Fatiluvr:
No punches held, I hate the new format of the website. You buried the dark mode option, and even just trying to browse to the forum to post this the navigation is atrocious, and not very intuitive. I was just presented with a list of posts under various categories until I clicked further and apparently leveled up to earn the "create topic" button once I'd apparently invested enough time and delved deep enough. WTF? Did the BOFH take over with the site redesign and simply say to hell with the users? What is this garbage new interface?
You are right, and you should say it.
It's not so bad on mobile. In some respects, it's better that it used to be by leaps and bounds.
Desktop on the other hand ...
2 years
Darthstuffer:
I'm sure this will bring me a lot of hate, but I'd really like to not see transsexual individuals when I'm browsing females, and I can't believe I'm alone in thinking this either.
It's transgender, not transsexual.
Also, there's long been a a transgender category. I'd say most trans people use that. However, some transwomen will use the female option for a wide variety of very valid reasons.
I think if transpeople had more options to pick besides transgender or no gender, there may be a reduction in that. However, you will need to make your peace that you will always see transwomen when you are looking at profiles labeled female.
2 years
Zorah:
Im kinda the same way unfortunatly. I really dislike this kink sometimes because its unhealthy
Zampano708:
neither is the covid vaccine🫢
Hey, love. This is a hot button topic that has nothing to do with the thread. The last time someone brought it up, the thread got locked. Let's not do that here.
Please and thank you.
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
So it happened, my Dad called me a glutton when after dinner a few nights ago. We went out, went back to my house than sat down to a movie and I polished a bad of chips during it, at which point he called me a glutton and how I’m gonna be as big as a house if I don’t get my act right, and I just straight up said get out of my house and that I’m a 30 year old man. I feel like I laid the law down on him trying to shame me maybe I should make that clear when I talk to him? Amazed it just happened now, thought it would have happened sooner.
Oof. I'm sorry your dad disrespected you - especially in your own house. Did you get an apology?
2 years
Tentacles:
It's a weird term men are not the ones that have to go through pregnancy It's the women who have to go through the body changes.
That's not why they are called dad bods. Just as women face body changes when they are mothers (even if they were never pregnant), men face them too. This is because parents often neglect themselves a bit when they are focused on raising their kids.
Suddenly, you have less time to work out, and you find yourself eating more junk because it's quick and easy. So, naturally, a lot of people put on a few.
Not every dad will have a dad bod, and not everyone with a dad bod is a dad. But, it is most closely associated with a stereotypical father's bod. Hence the name
2 years
AngelEyes:
I’m asking in general. Do you have any insight as a woman?
Every woman's tastes are different, but there are plenty of women who think chubby guys are cute (even outside of this fetish) or do not mind a chubby body.
That being said, you also have to be a decent person, with personality, and confidence. You also have to be patient. Not evert women will be interested, but you won't be interested in every woman either.
2 years
AngelEyes:
How common are women that like chubbier men? Or fat men?
Sir, this is a fat fetish site.
2 years
I'm at a point where my partner playing with his belly is enough to drive me to distraction.
It's funny. If it were anyone else, it would be hot, but nothing special. But when it's him?
Utter perfection.
2 years
Allsortsofawesome:
Some like to stay close to the mean- nothing too bad, nothing too exciting. That's "playing it safe" and essentially boring.
Others like to live life to its fullest, with all the super greatness and potential bad that comes with. That's maximizing your experience.
Now you just have to figure what kind of person you are and which of these to choose.
Eh. That's a false dichotomy. There aren't only two options - playing it safe and maximizing your experience. There's a whole bunch of stuff in the middle too.
Also, there are valid reasons someone may or may not want to gain weight. And no one but OP can decide what's the right answer.
2 years
