Startnew:
There is this guy I am in touch with on fb, who is just gorgeous. And he seems to like me too: he always likes my pix and sometimes we even sext, although it's more about exchanging flirty messages. However, when commenting fb posts on random groups, he will crack the occasional fat joke, not about me or at anyone else 's expenses, just in general. Ofc, he is married to a really thin girl, but I dont resent him for that. People may fall in love for different reasons and anyway he lives abroad. I am just wondering what could motivate a guy to act with such a lack of consistency. Mind you, my pix are recent and unfiltered because I want people to see the real ME, so he certainly noticed I am a BBW. How can you like some characteristics and at the same time make fun of them? I have slight preference for short guys, but I am nit tempted to make fun of them

Luciscool:
I’ve only recently began committing to the idea of letting go and fully gaining weight. I am currently 270 pounds, have the ability to stuff a ton of food, but I want to get back to my peak weight at 292 and get to 300 and beyond. I lost weight when I went to college and went down to 240 and slowly got back to 270 without trying. My main question is how effective is heavy cream and how much can I drink every day to gain as much as possible. I have heard it sits heavy in the stomach but what I eat or drink doesn’t really effect me, so how much could I drink per day for the rest of the year and how effective would it be. I have heard it is like magical weight gain substance for some and just a good way to soften up for others. What should I do to gain the most? By what I’ve seen it’s just eat a lot then drink heavy cream when I wake up and go to sleep, but I want some second opinions.

Ssbbwari:
Me personally as someone who’s 600+ lbs, I’ve taken to slowly become more in love with different parts of my body, while I love the fact my belly hangs and has tons of cellulite I also really enjoy the inside of my thighs & the backs of my legs. The amount of rolls and crevices between the fat is my favorite part. The softness, jello like cute cups of fat are always expanding into bigger rolls the more I grow. I absolutely adore my back fat and side boob, it’s just like one gigantic piece of meat hanging off my body. Either way, I’ve learned to love all of me even the parts I wish were fatter.

ShyFeeder:
Regardless of if they enjoy eating without regard or not, secret feeding isn’t generally respected in this space, nor do I believe it should be. There are so many great opportunities to indulge food wise, but I think consent should always be the first line or you’re only going to make things muddier down the line when navigating sexual communication.

CuppaJoe:
Hi, All-

Wanted to get some advice regarding skin care and weight gain. Any of you who know me on here are aware that I recently have switched from feeder to feedee and I'm enjoying the recent extra pounds that have found their way on me.

I'm not asking any of you to be a doctor, and I'll absolutely go to a dermatologist if anything gets worrisome, but i have two quick questions regarding skin care and weight gain. If any of you had any experience or feedback, I'd be thankful:

1. I don't have any stretchmarks yet, but I've noticed little red bumps - almost like a weak version of a prickly heat rash - have shown up on my love handles. They don't hurt and don't itch - they wouldn't bother me at all except I've never had chub on my body and I'm not sure if this is normal. I'm guessing that it is the result of increased contact with my shirt fabric as I've gotten fatter, but I thought I'd see if any of you have had this experience.

2. I've noticed that cuts take longer to heal. I have a few cuts and scratches from lawn care and outside work that seem like they're taking longer to resolve.

I appreciate any input!

Larpus98:
It’s not over the counter but I’m on mood stabilizers and they cause very rapid weight gain.

LoraDayton:
I've noticed this happen to me as well but it's often when I see people in the chat. If that's the case, that their profile has been removed, then how would they have access to chat? Or when I am browsing profiles and can see them populate based on my search criteria?

BlackjackandBerries:
Such a complex topic for me and I am aware everyone feels different.

I feel aggravated, turned off, and annoyed when co workers, counselors, strangers, etc. Bring up my size or egg me on about me being fat. If I'm treating myself to second helpings and people comment on it, I am immediatley turned off.

Someone (kinda recently) pointed out the size of my belly asking if i was pregnant, and I was appalled and ashamed. I would think that is a normal thing to feel.

If a love interest or woman my age did or said these things to me though, I'd be red in the face, turned on, and trying to contain myself. Thats also normal I'm assuming.

I've gotten noticably chubby after previously being known by everyone as the "thin athletic muscley woman." But I am still under 200 lbs and considered tiny in the world of fat fetishism.

I'm still very active. But chubby. The scale says it. My clothes show it. People notice it. People comment on it. It's a fact now.

I wish that people would mind their own business and not comment on my body, nor perceive me, and just ignore me altogether and let me be fat in peace. But I really really want the exception of that to be cute women being the only ones to point out my body. Idk. I know I can't pick and choose and that it's unrealistic.

What I meant to ask in this post was, how do you cope with the frustration of strangers egging you on or intentionally being weird by commenting on your weight?

Or how do you "deal with it"? I've tried owning it, but then they just awkwardly keep going and it makes me uncomfortable because being fat in itself feels like an act of fetishism that I don't want strangers or co workers to participate in.

And this might sound weird but it's almost like they're invading my "personal fetish space"... even though it's just normal for society to just point a finger and go "FAT!".

Maybe I'm just making it weird. Idk.

CookNFeedin:
Every relationship I've ever had wanted me to be a dom, so that's what I've had to be, but if I'm being honest, I'd really just rather sub. Something about just being told what to do to pleasure the other person seems relaxing and I get a bit turned on with humiliation.