Wife has gotten even bigger

Slixxx666:
Nice. My partner is 445lbs. She seems unsure but whats another 65lbs for a half ton women!


Hey, man. If your wife is unsure, then you need to help her maintain until she can figure out what she wants. You may be the feeder, but she has the final say.

I fattened up my partner too, but when he told me that he was having a hard time with the weight, I respected his concerns and supported him with his choices. To do anything else is selfish.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

Munchies:
Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?

J8o8h8n:
Nothing too crazy, just normal sized meals with some snacks in between them.

Munchies:
Honestly, it would be best to increase the portion size of your meals, but not too drastically. Have another helping or two. Maybe increase your snacks. Get used to feeling comfortably stuffed after you eat. If you want to push yourself, eat a little bit more, but nothing too crazy.

Also, don't focus on heavy meals. You'll struggle to digest and find yourself eating less than you planned. Instead, eat a good mix of things. Since you are focusing on your capacity, don't focus too much on calories. I promise the weight will come.

J8o8h8n:
You make valid points. Honestly, the breakfast that I ate was really filling and satisfying, once I tried to stuff myself with an even bigger lunch right afterwards, it was too much and made me feel sick and I wasn't really able to eat it all or anything else for a while afterwards.

Honestly, if I decide to go all in on gaining, I might look into starting my day with that breakfast, and then just eating as I normally would, just with slowly trying to increase the portions. Starting my day with a baseline of 3000 calories and a nice, filling, but not uncomfortably so, breakfast would likely cause my weight to increase substantially if I could keep it up consistently. Two sausage egg and cheese McGriddles, a Cinnamon Roll, a Large Mocha Frappe, and a Large Burger King Hashbrown isn't a ton of food, but it packs a ton of calories.


You could do it that way. However, I find that ending the day with a large meal is a good way to wake up hungry.

I do caution against eating a large meal and then immediately going to bed as this can lead to heartburn-related issues. Personally, I recommend waiting an hour or two before sleeping so your stomach can settle and digest. Maybe sleeping propped up with pillows if possible.
2 years

The odd aspects of being morbidly obese

Ssbbwari:
The odd aspects of being morbidly obese.

Hi, I'm Amira. I've been gaining weight for over 9 years. During the duration of my journey l've discovered what many would find less appealing or odd. I found that eating has caused me to growl. Before I became aware I'd have friends & family become concerned about the noises my body produced. Whether it was a snack, or a dinner they'd mention the growling. At some point I did get fed up with the constant questions; "Are you okay?" "Do vou need help?" It was something I never understood until today, I finally caught on to what exerting had been so concerned about, it was like vibrating your mouth, or holding your breath and trying to speak. There isn't too many things to compare it too. Now that im aware of this I try to avoid doing it but somehow it just doesn't work! I'm not sure many others can relate to this.


This fascinates me, but I'm not really sure I understand what you mean by growling. Is your belly making noises? Are you making sounds as you eat?
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

Munchies:
I just want to add that a lot of people confuse capacity with calorie count. This is a mistake.

Capacity is all about volume. You can achieve this with no calories at all.

On the flip side, some foods are more calorie dense than others. 100 calories of one food may be a larger amount that 100 calories than another. Add onto the fact that some foods are harder to digest than others. So you may struggle to eat more with one food than the other.

J8o8h8n:
Definitely understand that. I mean, if I'm going to gain, I want to eat high calorie foods more frequently and increase my capacity so that I can eat even more of those high calorie foods (so it becomes kind of a gaining snowball lol).


And you'll burn yourself out before you hit 50 because of all the abuse your put your digestive system through.

My current feedee had a gastric bypass long before we met. His capacity was crap. But, under my advice, he gained about 100 lbs in 6-ish months with breaks.

He's losing weight right now because he put it on a little too fast, but the point is that this works.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

Munchies:
Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?

J8o8h8n:
Nothing too crazy, just normal sized meals with some snacks in between them.


Honestly, it would be best to increase the portion size of your meals, but not too drastically. Have another helping or two. Maybe increase your snacks. Get used to feeling comfortably stuffed after you eat. If you want to push yourself, eat a little bit more, but nothing too crazy.

Also, don't focus on heavy meals. You'll struggle to digest and find yourself eating less than you planned. Instead, eat a good mix of things. Since you are focusing on your capacity, don't focus too much on calories. I promise the weight will come.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

I just want to add that a lot of people confuse capacity with calorie count. This is a mistake.

Capacity is all about volume. You can achieve this with no calories at all.

On the flip side, some foods are more calorie dense than others. 100 calories of one food may be a larger amount that 100 calories than another. Add onto the fact that some foods are harder to digest than others. So you may struggle to eat more with one food than the other.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).


Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?
2 years

Is it normal to feel really tired after stuffing yourself silly?

J8o8h8n:
Between eating my entire 3000 calorie breakfast and about 2500 calories of what is supposed to be my 3500 calorie lunch, I'm feeling pretty tired. Is this a normal feeling when you push yourself past feeling full? Gonna see if I can finish the rest of the meal off later today and, if it's not too much, I might do another smallish (1000 calorie or so) McDonald's meal tonight too. I feel like stuffing with 7500 calories in a day is a good start to a potential gaining journey (or at least a test gain lol).


Super normal. Your body will prioritize blood flow to your digestive tract to aid digestion.

As for the calorie goal, 7,500 calories a day can be a good starting point, but it heavily depends on how many calories you started out with. Too much too soon, and you'll tap out pretty quickly.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?


Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?
2 years

Any tips on growing moobs

Morbidly A Beast:
you can’t control where body fat accumulates that is down to genetics, man boobs are usually just fat chests, and it will happen as you put on weight.

Lockel:
^ this but if you’re looking for a specific diet I’d suggest eating or drinking things with high sugar or are high-fructose corn syrup. Alternatively, you could also take estrogen supplements or drink soy milk which contains isoflavone, a compound that’s similar in structure to estrogen.

I would just be careful in taking it because it could lead to depression symptoms and some other health effects like erectile distinction but it’s probably the fastest way to increase breast tissue imo.


Soy milk doesn't have enough isoflavone to cause any kind of hormone change. It will not raise estrogen or lower testosterone.

That being said, there are benefits to consuming soy, so feel free to indulge.

I do not recommend taking estrogen supplements outside of gender-affirming care or other medical needs. It will give you a lot more changed than moobs. Also, there is a difference between gynecomastia and having a fatty chest.

Unfortunately, unless you get plastic surgery, you can't control what your body will look like as you gain weight. Maybe you'll get moobs. Maybe you won't. Either way, just embrace your body for what it is.

All bodies are beautiful.
2 years