I’m the resident fat guy at my work biggest by at least 200 lbs if other fat people are anything like me we’d appreciate you cooking/baking directly for us nothing is unsatisfying as sharing something you can easily eat on your own in a single sitting. Its like a cat playing with its food
1 year
My belly sagged a bunch this year so length of stuff is the issue now must of been the weight fluctuations I had earlier in the year.
Make sure your guises coats fit!
1 year
I think when people are being openly racist and being called out for it being let run loose is a bit different than having a very tame gentle criticism of someone.
1 year
110% agree munchies, and it’s somewhat important distinction as someone like me doesn’t really have a “goal weight” I just want to have my fill every meal and indulge my appetite whenever, and yeah while weight gain is fun I tend to fluctuate. I tend to over look caloric deficiency/surplus, I’m realizing it points out my distain for diets I can’t be bothered to count the calories + or - I just want to eat what I want.
If that makes sense
1 year
I saw body positivity and feedism as a license to give in and get fatter after struggling with crash dieting and yo yo ing for years so I def see where your coming from
1 year
some people are feedees other are feeders, some are both and they are the mutual ones. Some people say they are mutual but they just entertain the idea of a fat partner. I think the later do the former a great disservice and give us situations like yours.
The inclination towards being a feeder is not just something that can be picked up I don’t think, feedee I think you can evolve your relationship with food eating stuff etc etc but feeder is something you have probably from early development.
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
I've been maintaining around 570 throughout the warm weather months, so my brain actually forgot I'm still 80 pounds heavier than I was last fall. So imagine my surprise when I pulled out my winter clothes, which range from ill-fitting, to painfully tight, to unable to cover my gut, to not fitting at all. I'm also too fat to zip the winter coat I bought last year. That makes sense, considering I blew up during the holiday season and then continued to pack on some pounds in early spring.
Super-sized folks (and significant others), any brands/makers you can recommend for warm coats in the 9XL and 10XL range?
You might have better luck finding something nice in the big and tall for men I’m not sure what 10 xl women translates to for men but it might be somewhere to start
1 year
You people have a lot more problems than people arguing on the forums. This is BS.
1 year
Locking things up when people have disagreements is not moderation it’s just censorship.
And just letting someone derail a conversation while it’s happening then coming back later when everyone has said there peace isn’t moderation it’s just being a heavy handed janny.
1 year
I don’t think you can rid yourself of this attraction, in the same way you can’t rid yourself of being gay it’s just who and what your attracted to
1 year
