Fantasy Feeder

Empathy for your fellow feedists

Nameistoolon: We’re a small group - with similar wants, needs, and desires - and in my humble opinion, we should stick together.

SlothDemon:
Hard disagree. I wanna see a good clean fight within this heavy-set community, resulting in toppled skyscrapers, massive tsunamis, and millions of panicked, yet very confused Tokyoites.

Get ready to rumble.

You really don't want that. I've been involved in my fair share of discourse. Plus I've eviscerated quite a few creeps in my inbox and in chat. I don't block people. I make them run for the hills.

And all of that said, I'd rather just chat with my fellow kinksters than be involved in mess. Much more peaceful that way.

2 years

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Being soft vs. gaining

Tattooedgirl69:
I can only speak for myself, but I’m fat with a belly and I’m not interested in gaining weight. Sometimes I fluctuate between wanting to keep my current weight or even lose some weight. That’s why I consider myself a foodie as I love food, but I don’t really care for the gaining weight aspect. I’ve talked to many guys who would like me to gain weight and some who don’t mind me maintaining my weight. Obviously I’m not going to change my body to please anyone but I do love when a guy tells me he likes my belly. At the end of the day, only you can decide if this is the place for you, but I do think there are many people just like me who don’t want to gain but maintain.

X_Larsson:
So, obviously "you are not going to change your body please anyone but you do love when a guy tells you he likes your belly".
Why is that "obviously"? The site is primarily about feedism, where growth in the partner is typically an important part for a feeder. And in a relationship it seems reasonable to do things to increase attractiveness for your partner, like (for me) keep going to the gym, keep a certain hair style, maybe get a tan etc. But "obviously" not something you would do, but you still want to be praised for your looks.
Talk about having your (non fattening) cake and eating it too...

Why are you so angry? Read what she said again. She started out saying she has no interest in gaining, but she enjoys being fat. That is why it's obvious she isn't going to change anything.

Not only that, but she also said she's only speaking for herself. She isn't projecting her opinions on anyone else.

This site may be *primarily* about feedism, but there are many other kinks on here too. And technically, weight gain is a separate kink from feedism as you can participate in feedism without gaining weight. Hell, you could be a feedee that gets muscular instead of fat. There are a lot of permutations of this fetish and the only limit is your imagination.

I also find it weird that you think gaining weight in a feedist relationship is a requirement. What are you going to do when the feedee is no longer willing or able to gain weight? What are you going to do when the feedee wants or has to lose weight?

Seeing that you use the term partner, this assumes a romantic relationship. If so, I find that rather troubling

2 years

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Offered diet pills

NocturnalDevotion:
This medication is rarely prescribed for some reason - Contrave - is a diet pill that helps with cravings and is not an amphetamine. (I take both active ingredients in it Natrexone and Bupropion (Wellbutrin) ) and I think it’s great! For me it helps with alcohol and sugar cravings. I think drs prescribing amphetamines to people who already may have high blood pressure insane.
Are you wanting to lose weight?

From what I understand, she's happy to be fat. I think it's more about curiosity than anything.

2 years

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How to fatten two people

2seatsalways:
2 feedee's at the same time is really difficult. You have to factor in time you spend with both and how much meals are going to cost for both. Not to mention getting them clothes in bigger sizes (may need to do that soon to be prepared, smart financial call).

Take your time with them and let them see the love you have for them as a person, first and foremost.

On that note, there may need to be a conversation about how much and what you're expected to pay for and if they will chip in anything.

2 years

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How to fatten two people

DRACGON:
It turns out that the last few weeks were quite unique and the result was that now I am a feeder of two people at the same time and now I do not know what to do since I never was

Not as distressing as it sounds, I promise. It mostly comes down to time management. You can spend with thing individually and/or together depending on everyone's preference.

What do you want to know?

2 years

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Offered diet pills

Spike:
Growing up my mom put me on diet pills, it was Ally. All it did was make you dirreah.

That being said never in my adult life... but i also havent seen a doctor since 2009. Do doctors really give you diet pills? Do they work????? God I wish I werent american :{

You should probably see a doctor at some point for at least a check up.

But as for the diet pill, it depends on the doctor and the situation.

I do want to clarify that there is prescription strength weight loss medication out there. Some of it isn't in pill form. They aren't like the over the counter diet pill that just dehydrates you or makes you poop.

That being said, most doctors do not come out the gate suggesting you take them. Normally they recommend lifestyle changes and give you medications for obesity related illnesses (diabetes, high blood pressure, cholesterol etc.) and not for weight loss itself.

2 years

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Being soft vs. gaining

LoraDayton:
I'm a non-gaining feedee. This means I like the act of feeding as a fun kink sometimes, but I don't have any interest in gaining. Too many people here see everything in absolutes with little room for nuance or subjectivity.

Feedism and FA are not the same thing, they just have a lot of overlap. There are also just belly fetishists in general, and typically you'll find those in more body expansion/preg kink circles (even if the expansion part isn't their thing).

X_Larsson:
Who are YOU to say that there are "too many"? So even in this site, you find it fine that you approve or reject their sexual preferences or wishes? Add to that, that quite a few of those members have not been able to ever find a partner reasonably matching their preferences, so they have no real life experience in how different sexual elements contribute to their own experience.
If anything, I think long times of unmet needs will rather cement their importance in the mind of the feeder, "radicalizing" if you will.

I totally agree about the FA vs feedism thing, just as I think there is zero need for a BDSM element in feeding. Feedism is its very own thing, not related to anything I can think of.

Bro, calm down. Read what she said again. She said too many people see things in ABSOLUTES. That's all she said.

This wasn't a comment about anyone being passing judgement on fetishes or not having a partner. Her entire post was about black and white thinking in regard to fetish labels. If anything, she's promoting creativity and freedom regarding sexual expression

2 years

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Your favorite ssbbw or bhm

Teasesfatties:

Thanks, hun!

2 years

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Too stuffed to move?

WannabeFat:
I love this feeling of overstuffing in public.
This month at work my boss decided to order a large amount of pizza for all employees and everyone are free to eat as much as he or she can. And I stuffed myself to the max...maybe too much (is there ever a "too much"?). I have had such a pain and problems to stand up straight after that.
Thanks goodness that there were no customers that day and I could sit the rest of the day.

My partner loves going about his day with a stuffed belly. It's such a turn of for both of us. I love how everyone can see what a glutton he is.

2 years

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Your favorite ssbbw or bhm

Reflection Of Perfection:
Don't care for BHM. Favorite ssbbw?

ILL TAKE EM ALL IM HARDCOREEEE

I mean, you're straight. But so am I. Ssbbws, while very pretty, do absolutely nothing for me.

2 years

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