Could be done even sooner. I've seen some feedees and gainers really pile it on. Mochii Babii comes to mind, actually. And she's on the site, so you can see how quickly she blew up.

I mean, there's always a way back. It's just the further you go, the harder it is to lose the weight. It's one of the reasons I said to go slow.

Bruh, don't give out your number like that. That's beyond dangerous.

Just say "Don't be mean to yourself. You look amazing. I won't let you say otherwise."

Imma tell you what I tell everyone. Go slow. Put on a few to see if you like it. Keep going until you don't. But above all go slow. Give your body a chance to adapt.

Girdles? What do you mean by that?

Hey hun. You need to see a doctor about that. If you can't get it up, that's a sign of poor blood circulation. Which means there is probably an issue with your heart. And unless you are fine with a heart attack, that's a huge concern.

Sure, viagra might help you get it up, but that really just treats the symptoms. And even then, there is no shame in taking viagra. Some doctor's prescribe it for people with severe heart or circulation issues. It might even be covered by your insurance as well.

I'd get her comfortable with the idea that you find her fat sexy. Be chill about it. But also, be consistent. Do not give mixed signals.

If it were me, I'd wait until an intimate moment. Maybe while cuddling, making out, or during sex.

I'd say, "You are so sexy to me." Start off with what I like about her personality. Then move into more benign traits like her eyes, hair, and laugh. From there I'd wax poetic about her fatter parts - touching them as I talk about them.

After that, make it your mission to show her how much her fat drives you crazy. Don't make it the main focus. But make sure it's clear.

If you are wanting her to be fatter, maybe even stuff her, I'd wait a few more months at least. Changing your body to please your partner (especially if she isn't into it) is a very big deal.

That being said, if you do get to this point, be casual. Let her know you wouldn't mind if she puts on a few. That you'd still find her sexy. Let her do her own thing for a bit. See if she starts piling on the pounds and flaunting it for you.

Make food an intimate thing. If you cook, cook for her. No secret fattening. Nothing super unhealthy. Just her favorite dishes with generous portions.

If you do not know how to cook, learn how. Sign up for couples classes or learn alone. Have her be your taste tester. Then you can cook her favorite things.

Work up to hand feeding and belly rubs. At this point she should have figured out you're a feeder - even if she doesn't have the words for it. But she should be comfortable with it at this point.

Tell her everything, but make it clear she has the final say. Do not influence her decision or make her feel bad for whatever she chooses.

For the clothes thing, I recommend going to a thrift shop. You can find cute things for cheap. Plus you can either donate or sell the clothes you've outgrown.

Nothing else for it. If you want it, you will have to be clear.

That being said, it's probably too soon to talk about this stuff. The way you worded things makes it seem like you've never met the man irl and haven't known him very long.

Sus out his character first to see if this is a man you even want to feed you. From there, sus out his feelings about fat and you two actively getting fatter.

For both of your sakes, do not rush it. He may be fine with you getting fat on purpose, but he may not want to get fat himself. It's a lot to ask of anyone. Last thing you want to do is make him feel you just want him for his body and to fulfill your fetish.