Live in Columbus as well and just had Donato's for lunch. I think it's one of the ultimate stuffing foods because at $20+, you make sure to finish every dang slice of that pizza lol.

It's an antihistamine virtually identical to Benadryl/Unisom. Histamine, specifically the H1 and H3 receptors control appetite and metabolism.

Blocking them with an antihistamine has the same effect on leptin and ghrelin that you see in pregnancy: insatiable hunger even after you just ate.

Lots of online stories of folks that have grown obese simply on Benadryl. Out of control appetite, slows metabolism and the drowsiness can cause laziness.

So for the first time in a long while my wife has expressed desire to lose some weight for a trip to Florida. The proverbial "want to look decent in a bikini" for Facebook pics. I simply want her to be happy, so I let her do her thing.

At first, in December, the story was she "needed to start immediately" to lose some weight. But that whole 'not eating part' got pushed off. And pushed... until now she states she's going to exercise and diet a month before we leave for Florida.

What that has done is set a counter in my wife's head to that date. As a result, she has amped her eating up to an entirely new level. She'll say things like "I only have a couple months left where I can enjoy food, can you go out and get me some more ice cream and beer?". The weight has been piling on. And I can't get enough.

I think she may be surprising herself at what a piggie she has become. That there is no easy way back now. And that both of us know she's probably going to end up in Florida the heaviest she's ever been, prepared to eat, drink, lay around and get even fatter. I've found it intriguing that with a proper feedee, even trying to lose weight causes them to gain faster! She would have been lighter if she never even had the thought of giving up food!

My wife was exactly the same. The only thing she could attach to the idea of weight gain to was me, my fetish, the creepy "stuffer" images, etc. There was nothing positive about gaining weight, even with all of my compliments.

Her working at Lane Bryant was truly the game-changer as she was immersed in fat acceptance, started following a number of BBW models on Instagram. Her entire psyche was being influenced as she started to eat tastier/fattening foods and gain.

She now attaches gaining to living freely, comfort, being "who you are", going with the flow, "accepting the inevitable", bucking society. But SHE needed to make those connections - there's no way to simply manipulate that into being.

But her love for food has to grow to the point that there's something worth getting fat for.

That's fare. It's something you need to escalate daily starting with only 1/4 cup. Like many new foods, its hard on the IT until your body becomes accustomed to breaking it down.

But regarding protein powder, as a guy who spends over a grand a year on whey protein, I'm telling you it's a waste of money if you're tying to get fat. A big scoop of whey isolate is only 90cal and you're paying $50 for a container if it. A tiny tablespoon of vegetable oil has 50% more calories than that; go eat some tasty fried food for a fraction of the cost.

I'd be hard pressed to think of a more expensive, least fattening food than whey protein!

My neighborhood is 60% Indian and ALL of the wives are so heavy. Fascinating to see them plump up more each year. Seems all they do is eat fried Nan and sauces consisting of entirely heavy cream or butter. We took home some leftovers after eating at a neighbor's and the large container of sauce formed a complete solid in the fridge because it was 100% clarified butter (ghee)!

Alcohol.

Proven for decades to cause massive binge eating. After three glasses of wine, people ingest about 6,300 extra calories in the following 24 hours, according to a survey conducted by UK market research firm YouGov and commissioned by the weight loss organisation Slimming World.

www.dw.com/en/why-drinking-alcohol-makes-us-hungry/a-37111288

Though heavy dairy fats are the most fattening, they're also the most filling and satiating; they actually curb hunger (which is why Keto diets are so popular for weight loss).

Carbs and the ensuing insulin response are what drive hunger increases due to the constant rising and falling of blood sugar levels.

Feeling a little thin? Sticks of butter, beer & cheese - what could go wrong? This is one of my wife's favorite stuffing meals I learned from a 300lb chef on PBS. Perfect during these cold winter days.

1.5 sticks butter
1.5lb chicken tenderloins/breasts
1.25 cup flour (season w/3 tsp salt, 2 tsp black pepper, 1 TB garlic powder, 1 TB onion powder)
3 stalks celery sliced
4TB mayonnaise
2/3 cup hot sauce
2/3 (12 oz) can beer
30oz can drained pinto beans (less if you wish)
Bleu cheese crumbles for topping

TOTAL CALORIES 4,765 cal

(Can use chicken thighs for higher cal)

Melt butter in a large skillet. Dredge Chicken in seasoned flour, and saute both sides on medium heat until crispy golden brown. Add celery, 1/2 hot sauce and continue to simmer for 3-4 minutes. Add beans first, then mayonnaise, remaining hot sauce then beer. Without disrupting the chicken too much, stir mayo while pouring beer into sauce until mixed. Bring to a low boil, and then reduce to a simmer for 10-20 minutes until beer thickens and sauce melds.

*Avoid excessive stirring as it will tear the breading off the chicken. Ladle into bowls and sprinkle with crumbled blue cheese to serve.

My wife often has specific cravings. This often won’t be communicated until she’s arrived home for work and I already have a meal cooking.



To keep her stuffed I’ll run out and get her “wish” meal while cooking a separate meal for myself and the kids. She often will eat the same meal multiple nights in a row - often her greatest vice, Chipotle w/guac and chips. Any other feeders with a family do this? It’s to the point now where half of the time she’s eating a separate much higher calorie meal than the rest of us. Sometimes it gets annoying - but there’s nothing more annoying than seeing her not pig out!

Keeps the food bill down, too, as I only get takeout for her and cook for the rest of the house.