Music you're feeling/hearing lately

Munchies:
I've gotten into psytrance music recently. I'm rather fond of Vairo.

Do not watch this if you are prone to seizures. Lots of flashy lights.



Ney:
I know that song. Good one. How about this one? Was my first song of this genre.



Gah! I love this! Thank you so much!

I mentioned electro swing earlier, but I didn't recommend any music.

Hands down, my favorite electro swing band is Caravan Palace. And my favorite song of theirs is Long Digger.



This is the audio-only version, but there is a music video version as well. Fair warning, Caravan Palace music videos can be very adult. I love them to bits, but still.
2 years

Music you're feeling/hearing lately

I've gotten into psytrance music recently. I'm rather fond of Vairo.

Do not watch this if you are prone to seizures. Lots of flashy lights.

2 years

Music you're feeling/hearing lately

Might I intrest you in some humble Japanese Electro Swing? Check out THHK or Fake Type.
2 years

All by myself

Have you considered showing her? Everyone likes to be pleasured in different ways. Just as partners show each other what they want and like in bed, you gotta show her what you want.

You just have to communicate and be patient.
2 years

Does anyone know of other positive pop culture mentions?

I've seen this one. I feel like it gives and incomplete view, but the interviewers do a good job and are very respectful.
2 years

Fakes

BBWcreator82:


Also, sincerity? If you've even seen have the private messages I have, you'd quickly realize that women are not the problem.

The guys on this site are insane and only getting worse as the years go on.

Before you start calling people fake, try to put yourself in their shoes first. You've got no idea the ocean of complete insanity the average woman has to go through on a place like this every single day.

Are there scammers, yeah sure, there always will be.

There are lots of legit women on this site, too.

EIIe:
Thanks for bringing this perspective.

Fake people are very annoying to me too but these types of threads tend to expose just how toxic some male members attitudes about women can be.

(Like calling women females is dehumanizing and an instant red flag for a lot of women.)

I’ve experienced/witnessed so much misogyny on this site… some of y’all are here hoping to meet women but then the majority of your comments in forums and what not are just complaints/entitlement about women and those of us who are real see that shit and that’s why we have nothing to do with you.

And fake people bother me less than the very real people in my inbox that have zero concept of consent and send messages that clearly demonstrate they don’t see me as human but a thing to project their perverted fantasies onto... Some have been genuinely disturbing and extremely uncomfortable for even me and I’m kink af.

I have rarely seen women make a post complaining about what’s in their inbox even tho I bet 100% of us have had that issue… but it feels like every time I come to the forums to see what people are talking about there’s usually a thread of men complaining about the women here.

When you treat the women who are here authentically the way that y’all do it drives them away, you realize that yeah?

Do better. ✌🏼


Can confirm, I recieve some ... interesting messages.

Don't get me wrong. The scammers are a serious issue and need to be addressed accordingly. But based on my experiences as well as othera I've spoken to on here, there are some distrubingly toxic people on here.

Even my feedee, a straight, cisman with a beard has dealt with such people. As he puts it "these are men suffering from a temporary blood rush from the brain."

We can sit here and come up with every reason in the book as to why people are like this. But it all comes down to too many toxic people ruining this for everyone else.
2 years

Favorite weight gain story trope?

I love it when feeder and feedee are isolated from all of society and devolve into rabid hedonism.

I also enjoy it when a person who has nothing to their name meets a person who has a lot of money and loves pampering them, which leads them to get nice and fat.
2 years

Starting over

Honestly, being yourself is the best call. It's easier than putting om a facade, and you'll know any friends you make will like you for you.
2 years

Texting etiquette

HappyBigBelly:
I’m a writer by profession. So my texts tend to stick to proper grammar, with emojis mixed in to add emotion. My style on here, however, is a bit looser. I like using the smiley to keep everyone smiling and happy despite the ups and downs in life :-)

Munchies:
That's pretty cool you're a writer by profession. I'm a hobbyist myself, but I think I do a good job.

What genre do you write, if you don't mind my asking?

HappyBigBelly:
I’ve been in the MSM, albeit in a small town. Reporting is a bit different than what we read here, which is some good stuff. The fanfic gaining stories here can be awfully good.

You do well, from what I can see :-) Overall, I just enjoy passing along encouraging words to those who seem real here :-)


Thank you. I've spent years honing my craft, and I am glad it shows. Of course, I am always looking for ways to improve.

Hey, small town journalism is very important. I'd argue that without local news, small town or not, journalism would collapse.
2 years