Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Okay, im trying to understand how it connects with groups, because, as you put it, it can be said that racism (let's say against black people specifically) is blackphobia, (and yes, i know you're a person of color, i just can't think a better example rn)


Why are you bringing race into this? This is a thread about fatphobia in a movie that has nothing to do with it?

But yes. It is.

And that is all I will say about this topic because it has nothing to do with the original topic, and frankly, this isn't the first time I've explained this to you.
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Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

Enas:
Can someone explain to me what Fatphobia is? Because I feel like i have a slightly different view. (mostly concerning the phobia) I really wanna know what do you all think it is


While the suffix "-phobia" is of Greek origin, it means more than "fear of" in the context of marginalized groups. It can also refer to feelings of hatred, revulsion, or simply perceiving someone as inferior just for being a part of that group.

While scores of people are terrified of fat (see diet culture for many different examples of this) most are not terrified of fat people. Instead, they view fat people as lesser for being fat. This can lead to a eide variety of negative perceptions and actions from not accommodating fat people's needs to fat shaming and more.
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Quick question

Chubster87:
I've been intentionally gaining for the last 3 months..my appetite has increased a lot but every now and again I feel full very quickly after only eating a sandwich and I feel full for a day or two. What's going on?


A lot of people get like this after stuffing themselves like crazy. At some point, your body just needs time to process everything.
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Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

LoraDayton:
Using the term "healthy sized" is actually fatphobic. Size is not determinant of health.


JustGetYouFatter:
I can use whatever terminology to define myself as I want. In my youth, I was healthy both mentally and physically. 150lbs later, I was both heavily depressed as well as pre-diabetic with fatty liver, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol.


Somebody woke up and ate nothing but lemons today.

It's kinda telling that your first response after being told "Don't say that because it's fat phobic" is to double down instead of asking for clarification.

It's even more ironic as the topic of this thread is about fatphobia.
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Hating myself for this fetish and being fatphobic to others out of self hatred

Jelly Rolls:
So I’m not proud of my little fatphobia habit. I know I have hurt people yet I feel this compulsion to hurt people (fat acceptance and fat proud people) because I have this deep internalized disgusted feeling towards my sexuality. I have always harassed fat people and told them that they are fundamentally wrong for being ok/being positive about being fat. I do this because I think the fact that I am a feeder and feedee is fundamentally and morally wrong. I just feel a release of guilt when I put happy fat people down. I can’t stand myself for being into this stuff, yet then I am so drawn to it and think it’s so sexy. I just feel that I am a broken person and I like to repent for it by “doing what’s morally right” and bullying fat positive people into hating themselves and believing that they are bad people like me. I just don’t know how to cope with all this hate. I wish I felt free but I know that the world hates me like I hate myself. I wanna be fat and flabby and enjoy it but I can’t help but think I am disgusting.

Munchies:
You are disgusting, but not for being fat. You are disgusting for going out of your way to hurt people because you are hurting.

You need some therapy and do some soul searching. You are an emotionally stunted person who needs to grow up.

Anjou:
He is not disgusting; just lost and damaged.


I said what I said. He knows what he is doing is wrong, but he won't stop. That makes him disgusting.

Lost and damaged would be if had conflicting thought about gaining weight but didn't go out of his way to inflict pain and suffering onto others.
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Hating myself for this fetish and being fatphobic to others out of self hatred

Jelly Rolls:
So I’m not proud of my little fatphobia habit. I know I have hurt people yet I feel this compulsion to hurt people (fat acceptance and fat proud people) because I have this deep internalized disgusted feeling towards my sexuality. I have always harassed fat people and told them that they are fundamentally wrong for being ok/being positive about being fat. I do this because I think the fact that I am a feeder and feedee is fundamentally and morally wrong. I just feel a release of guilt when I put happy fat people down. I can’t stand myself for being into this stuff, yet then I am so drawn to it and think it’s so sexy. I just feel that I am a broken person and I like to repent for it by “doing what’s morally right” and bullying fat positive people into hating themselves and believing that they are bad people like me. I just don’t know how to cope with all this hate. I wish I felt free but I know that the world hates me like I hate myself. I wanna be fat and flabby and enjoy it but I can’t help but think I am disgusting.


You are disgusting, but not for being fat. You are disgusting for going out of your way to hurt people because you are hurting.

You need some therapy and do some soul searching. You are an emotionally stunted person who needs to grow up.
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Fit to fat due too much protein shakes?

TacticalMilk:
Has anyone on here gone from fit to fat due to too many protein shakes/bulking shakes whether on purpose or not?

Also if anyone knows any good and affordable chocolate protein shakes let me know as well,in trying to put on weight with excess protein smiley

Munchies:
Be careful with that because too much protien can mess up your kidneys.

TacticalMilk:
Does it matter if I work out or not and how much is too much?


www.health.harvard.edu/nutrition/when-it-comes-to-protein-how-much-is-too-much
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Fit to fat due too much protein shakes?

TacticalMilk:
Has anyone on here gone from fit to fat due to too many protein shakes/bulking shakes whether on purpose or not?

Also if anyone knows any good and affordable chocolate protein shakes let me know as well,in trying to put on weight with excess protein smiley


Be careful with that because too much protien can mess up your kidneys.
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Has anyone really met their better half here?

Chubbybellyguy:
I tried finding a female feeder but they are so rare seems impossible 😂


You've been here for *1* day.

Female feeders are not rare so much as a lot of them disengage due to toxic users.
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Is athletic attractive for someone?

MalyPrinc:
I'm Czech and I'm athletic too. I think it's advantage to be athletic. In Czechia there are 67 % of men overweight or obese, so ideally 67 % of women should prefer overweight or obese men, but this number will be lower.

Btw, it's nice to see how many beautiful girls prefer athletic guys.


Well, athletic men are considered attractive by mainstream society, so it makes sense there are a lot of people who find it attractive.
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