My girlfriend is losing weight

johnxyz wrote
Dieters are the most boring people in the world. They have to discuss every little thing they eat, don't eat, could have eaten, etc. She does not have to bring this up constantly when she knows you are against it. She is not being supportive of you either.


Yes, because one guy's boner is more deserving of support than the health of someone he loves.

Also, doctors are just as fat phobic as everyone else. Losing weight is not healthy.




I'm a feeder, but surely you can't be serious about this one. The fact that the OP noted that her health has improved since she's lost weight kind of disproves your statement here.

Since most people regain more than what they weighed, encouraging patients to start the yoyo dieting and roller coaster ride where usually the person weighs more in the is NOT healthy.


Agreed on the yo-yo dieting and such; but she's lost 70 pounds and seems to be intent on losing more. This isn't following some 30-pound fad diet- from what the OP is saying, she's changing her lifestyle. That sort of change keeps the weight off better than just cutting down on carbs or whatever.

There are no diseases that only fat people get, so there is no guarantee that even if she lost weight, she would solve any medical problems. If she has any issues they should be addressed by treatment, not a diet.


There might not be many ailments exclusive to fat people, but being fat can put someone at a higher risk of health issues and serious complications.

In any case, no matter who is right and wrong, I think you two can never be happy together right now. I would find someone else. By the time that is ready to end, chances are your current girlfriend will be bigger than she ever was. And maybe realize that dieting is useless.


And with this you've just shown again that you're a douche. I would sincerely hope that a guy wouldn't get picked up again by a woman he dumped just because she wasn't fat enough.
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johnxyz wrote
Anyone who has WLS, is much more likely to die.


The rate goes up to over 100%?
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Gainers getting...erm...younger?

RockabillyWilly wrote
I'm betting it's a direct "***" to the "obesity epidemic" and Michelle Obama's task force to counteract the "alarming explosion of obesity" among our young.

The 70s punks rejected the 60s hippies, etc. who rejected their buttoned-up 50s parents, etc etc...

If you want to make a kid do something, tell him/her they HAVE to do its opposite.


Considering the prevalence of lousy food in the past few decades and the very recent trend strongly headed towards "green" and natural foods; and the fact that this is something that predates Obama and the "obesity epidemic"; and the fact that grown-ups are also overweight- I'd say that the comparison you made is not only off the mark, but so far off the mark that you just managed to seriously injure the guy who was standing 200 feet behind you.
15 years

Gainers getting...erm...younger?

I actually think that this might be due to the ubiquitous information technology that's sprung up just in the past decade or so. Not only is information available on sites like this (as it has been for a while), but people are able to access this information faster and more easily than ever before.

Even back when I was 14 or 15, it was only when I had a turn on the family computer at 56k that I could look at sites like Dimensions Feeder.co.uk, Stuffed! Online, etc., and even then I'd only do it if nobody else was around, for fairly obvious reasons.

Now, these sites can be accessed via cell phone, iPhone, Blackberry, which damn near everyone has- including teenagers. And they can access it just about anywhere, and it is difficult for parents to track their activities like they once could. (Anyone who ever cleared their browser history after they were done with the computer knows exactly what I mean.)

This also means that people create a profile or account just about anywhere, showing who they are and what they're interested in.

Since this is accessible so readily, and it's accessible to so many people- and more on topic, so many teens- it should not come as a significant surprise that there is an apparent increase in the number of teens who show interest in this kind of thing, whether it's them discovering it or them being provided with a venue for something that they already knew about themselves.
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