You may want to wait until you're independent. If your parents put you through too much crap over your weight it might not be worth it.
On the other hand, if they don't, what's the problem?
9 years
chubbyhoney:
No such thing as a platonic feedist relationship!
Even if there is no sex, you're doing it because you get sexual pleasure from it.
Point taken. It's just the term I've heard used. I guess I mean "celibate"?
9 years
Has anyone had a Platonic feedist relationship? That is, you meet in person, and the feeder feeds or provides food for the feedee but there is no sex?
If so (please put these questions in the past tense if appropriate):
1. How long has the relationship lasted?
2. How much has the feedee gained?
3. How many times have you met?
4. Do either or both of you have a significant other whom you DO have a sexual relationship with? Do they know about the feedist relationship?
5. How's that working out?
9 years
Yeah, I guess the good thing about numbers is if you're heavier or your measurements have increased, you KNOW you're fatter. Visually apparent gains can be thrown off by camera angle, context, what pose you're using, and what you're wearing.
9 years
I can't see any point in telling her unless she's worried or confused about your behaviour.
9 years
Numbers are just a poor proxy for visible gain.
9 years
In the case of women on Feabie, the straight non-feedees greatly outnumber the bi and lesbian ones.
Among feedees, there are slightly MORE bi-sexual women than straight (789 to 781).
The percentage of lesbians in both groups is a little under 10%.
My own pet theory is that feedees are their own objects of attraction and so for a lot of them the sex of the partner doesn't matter so much.
I could do the same analysis for men on Feabie but I think most gay male feedists are on grommr which would throw the numbers off.
9 years
