You have to let her do what she wants to do and be the weight at which she's happiest. You may be tempted to try and secretly encourage her to gain weight after her diet but she'll soon get wise to what you're doing and then you'll be in a continual to and fro with her trying to lose weight and you trying to encourage her to gain. Over time this will just corrode your relationship with her.

You need to decide how important this is to you and from my own relationships and experience on this website I've found that if you're a true feeder and FA then it's not something you can easily ignore and even if you try it will resurface again in the future and ultimately come between you.

I understand that you love her but this may not mean that you are ultimately suited to each others. Rather than spending time being dissatisfied that she doesn't want to get fat, my advice is find yourself someone who does. There are plenty of women out there who let themselves get fat whether intentionally or not so why struggle with a girl who really doesn't want it.

Try to remember that he may not experience the same negative reaction to being fat that you have had. You grew up being fat when you were younger and less able to stick up for yourself, but he is wanting to become fat as an adult and will hopefully have the confidence to ignore any negative reactions he may receive.

He wants to deliberately become fat because he can see the beauty and sexuality in it and this may help you to overcome your own negative feelings. Try to enjoy it together with him, make feeding and name calling fun and see how horny he gets. Let his positivity about it rub off on you and you may start to feel more positive about your own body and see that all those name callers in the past were just ignorant idiots.

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