I understand how you feel. It's why I don't go into chat very often unless I am going to chat with a specific person/people.

Some advice:

If the conversation fizzles out, or the other person hasn't responded back to you, just move on. If something came up, they will let you know. Otherwise, they don't respect your time.

State your intentions upfront. If you wanna get to know a person first, or just be horny in DMs, say so (politely). Of they aren't interested, then you can respect each other's time and move on.

No relationship (platonic, romantic, sexual) works well without a firm foundation. If all you do is feedist stuff, you're building a house on sand. Make a connection first and maintain it.

In a nutshell? Anything that's similar to Daniel Keaton.

Thanks. You're sweet. It's actually a list of various different shakes. Plus, the ingredients are common, affordable (global price hike not withstanding) and easy to explain away if people get nosy.

Always a pleasure helping people achieve their goals. And of course making the world a ... softer place.

I understand.

You can always order a shake when you go through the drive through. A lot of places have them on the menu.

But if you want to DIY them, there's this webpage I've been using a lot with my feedee. There's other recipies on there too.

fatboydiet.tumblr.com/gainershakes

You probably already have some of the ingredients to several of these in your kitchen right now.

My feedee is fond of stuffing until he gets pretty full, and then topping it off with a shake. Or several.

A handful of things:

Stay active as you gain. - Not only is it good for your health, but you'll have better control over your gains.

Have a gaining budget. - Set aside a certain amount of money a month for gaining related things. Food, drinks, clothing, etc. Once the money's gone for the month, you have to wait until next month. This way you can gain without breaking the bank and make better choices.

Don't eat mostly junk. - It's made to be addicting and is very good at fattening. Eat normal food, but it larger portions

Take gaining breaks. - It's very easy to get consumed by this fetish. Take regular gaining breaks to give your body time to adjust. Plus, it helps you to remember you are more than your kink.

It's okay to say no. - This is mostly for the feedees. It's very easy to get caught up in your feeder fattening you up. Especially if they are very good at it. If you are getting fatter faster than you like, it's okay to pump the breaks a bit. Eat something less fattening, get smaller portions or even pause things. A feeder that tries to make you keep going is toxic and not worth your time.

Bro, what? I'm a woman who likes fat guys. If people who knew me irl knew I had this kink, they wouldn't be shocked. Most of the guys I go for are chubby or fat. Not only that, but I haven't asked anyone for a dime. Heck, I even turned down one guys offer to pay me.

And I'm not special about this. I have spoken to several other women on this site who are the same way.

Just because you were too toxic for the decent women on this site doesn't mean we're the problem.

Doing me a heccin' educate. Thanks for that.

I bet you *feel* fat. Especially considering the twig of a man you used to be.

But now? You are just a pot-bellied piglet. Not quite fat yet, but with some extra food, you'll get there soon.