Munchies:
It's very simple.

Don't have kids if you are unable to take care of them.

Nijjrtman8:
Are you trying to say that most of the country of Romania should stop having kids?
Are you trying to say that most africans should stop having children?

Munchies:
But if you cannot obtain the medical care than your hypothetical family needs, it is wiser to wait until you are.

Nijjrtman8:
What if that may never come?

Munchies:
It's not an exact science. But, if she has a family history, has had pregnancy complications in the past, or if she's having a high risk pregnancy, it's more likely she will have complications.

Also, keep in mind that if she does keep gaining consistently through her pregnancy, she may become more tired than if she kept her weight under control. So, if you go that route, you'll need to step up and help her.

And she'll really need you after she gives birth. Pregnancy and birth are hard on the body. And taking care of a baby (especially a newborn) is even harder. Don't be surprised if she wants to take a break from actively gaining.

Nijjrtman8:
How would I make her eat just what her body needs in terms of calories if she regularly overeats?

Blubberbellym:
So, recently I was talking to someone on here. & we switched to kik so that texting would be easier since there's a 5 message limit here.

We were chatting & getting to know each other, started talking about the possibility of meeting up since we were local.

He mentioned he wanted to feed & help grow someone, but would want to feed them irl which Is great.

He asked to see pictures of my weight gain over the years, and stuff like that. I shared it with him. & then he asked for NSFW pictures, and a video saying how big I wanted to grow, I thought it was an odd request as it was random, but I still did it,

He asked again for more a couple hours later & I told him no, he told me that he was not interested in feeding me if I can't do what he asks.

I said okay, and cleared him from my conversation feed. Early this morning he sent me a unsolicited photo & told me if I do the video he will feed me.


I got the vibe tgst he was just a creep looking to get off. I don't think I'll be interacting on this site much more after this

Weetabix:
It's possible he was a creep however online is not a good place to get to know each other. The very caution required online comes across as cold. I know this cuts to the very heart of a site like FF but it's a modern day problem. These are not good places to meet people. There are far more Feeders and Feedees than you would realise from the members of FF. You're really dealing with a sad subset of people who think it's practical to build a romantic relationship online. If you do click with someone it's likely that they are more than 2000 miles away so that's a huge problem. It's also likely that they themselves have been hurt in some way by online relationships which makes both them and you act in a creepy way to each other.

I would suggest that you actually meet people in person in a safe place rather than try to conduct an online relationship.

If you don't realise how toxic online can be then just read the replies I get to this post.

Blubberbellym:
Thanks guys, I appreciate the feedback. Glad others Siri think that is wrong, I dint think I'll still continue much on this site, was nice though.

Munchies:
Every woman is different. Some women won't experience any complications. Some women will. On top of that, every pregnancy is different. So the same woman could be fine during one pregnancy and have complications during another.

As always, frequent check ups are a must during pregnancy.

Nijjrtman8:
I know of both,where its fine and where there are complications
Are there any predictors for this?
Any clinical data on the effects of a woman who is constantly gaining weight in regards to pregnancy and after it?

Munchies:
As always, frequent check ups are a must during pregnancy.

Nijjrtman8:
I may or may not have access to a doctor in the future
Is there an alternative for this?

Drugsarefunny:
It's going to get much fatter in less time. During pregnancy your hormones are very high, this makes you much hungrier and you harbor more food in your stomach. My cousin was pregnant and she eats much less now than when she had the baby in her belly.

Put food in front of her and she will eat it. She'll have weird cravings like pickles with cream or butter with ketchup.

Nijjrtman8:
I see
I was asking about the complications of a ever fattening woman and pregnancy
But if it has got to this subject,how should a man deal with this so that his wife dosen't gain a huge amount of weight during the pregnancy?

Blubberbellym:
So, recently I was talking to someone on here. & we switched to kik so that texting would be easier since there's a 5 message limit here.

We were chatting & getting to know each other, started talking about the possibility of meeting up since we were local.

He mentioned he wanted to feed & help grow someone, but would want to feed them irl which Is great.

He asked to see pictures of my weight gain over the years, and stuff like that. I shared it with him. & then he asked for NSFW pictures, and a video saying how big I wanted to grow, I thought it was an odd request as it was random, but I still did it,

He asked again for more a couple hours later & I told him no, he told me that he was not interested in feeding me if I can't do what he asks.

I said okay, and cleared him from my conversation feed. Early this morning he sent me a unsolicited photo & told me if I do the video he will feed me.


I got the vibe tgst he was just a creep looking to get off. I don't think I'll be interacting on this site much more after this

Cash007:
Hi guys, this is something I’ve been wondering for a while so thought it would be good to post about it.

Fat shaming/humiliation is a big kink for a lot of us but it’s not really that accessible, does anyone know the best place to go for it/ what are your thoughts on this side of the fetish?

Also hmu if you wanna shame or be shamed

Munchies:
Most people won't fat shame others. Either they won't care or they don't want to be rude.

You'll have to find a partner or be so piggish that people won't help but to notice. And even then, it will probably be something mild like hushed whispers or darting glances.

Cash007:
Yeah you’re right I’ll have to exaggerate my ways aha. But what I really mean is I wish there was more of a community around it, perhaps it’s much less common than I think and I’m miss reading it completely.