bigger Cheese:
$3 every day, that might be a bit much long term. Especially since I use heavy cream for other things.

Milkshakeandfries:
Nothing will get you extra calories without costing some money. This is by far the most cost efficient source of calories. If you're not interested in drinking it, that's fine, but if it's too expensive than anything suggested here is going to be too expensive. Calories come from food. Food costs money. Cream is $3. You can get 1200-1400 calories of cream or about 800-900 calories in value menu fast food for about the same price. You don't have to drink a carton a day, have 4 cartons a week for 3 weeks, that should make you gain a couple pounds and cost $36. That's the price of getting Five Guys twice. Are you actually trying to get advice on packing in more calories?

Munchies:
Hun, this not helpful advise. I am glad that you are fiscally secure, but not everyone is. You need to meet people where they are. There is no reason to shame OP.

Milkshakeandfries:
I'm not fiscally secure! I'm extremely poor. That's part of why I chose to try using cream to gain. It's much, much cheaper than any other option I could figure out to increase calories.

Milkshakeandfries:
A carton is only like $3

Bigger Cheese:
$3 every day, that might be a bit much long term. Especially since I use heavy cream for other things.

Milkshakeandfries:
Nothing will get you extra calories without costing some money. This is by far the most cost efficient source of calories. If you're not interested in drinking it, that's fine, but if it's too expensive than anything suggested here is going to be too expensive. Calories come from food. Food costs money. Cream is $3. You can get 1200-1400 calories of cream or about 800-900 calories in value menu fast food for about the same price. You don't have to drink a carton a day, have 4 cartons a week for 3 weeks, that should make you gain a couple pounds and cost $36. That's the price of getting Five Guys twice. Are you actually trying to get advice on packing in more calories?

Expatbhm:
I can’t wait to see this thread in a year’s time. I think you’re right on the verge of enjoying the weight gain. If you’re meant to be skinny, you’ll turn it around, but I think you would have done that already.

Angy523:
I think it's to late for that. Even if I want to, it's too much weight to lose and it will make me quit easier.

Doublefrosted:
I recommend finding some way to make sure you're consuming fibre daily, otherwise you're going to get backed up a lot and it will not be pleasant. I doubt you want to rely on laxatives to keep you regular.

FatDave:
In 2023 I want to get a little more serious about doing a junk food and fast food only diet. With that in mind I'm working to cut out as many vegetables and low-sugar fruit as I can.

Overall I'm looking to have an unhealthy diet. The less health foods the better.

That said I'm not looking to become nutritionally deficient. I figured a multivitamin or something should be sufficient to get me what I need, but I'm open to other suggestions.

Munchies:
A junkfood and fast food only diet is going to mess up your internals big time. So much so that you will not be able to gain as much weight as you would like to gain. It's best to have a good mix of healthy and unhealthy food. Not to mention the cost of it all in this economy.

Remember, love. You're an American. You do not have access to free healthcare. Idk if you have good insurance or not, but I can promise you it's still crazy expensive with insurance.

Lispoiledprincess:
You need those things, but you can spice them up. You don't need to eat veggies plain. You could have broc covered in cheese, have sweet potatoes with marshmallows...strawberries with sugar.. stuff like that.

FatDave:
Good point. Covering healthy food in fattening toppings. Will try this

Dmal202121:
I think I'm gonna try and lose some weight as I am starting to feel ugly and unattractive, I felt like this when I was skinny but starting to feel ugly and unattractive again now so I am contemplating some weight loss, what do you guys think

Munchies:
I already told you before. But I will tell you again. There are too many people on this site that do not treat women (and sometimes other minority groups) like people. All we want is basic respect. There is a lot of misogeny on this site, and people are tired of it. So we are pushing back on it.

I'm sorry if you feel like it's an inconvience to you, but imagine what it's like for us.

Nok:
cool beans, just restate what you've already said despite NO ONE asking you to do so, complain about having to restate it, ignore the comment you're replying to entirely, but look like you replied while also playing the victim card and offering no real solutions. Very mature. Really contributing to the community Munchies. /s

Any of your acolytes want to try their hand at expressing a real solution to the questions posed rather than just attacking pointlessly or playing for sympathy?

And for the record, as you well know, I absolutely care and have imagined, as best I can as a cis straight white male, what you've gone through, and I think the problems you bring up are real issues that need to be solved.

But the solution isn't to shut down anyone that posts something that isn't perfectly framed to sjw aesthetics. It MAY be to divide the forums and moderate them differently, but that's a difficult, problematic, ubiquitous, and expensive proposition.

So I will ask again, do you have any ideas to contribute on how to solve the issues of inclusion on BOTH sides of this equation? To have a forum where women and minorities and transpeople feel safe, and to simultaneously have a forum where everyone feels heard and free to express themselves without shame (within the boundaries, of course, of not intentionally directing abuse at specific site members or communities, using hate speech, etc.)?

Munchies:
Then what, pray tell, should we do when users post harmful rhetoric?

Political correctness isn't even part of the situation. Political correctness is about things like "Is it better to say POC or BIPOC?"

The things people are pushing back about is misogeny, transphobia, homophobia, and racism - usually just the first two.

Read the messages again. No on cared that he wanted to fatten up his girlfriend. Heck, on this site, everyone would suppose him with that.

It was the non-consensual objectification and dehumanization of his actions that people had issues with.

I don't know if you are aware, but this site has a massive problem with treating women like people. If you look around the forums, you'll see men doing and saying some horrible things and women recounting their own nightmarish experiences.

I ask you what is more important to you? Letting people say things that make others - especially women - feel unsafe and leave the site in droves? Or would you rather women feel safe and stay on this site? Because if all the women leave, this place will become a sausage fest and the site will collapse.

Nok:
I think what Hiccupx was saying is that if your default is hostility to anyone that doesn't fit your sensibilities, that will drive people from the site too.

I agree the site has a sex-ratio issue, but so do most dating sites and social forums. It's an internet issue and a human issue, not exclusively an FF issue.

Making a place that women feel safe is important, but driving away the core clientele for a business is also a mistake. It's got to be a balance.

Yes, the worst offenders need to be dealt with, flagged to mods. But going out of your way to be hostile to people posting general ideas and fantasies and questions isn't the answer either, I think, and I think you know that too, deep down inside, in spite of what your groupies parrot to you.

That post a couple months ago discussing what you'd like to see on a safe social forum was a great idea, but I have a different one for you: If you ran a site like this, on this internet, in this culture, with this species, how would you balance the safety of free expression with the safety of women? Would you suggest something like a split forum, one for shame-free expression, and one for a safer space in this genre and community? Would you be willing to moderate the latter? What are your thoughts? Because if you can find a better balance between those interests, I'm sure we'd all, non-sarcastically, appreciate hearing it.

Miachu:
Love a women for what she is, Not what you want her to become

Spookyhoodlum:
this is just a fantasy...... I do love my GF...... my sexual fantasy is just that fanatsy. why does everyone get so fucking serious on here🙃

Hiccupx:
This site is deliberately named 'Fantasy' Feeder because we want it to be a place where people can share, explore and rejoice in their feedism fantasies, without fear of being critisized or shut down by people who don't understand or care about this fetish.

Therefore it's perfectly ok to express fantasies about wanting to get fat or wanting to fatten others in these forums. So for example, it's ok to express desires such as 'I wish my girlfriend would put on weight', or 'I wish my girlfriend would get as fat as her sister', or I wish my girlfriend would get to 500lbs'. These are all fantasies, which may or may not come true or apply to real life, everyone is entitled to their fantasies and are welcome to share them with others on this site.

Not all fantasies will be the politically correct thing, indeed many people frown upon feedism itself. Many members who come here have been ridiculed thoughout their lives for their 'fat' preferences, and it can take courage to share them even on a site like this. This is a website of tolerance and acceptance and although you may not agree or approve or someone else's fantasy, please refrain from trying to chastise that person or immediately shut them down a soon as they try to express their desires. As has been previously said, this will just close down the conversation and stop members wanting to post.

FatDave:
In 2023 I want to get a little more serious about doing a junk food and fast food only diet. With that in mind I'm working to cut out as many vegetables and low-sugar fruit as I can.

Overall I'm looking to have an unhealthy diet. The less health foods the better.

That said I'm not looking to become nutritionally deficient. I figured a multivitamin or something should be sufficient to get me what I need, but I'm open to other suggestions.