No, and I'm proof of it. I started as a gainer but eventually lost interest in it. I also decided I didn't want to be fat as I enjoy being active too much (I do like food. That's never going away.)
I shifted to just being a fat admirer and eventually a feeder. I don't think I'm unique in that.
2 years
Pinterest and Tumblr
2 years
SweetCaringBBW51:
I was not yelling I typed in caps so it was plain to see
I see. Just so you know, on the internet, typing in all caps means yelling. If you want to use emphasis, you *use asteriks* or only CAPITALIZE the IMPORTANT words.
2 years
SweetCaringBBW51:No!! this is just a fantasy world for the males on here
fatluvinguy:In all fairness you only joined 2 weeks ago. That's a little soon to be so down on the site. Maybe give it a little more time. I'm pretty sure there's some decent males on here. My philosophy is be guardedly optimistic.
SweetCaringBBW51:Excuse Me !! I have been on and off this site for 20 years it gets worse all the time
Bigwideland:I think the reality of these sites is that they are full of people after something to view look at to fill a need to see what ever is their thing. I am okay with that. Leaving the scammers and people selling something aside, I think that most real people on here are already in relations, or out to get a bit on the side, or are just to afraid to overcome their own anxiety about being themselves with someone else. This is a fantasy site the name means what it is saying. You find real people in the real word. You need to go out and meet real people.
SweetCaringBBW51:I have been out in the REAL WORLD ALL MY ADULT LIFE AND HAVE MET REAL MEN BUT THEY ARE NOT IN TO BIG WOMEN ..YOUR JUST A FANTASY MALE WHOSE ON HERE TO JUST SATISFY YOURSELF BY USING WOMEN'S PICTURE'S
Munchies:Are you ok, hun? Do you need to talk?
SweetCaringBBW51:NO I DON'T NEED TO TALK !! JUST WISHED THE GUYS ON THIS SITE WOULD BE HONEST! AND NOT USE MY PICTURES TO GET THEMSELVES OFF..I AM REMOVING ALL PICTURES OF ME FROM THIS WEB SITE CAUSE NONE OF THE GUYS I HAVE TALKED TO ON THIS SITE ARE NOT REAL MEN THEY ARE JUST LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD WHERE THEY JERK OFF USING REAL WOMEN'S PICTURES THEN THEY NEVER TALK TO YOU AGAIN ! Their is only one woman who I trust to talk to on here as she is just a friend to me nothing more cause I am 100% Straight
Alright. That's fine. There's no need to yell.
Removing your pictures is probably the wisest option. Gives your more control over your body and your image. It's one of the many reasons my pictures aren't on this site either.
2 years
SweetCaringBBW51:No!! this is just a fantasy world for the males on here
fatluvinguy:In all fairness you only joined 2 weeks ago. That's a little soon to be so down on the site. Maybe give it a little more time. I'm pretty sure there's some decent males on here. My philosophy is be guardedly optimistic.
SweetCaringBBW51:Excuse Me !! I have been on and off this site for 20 years it gets worse all the time
Bigwideland:I think the reality of these sites is that they are full of people after something to view look at to fill a need to see what ever is their thing. I am okay with that. Leaving the scammers and people selling something aside, I think that most real people on here are already in relations, or out to get a bit on the side, or are just to afraid to overcome their own anxiety about being themselves with someone else. This is a fantasy site the name means what it is saying. You find real people in the real word. You need to go out and meet real people.
SweetCaringBBW51:I have been out in the REAL WORLD ALL MY ADULT LIFE AND HAVE MET REAL MEN BUT THEY ARE NOT IN TO BIG WOMEN ..YOUR JUST A FANTASY MALE WHOSE ON HERE TO JUST SATISFY YOURSELF BY USING WOMEN'S PICTURE'S
Are you ok, hun? Do you need to talk?
2 years
Well, good luck. But what did I do to help? I can't think of anything in particular.
2 years
Curiosity question. Were you ever on here before under "Breederpig" or something to that effect?
2 years
voluptuouslover:
I think I know what you are speaking of - I typically see physical gains on my body after eating a lot more usually 2 weeks after give it take.
I noticed this phenomenon a while ago, waiting around for the weight to pile on after eating a ton.
The similar effect with heavy cream, being that after you stop drinking it you see yourself continue to gain and add fat and weight much after your, it seems like it just continues to show up on your body.
Bigwideland:
Yes the lag effect, it does suggest the energy is stored as something very light. Then converted to fat that must have more water and thus weight. Note sure any biologists here. My experience is that having more calories that required for a week, then just you need base line calories the next week seems not get you much weight gain. You have overeat for a good month to see a sustained increase sometimes.
When you eat or drink anything, your body absorbs the nutrients and processes it accordingly as fuel. Anything your body cannot burn off gets stored as fat. So yes, there is a delayed effect.
Here is an article that gives a general breakdown of how it all works.
www.healthline.com/nutrition/how-long-does-it-take-to-gain-weight
2 years
My experience with people on here has been ... interesting. Keep in mind this is coming from a cishet woman.
Most of the men here are more interested in a good time than finding a relationship. Which is fine. But the majority of the guys I've spoken to do not know how to talk to women - or people, if I'm honest. I don't go into chat very often, but when I do, I often sustain psychic damage. Most of it has nothing to do with kink either.
I wouldn't call most of them bad people. They get in their own way. They come in too hot and too fast, making me put my guard up. I once had a guy tell me he'd love for me to come to Europe with him, and he'd take excellent care of me. We'd known each other for less than 48 hours.
And again, I don't think he's a bad person. I think the desperation has gotten to him.
I've befriended two guys on here; it's strictly platonic.
I do have a feedee I met on here. But we are more having fun than being in a relationship. Our schedules are too out of sync, and the distance is too far for us to have any romantic relationship, which is a shame because he's a pretty great guy.
2 years
FA Ghoster Writer:
I know the original query was about search categories, but I'd like to add that I wish the default on General was for newest stories to be displayed and not the recommended stories.
I know the old system was open to abuse, as people might just edit a word and then republish to get back at the top of the listings, but I would regularly click on Stories to see what was new. Now I rarely look at stories because it looks like the same 'best sellers' everytime.
A top bar button that just switched to "Newest" would be great.
P.S. I have huge appreciation for the site Admins. You do an amazing job. Thank you.
Speaking of, how does one get their story featured? I've written two stories on here. One got featured (FF added an audio version of every chapter - pretty cool) and the other one is not. I don't really care if the other one gets featured or not, but I would like to understand the system.
2 years