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2 years

How does one unfollow someone?

Bbwomg:
I followed someone and now their premium content just clutters my feed, how do i do so?


Click on the little house icon at the top of your screen. Click on edit members.
2 years

Thinking about making youtube videos, is it safe or a good idea?

MrCupeKe:
I’m a 20 MTF trans girl who hasn’t started HRT yet, but I’m obsessed with the fascination of growing my belly! I’m also a youtuber and so far growing it is a lot slower than growing my belly. I’m considering making a new channel where I just post, without my face or voice, about my belly stuffing and bloating. God I would love to be absolutely stuffed and to be given compliments and comments about it all, I would love that so much!
Is it a good idea? I mean if nobody can see me or recognize me, I’ll forever be anonymous and never get into trouble. Right?


There are a lot of sexy feedees/gainers on YouTube. Some even have a small, but dedicated following.

However, you are playing with fire if you do it - especially if you look like a woman. When men or male-presenting people do it, no one cares very much. But the moment there's boobs involved? Oof.

There are people (mostly men) who like to hate watch and report channels for uploading this stuff - original content or reuploaders. I think the worst case senario was back in 2020 with MochiiBabii (now MochiiFeedii). She had a successful YouTube channel where she would post of free content. And she had a lot of it. Some fitness guy named Swolenormous (or something like that) found her, sic'd his audience on her, and she took everything down before she could get banned. If you look her up on YouTube, his videos are the first thing you'll see.

So yeah. If you wanna do it, more power to you. And since you are pre-HRT, you might get away with it for a while. But you need to carefully thread the needle. It's against TOS, and you won't be able to monitize.
2 years

Coming out of the fridge

Shruggish:
I’m curious about people’s experiences with this fetish, specifically about their openness in normie settings and relationships. Do your friends/family/SO know? I know people are generally quick to say “my sex life is none of anyone’s business” which yes although that’s true, the fact of the matter is our kink is visually apparent, and wether it be you or someone you’re dating gains a bunch of weight I imagine comments are made. Personally I’m trying to be more open with my friends/some family about my preferences and idk if it’s even worth bringing up or just act oblivious
about myself or a girlfriend gaining weight.


As an ex-gainer turned feeder, I am not ashamed of my preferences. But unless I have a relationship with a person where we can talk about our kinks, I am not talking about it.

That being said, if I revealed to people that I was a feeder, no one would be shocked. I tend to go for the chubby/fat guys and use food as a form of affection.
2 years

Im outgrowing my clothes..

SuperNovaBellyBabe:
Everything was complimentary , I think the only difference was his hospitality, him ordering everything for me etc.
i appreciate your concern, but i need a job😂


Fair, fair. The economy is trash. Still be careful. Lotta red flags here.
2 years

Weight during eating

Bigwideland:
Hi

I had three days of above average consumption and in that time I hit 522 lbs now two days later I am back to 511 lbs very disappointing result. Any one else find this frustrating?


I had a similar experience during my gainer days. Odds are you had a combination of fluid retention and food that hadn't finished digesting.
2 years

Cake shake bloat - am i doing something wrong?

Justforfun10:
Tried a cake shake bloat today and really it didnt do anything that was promised. I'll admit I didnt use much. 1/4 of the bag of mix and two cups of milk followed by a whole water bottle.

I'm half convinced the whole bloat is pyschosomatic. 32oz of milk will bloat up a lot of people, followed by all that water. Should I try again with the half bag and about the same amout of liquid? Im sure the thickness would be enjoyable.

just looking for some help. I really wanted this to be what everyone says it is.

Munchies:
So, what makes a cake shake bloat you comes down to a chemical and physical reaction.

Cake mix has a leavening agent - usually baking powder. This, when combined with your stomach acid and natural body heat, causes your belly to expand. This is further compounded when the flour absorbs the liquid inside of you and swells.

The problem is that you diluted it too much.

Justforfun10:
so like what amounts do you recommend? I'm off work tomorrow and very interested to see what this can do if it works.


www.google.com/amp/s/come-to-the-day.tumblr.com/post/181145650031/bloatinflation-checklist/amp

If you can't consume the same amount in the recipe, try to keep the ratios the same.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

CuppaJoe:
You have a BF who is accepting of your kink and preferences, who is using bedroom talk as a way to please you, and who has put on some weight as a way to please you. I think it would be helpful for you to adjust your focus away from lamenting what you don't have yet, and towards an appreciation for what you DO have. 😊

I think that many members here would confirm that they would be THRILLED to find someone who has taken the steps that your partner has already made with you. It's okay for you to prefer a larger size, but your latest post could be interpreted like situations in which a male partner wants his girlfriend to lose a few more pounds, or to have bigger breasts, or have long hair, etc. We tend to frown on a partner in a relationship asking their partner to change instead of loving them for who they are in the present.

I love that you two have a great relationship and I hope that you both enjoy this kink together. Give it time... there will be weight gained and lost. If you love each other, his increased size will be an added bonus to the relationship!


Couldn't have said it better myself.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
He lost weight (he was sick) and he is eating less again....I'll give up soon, I don't think he will ever be as fat as I want him. I thought it will be easy since he was fat before and both of his parents are fat.


Oof. Glad he's better.

Weight gain and weight loss are both rather complex things. There are many factors for both. It's true that if your parents are fat, and you where once fat, you are more likely to be fat. But these are not the only indicators.

You are impatient. You want a fat boyfriend now and are unwilling to wait. Weight goes up and down all the time for various reason.

If you want to give up, that's fine. Love your boyfriend as he is, and you will be happy.
2 years

Do beauty standards change with age?

Katrina90:
So this question isn’t about intentional gaining - nothing wrong with that, but not my experience. For me, like a lot of girls and guys, I exited my 20s at a different weight than I entered. I think like a lot of people if you had asked me at 19 I would have said I thought the athletic body or at least thin.

Then I met my husband, he was four years older and out of college and had a cute belly that seemed so natural on him. We moved in together and he got a little bigger and I filled out. Going out to eat and beers left it’s mark. I didn’t mind Kev’s extra weight and figured I was just growing into full adulthood.

We got married a couple years later. I lost 10 pounds and the little pudge around my tummy. Kev made noises about slimming down but didn’t. After we got married we still went out lots but also cooked, and Kev started to really carry big. For me it wasn’t as fast but I definitely got pudgy and chubby. I noticed but just accepted it. Not being an exercise person, and with a bigger husband - it just happened.

Now at 31 I kind of like my weight, or at least think it’s cute. And I can’t imagine Kev without his belly. And if I look at other guys (just look) my eyes are drawn to the bigger ones.

So there I am. I know for lots of people they were hardwired to see heavier people as attractive. For me it sort of came with time. Have others had this experience?


31 isn't old, imo. But those in happy relationships tend to not feel the same pressure to conform to soceital beauty norms and their single counterparts.
2 years