Approach

Luigi002:
advice on how to approach a Feedee/feeder girl for the first time


Super easy. Don't be creepy, gross, or fake. Match her pace. Most women want to get to know you a little bit just to make sure you're safe and won't waste their time. Don't try to speed run things.
2 years

Fattening my girlfriend

ChunkyPeanutButter:
11 days ago she says, “I need to f**king diet” of course I told her I’d support her. I said I would stop asking for feeding sessions, stop buying her snacks and treats, and try to say no when she asks for food sometimes. She says, “but I like you doing those, nooooo”

I told her then, I’ll do whatever she wants for her to feel good, then said I needed to make at least one plea for her to not diet. Her main issue wasn’t getting bigger, but that she was binging on anything and everything. I said maybe this is just who she truly is and instead of being mad, embrace it. I told her how I see how happy food makes her, and she lights up when I buy her extra snacks.

The next day she buys ice cream, sends me a pic of her eating it. Wednesday she asks for McDonald’s breakfast.

Payday was Thursday, I sent her $50 to fill her gas tank and then food with what’s left, I found out later she put barely any in her tank and bought a lot of food. That night she asked for money for snacks and cigarettes. She mentioned needing to replace a box of cereal so I gave her 40. She forgot cigarettes and spent the rest on snacks..

Which clearly didn’t last long cause Friday night she goes “oink! Snacky snacks?” Which is how she asks for food, she likes it o oink for me.

Saturday she asks me to feed her pizza and breadsticks. Sunday unfortunately she dropped her phone. I sent her McDonald’s money but she never saw it and was sad. I didn’t hear from her till late.

Monday is when I found out she spent her gas money on food, because she asked me for some gas money. I then sent her $60 for food, gas, and cigarettes and she immediately ran out and spent half of it on snacks.

Tuesday she again asks for more snack money (apparently spent the rest of the 60 and ate it all already)

Today asked for breakfast and snack money, bought cigarettes and didn’t have enough for snacks after breakfast and sent me 🥹 so I sent her more for snacks, she loved it.

Unfortunately her ex husband shit her phone service off and I guess internet too so we are out of communication. She’s supposed to come over tomorrow but I won’t know till she gets here.

(She loves an hour away at her parents, she just left hubby last spring and is still on his phone plan, she sent him money but he still let it turn off and won’t turn it back in till Friday, he’s a huge asshat)

So this was how her almost last two weeks have gone since saying she’s going on a diet.


Interesting. Are you two into findom?
2 years

In the hands of an evil feeder 😈

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures

Munchies:
Personally, I see myself as a feeder who happens to be a woman. And while I am a treasure, that's due to my personality.

Funneladdict:
I would love be the fattened piggy, in some feeder hands like yours. In total lost of control, only feed and stuffed till... what you decide

Munchies:
You're making this weird, man. All I wanted to do was gush about my partner.

Funneladdict:
haha. Feeding and stuffing are weird? so ok


Don't play dumb. When a person is very clearly taken, that's not a sign to starting being forward. Please stop.
2 years

In the hands of an evil feeder 😈

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures

Munchies:
Personally, I see myself as a feeder who happens to be a woman. And while I am a treasure, that's due to my personality.

Funneladdict:
I would love be the fattened piggy, in some feeder hands like yours. In total lost of control, only feed and stuffed till... what you decide


You're making this weird, man. All I wanted to do was gush about my partner.
2 years

Dressing fat

ChunkyPeanutButter:
Not sure if this is the right spot but maybe?

My girlfriend is gaining, she’s not into it but likes turning me on and keeps asking for food.

She also loves when I buy her clothes. She had a pig onesie she wears all the time. I have a pair of pajamas with eggs, bacon, and coffee she wants to ‘steal’ and she asked me to buy her a dress with cupcakes all over it.

I love her dressing like she’s a fat girl, she’s not fat yet but getting there, she’s only 192 and 5’4.5, but she eats so much she’ll be fat soon I bet.

She loves me buying her clothes, I’d love to buy her stuff to have her look like a stereotypical fat girl. Looking at McDonald’s shirts and such…

Anything I can buy her to make her look like a stereotypical fatty? A true pig?


A stereotypical fat woman? Is there such a thing? I know a lot of fat women, and they dress like normal women. At most, they are focused on getting certain fits that suit their body shape, but that's it.

Also, it seems you have confused dressing comfortably or frumpy with being fat. This isn't the same thing. Women of all shapes and sizes dress comfortably or frumpy.

Most people who want to combine feedism with clothing usually get clothes that make them look fatter than they are (too tight clothes or clothes that don't "flatter" their figure), buy clothes to grow into (which is also economical), or get clothes with food or gluttony based messages on them.
2 years

In the hands of an evil feeder 😈

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures


Personally, I see myself as a feeder who happens to be a woman. And while I am a treasure, that's due to my personality.
2 years

Risks of being on hrt and starting to gain weight.

Little King Terry:
Hello! I am a trans man (FTM) and after 5 years on HRT I have decided to start putting on weight. I have only gained 20lbs but my labs seem to concern my doctor as my glucose levels have increased. He has also warned me that if I gain a lot of weight I won't be able to continue on HRT and now I'm a little scared that I'll lose HRT if I keep going up. Have any of you had to suspend your hormone treatment or have you been denied due to weight gain? What relationship does weight gain have with refusal to use HRT? And above all, what is the maximum weight that one can have to carry your HRT correctly? I have seen huge guys abroad who are on hormone treatment, but here in my country it is quite rare that they will let you take HRT if you are over 200 pounds unu. Thank you very much for your answers


The blood glucose is more due to how you are gaining weight. I assume you are eating a lot of sweets and carbs. HRT or no, it's in your best interest to change up your diet plan. I've got diabetes, and it's a pain in my ass.

It's odd to me that in Mexico, there's a 200 lbs weight limit. I have a trans friend who's about 350 and on HRT. But I'm sure a trans person will chime in with their experience.
2 years

A non feedist partner

Quiver:
My partner is also very vanilla so I feel ya. I told him within the first month or two of when we started dating and I highly recommend that, because it only gets harder the longer you keep it a secret. And if they love you, that won’t put them off even if they don’t share it at all.
I try not to go on and on about it because I know he’ll never really get it, but he’s supportive and will indulge me in the little ways from time to time. (It is also always tempting to try to figure out what other kinks you do share in common). Regardless of whether they like any of your kinks, it’s just nice to feel accepted for who you are.


I feel so many people on here get laser focused on feedism that they forget to explore other ways their sexually compatible with their SOs. Or even explore certain dynamics of feedism that isn't explicitly about weight gain.

This doesn't only apply to feedist-non-feedist couples. This applies to feedist couples as well. Because no matter what flavor of feedism you indulge in, there will be times you have to put it on pause. And if your sex life is only about feedism, it'll suffer.

There's also something to be said about vanilla sex as well. Kinks are great, but there's something nice about just enjoying each other's bodies.
2 years

Lets play a game of never have i ever (for feedees and gainers)

Blubberbellym:
1. Been fed IRL
Yep!
2. Ate myself to sleep
Yes
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
Yes!
4. Stolen food because I�m just a piggy
Yes
5. Been called a fat name in public
yes
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
No
7. Been fatter than my current weight
No
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
Not from being fat
Yes
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
Yes
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
no
11. Fantasized about immobility
Yes
12. Ate until I threw up
Nope, I’m a fighter! What’s the point in eating if your gonna throw it up?!
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
Yes, actually. In a chair, desk, bus seat, and a dryer (but that was purposely)
14. Posted nudes of myself online
No
15. Been fed online
No
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
yes
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
Yes
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
At a restaurant yes, but as far as randomly out and doing stuff no
19. Been called a pig
Yes
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
no
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
No


Okay, but like ... I need more deets about the dryer.
2 years

I want to be a fat woman

Bassbum60:
I'm a slightly chubby male 220lbs+ but I think I want to be a fat female.

I read a story on here, 'accepting new roles', and I feel like it's confused me so much, because it'd be a dream to be a BBW

I don't really know what I'm trying to say, I guess i just want to be a fat woman haha

Any advice would be great


Do you want to be a fat woman full time? Or do you want to be a fat woman as part of play?

I'm not trans, so I can only offer the most basic of advice.

Keep gaining weight like you already planned. As for the woman part, buy some women's clothing. Wear them in the comfort of you home and see how you feel about it. If that's your jam, socially transition at your own pace and go from there.

Perhaps some transwomen can jump in and give better advice than I can.
2 years