Yeah, they are different because they are used for different things. So, depending on what you are going for, you may want to use cold foam over whipped cream and vice versa.

I'm Christian. Raised Baptist but identify as nondenominational. I have have red the Bible cover to cover at least 200 times. However, I am disillusioned with the Church due to the rise of Christian Nationalism and being a cult survivor. As such, I practice my faith by doing what I can to leave the world better than I found it as best I can.

In the context of this community, this translates to doing my part to make this community safer. You'll see me explaining medical studies, misinformation, and encouraging safe, ethical feedism. You'll also see me encouraging, uplifting, and getting into it with bigots and creeps.

In the context of my personal life, I put my feedee's health an comfort above everything else. Ironically, after being with me for 3 years, my partner is healthier now than before we met.

We switched from making the body of our desires to enjoying it. It's hard to appreciate such things properly when your main focus is growth. And it's nice to go from a manic intensity to something more sedate and cozy.

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orderofthegooddeath.com/death-positive-movement/

End of life care is very cold, and how we treat the elderly and infirm is appalling. It's no wonder that most people want nothing to do with it.

We all want a good life, but it shouldn't be lived in fear of death. For death comes for us all.

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***** Thanks for the link to Order of the Good Death. I enjoyed the sentiments there.

I am older than most here so I might have a different perspective. The way things are set up, it is difficult to retire and I was so relieved to get past that hurdle, BUT, having accomplished that, I turned around and saw that there was this giant cliff I still had to climb and that is taking care of yourself after you retire.

The cost of Elder Care is astronomical - thousands of dollars a month and completely beyond most people's capabilities. It appears you have to sell everything you have to pay for it and get down to assets less than 2000 a month and then become a ward of the state in whatever facility they throw you into. All privacy is revoked.

So in terms of wanting longevity, I would not want that type of longevity wasting away in a bed in an elder ward. It would be nice if one could bow out medically (assisted suicide or euthanasia) when that time comes. But the health care system is very greedy and wants you to transfer all your wealth to them in the last stages of your life.

For me, even though it might be crazy, having fun and enjoying life and putting on pounds and having a friends around me who enjoy food is a good option. With continually gaining weight there is bound to be a tipping point eventually where something goes wrong and I keel over, (hopefully with a quick heart attack or stroke) but isn't that a better end than being propped up medically while they literally suck the life out of you SLOWLY and fill their pocketbooks?[/quote]

Welcome, welcome.

Aging and gaining is a big gamble. Speaking as someone who has been in the medical industry for about a decade - mostly with the 65+ crowd - I know it's a gamble to let go like that. Sometimes you're fine. Sometimes, you're not. And when you are older, that tipping point is often a slow, painful process.

This is often complicated when the patient goes against medical directives and/or the family refuses to accept the end is near. Both make the end-of-life experience exceedingly more miserable than it needs to be.

I hope that everyone gets to have the life they want. And I hope that when the end comes, it comes the way you desire. But make sure you aren't moving with false conceptions of reality. Because sometimes, when you get what you asked for, it's not what you wanted.

Act like you are grown enough to be on this website.

Sorta. We got weird about death because Capitalism.

Back in the day, death was a very intimate affair. When you died, your family, friends, and community cared for you. They'd wash you, dress you, propped you up to take one last group photo, and your wake was in the living room.

But then the funeral industry realized they could make more money by offering to do those things for the family for a fee. Pair this with them lobbying the government to push laws that lined their pockets and propaganda about the newly dead being filled with icky corpse germs that make you sick and die. Now you have a society so removed from death that they will spend oodles of money to avoid it.

Dude, what is wrong with you?

Imma level with you. Women tend to not respond to posts about men having sexual fantasies involving their ex. That's something that will attract other men.

If you want women to engage with you more, then make posts women will care about.

I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.

Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.

My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.

I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.

Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.

Cold foam is usually just whipped milk. It's not as sweet as whipped cream. It's also lighter and airier because it's made to kinda meld with the drink. Give it a smooth, creamy texture.

My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?

Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.