Fantasy Feeder

New weight loss drug

Nofbar:
I can't help but wonder if there will come a day when fat people are forced to take such drugs.

What kind of dystopian novels have you been reading lately? We don't do that for any other medical condition. So why would we do this for obesity?

There are so many amazing medications variety of things. However, we do not force people to take these medications as a blanket thing to do. Why? Because it would be unwise.

Often, whatever medical condition a person has can be resolved with lifestyle changes. However, if that doesn't work, then the doctor may supplement other things as well. Sometimes, it's medication. Sometimes it's something else. However, since not all patients are created equally, they may not be candidates for specific treatments for a variety of reasons. Adding to that, you can refuse the treatment.

This doesn't even consider the economic, legal, and ethical reasons why no one is going to force every fat person to take medication and lose weight. Yet, Y'all are worrying over nothing.

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New weight loss drug

Potatocam2000:
Recently I've been seeing a bunch of news articles about a new weight loss drug called Wegovy.

From what I understand this is an appetite suppressant that makes people lose a lot of weight, and they call it a "miracle drug".

I'm worried that this thing will seriously reduce our dating pool, given that most people want to lose weight.

I really hope that these articles are overblowing this. A future without fat people is very depressing to me.

What a weird thing to be worried about. Fat people who want to be fat aren't going anywhere. Anyone who takes a weight loss drug and loses the weight probably didn't want to be fat or fattened up in the first place. So, at most, all you're losing is eye candy.

Also, Wegovy isn't as much of a miracle drug as you think it is. Yes, it works. However, not everyone can handle it. Nausea, dizziness, and fatigue are common symptoms. It's an injection, so some people won't even bother considering taking it. Plus, if you stop taking it, you gain the weight back

So, I highly doubt that every fat person in the world is going to suddenly be slim.

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Does anyone else love smaller legs and bigger tops?

SinfulGluttonX3:
I don't know why, but I just love when a feedee's legs look kind of fat but their belly is gigantic. The contrast is so hot to me. Am I the only one?

My partner is also pretty belly heavy. His legs a thick (which I love), but his belly his huge (which I also love).

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Question about heavy cream results

Odd. It didn't do the thing. And I can't edit it or delete it.

Let's try this:

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Question about heavy cream results

Milkshakeandfries:
I've been drinking cream off and on since November. Last week my feeder started making shakes by blending double cream, ice cream, donuts, butter, chocolate syrup, and vanilla extract.

I've noticed some significant changes in my body, especially in my belly hang, but also side and back rolls. Everything is getting way softer and rolls are noticably deeper.

But the number on the scale has only gone up 5 lbs. Last week, drinking those shakes several times a day, there was the most noticable change in my body, but the scale didn't change.

I've read people often have the experience of softening first and packing on weight second. How long does this process take? I haven't been having cream every day, more like 4 days a week. This is largely because of my schedule. Is this what's holding me back?

Someone on this site described cream as "magic blimp juice," and while it has been, in my experience, very effective, when I first started gaining it seemed like it was more effective.

Does anyone have any tips on maximizing effectiveness?

Heavy cream is good for gaining fat. Fat isn't dense. It actually takes a lot of fat to have any substantial weight. For reference:

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Long time feeder thinking about becoming a feedee

FAsasquatch:
Ok, been big all my life, been a feeder all my life, and I’ve always told myself that I want to make my partner gain, but not me that’s not my thing. However ngl, I had an encounter a while back with a mutual, and I liked it…not like a ton, but it was kinda hot the way she complimented me and kept checking to make sure I was eating lol 😂 however I don’t really fantasize about gaining at all. A couple years ago I lost like 40 pounds while doing keto and working out, but this past year I moved, got a desk job, lost interest in the gym, started ordering out a lot, and had to get on some medication that really increased my appetite and all that combined made me gain back all the weight and then some 😅 and I’ll be honest, I don’t really mind it. Like it doesn’t turn me on or anything, but I like eating way too much fast food, I like eating what I want, I even kinda like my bigger belly if I’m being honest. I wouldn’t say I’m a feedee or a gainer really, but definitely a foodie, I love food and I don’t mind what it does to my body.

When I was a kid I used to pad my clothes and pretend I was fatter, and back then I also would sneak downstairs sometimes and try to stuff myself and weigh myself after not realizing it takes time to gain weight lol 😂 until ofc my dad yelled at me about it for eating too much and ever since then weight gain for myself has been a touchy subject for me 😅 my family is kinda fatphobic and my dad would constantly bash my weight growing up and tell me I need to lose weight. I became obsessed with weight loss more than a few times in my life 😅 for a while I would sometimes even skip meals and lay in bed at night starving, knowing that if I ate before I went to bed the calories would turn into body fat. I’m realizing now that maybe I deeply repressed a part of this kink because of my childhood.

I don’t know maybe I’m a mutual and never knew it 😅

I'm sorry you had to deal with that growing up. You didn't deserve that.

You're an adult now. I suppose now would be a good time to explore.

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Small but a little in trouble

Belgian_feeder:
If you love health issues you should just stay that way. If you love staying inside and being lazy and stuff your face all day you should just do that. Just do whatever the f*** you love and be happy. Life is short, enjoy it while you can!

I do not think you read what OP was asking about very well.

And to OP, you can enjoy both your fetish and your more physical interests as well. It's all about balance.

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Humiliate me

Jayvitro94:
Shut the fuck up 😂 obviously no one is going to hurt anyone else. Stop trying to look like a good dude on a fucken fetish sight. 😂 clearly that would be rape, not into that and obviously never gonna even meet the person my initial text was for.

If you didn't mean what you said, then why did you say it? There is worlds difference between expressing a fantasy and expressing harmful desires towards a party that did not consent. That's creepy. What was even the point of that?

And before you say I don't know what I am talking about or I'm being too sensitive, I am a sadist domme feeder. I have had multiple subs in the past, and am dating my current one. I know what I am talking about and I am very good at what I do.

I find it quite telling that when I called you out on your creepy behavior, your response was to tell me to shut up and that there is no need to be a good person on a fetish site. This tells me that you do not see your fellow community members as people. Instead, you see us as people to jerk off to.

It saddens me to see that you don't understand the only way for people to explore their sexuality is if they feel safe and comfortable to do so. Comments like yours run off the very users you are attracted to. If you can't refrain from being creepy to be a good person, refrain from being creepy to serve your long-term interests.

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Need relationship advice

Casually Walking:
I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place for this topic, but I feel like it fits best. Please tell me if it goes elsewhere, thank you

I've (23M) been dating my gf (22F) for just a little over a year, and I don't want to lose this

Anyway, not too long ago sex came up, and I've never really been interested in it. Total shocker, I know, active in a fetish site but have no interest on even nudity, let alone sex

My problem comes with her being completely set on never changing for anyone. I'm not interested in sex, but for her, it's a 'requirement' for a healthy relationship. Now I'm expected to change and like/want sex, but she doesn't seem to want to change anything about herself for me. No 'I'll scratch your back, and you mine' or anything

I don't really know what to do because I'm pretty sure I love her, I love spending time with her, but I also despise hypocrisy

I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how to put it into words without sounding accusatory

What should I do? How should I say it?

Dablublub is right. You need to have a conversation.

Also, please understand that while you may not need to have sex (or even like sex) others do. And it's to varying degrees.

I have a high sex drive. Most people can do it a few times a week and be happy. I need it at least once a day - preferably multiple times a day. And that's just how things are.

My boyfriend, bless him, has a normal sex drive. But we work together and compromise so that way I can be sexually fulfilled and he isn't overwhelm him.

Also, from what you have said, I am not seeing where she did anything wrong. You call her a hypocrite. How was she a hypocrite? You say she isn't changing for you. How do you expect her to change?

I understand you are sex repulsed, but for people who have sex in an intimate relationship, sex isn't transactional. Yes, it feels good. But its also a way to form and strengthen emotional bonds.

You sound like a sex-repulsed asexual. Or at least you sound like most of the other sex-repulsed asexuals that are in my life. Some of them like to participate in kink, but find the whole sex thing to be kinda gross.

It is possible to have a fulfilling romantic life as a sex-repulsed ace, however, it requires you to make your needs and wants known to the other party and both parties need to find a compromise of the other person wants to have sex.

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Soft feedism suggestions

Milhause:
My spouse knows I’m a FA/feeder but doesn’t share the kink which is fine. She doesn’t gain intentionally but she does eat whatever she wants and has always been overweight.

Up til now the most she’s indulged is some belly play but only when we’re intimate. She mentioned the other day she’d be open to trying some lighter stuff but my brain froze in the moment when she asked for suggestions.

What are some softer feedism things I can float? I thought maybe suggesting clothes that are a size too small but she’s also slowly accepting her body and I don’t want to push anything too fast.

Making her a big breakfast in bed followed by belly rubs.

Body worship

Wearing clothes that show off her fat in private or the bedroom.

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