Miachu:
I'm wanting to get back to adding to my story here
was just wondering if anyone had advice for writing and tackling weight gain?
I always keep at least three things in mind when I write: the start, the end, and the general flow. I'm a firm believer of letting the story go where it wants. I can't tell you how many time I had a plan, but as I wrote the story, I realized doing something different would be better. This goes for any kind of story.
For the weight gain part, it helps to have references. I can't tell you how many stories I've read where the writer has no idea about basic anatomy. For example, thinking a woman is super fat when they are 5'7" and 150 pounds.
On the flip side, don't be that writer who has a precise image in their heads and dictates that image to the audience. Don't give the proportions unless it makes narrative sense to do that, and accept that your reader will not imagine this character the exact way you do. Always show, don't tell.
2 years
Captain Cake:
I've been working hard on trying to become a feeder's dream. My appetite improves constantly, I've trained myself to do everyday things in ways that require the least effort to the point that they're just my automatic behaviours, and I have a career and interests that mean I can achieve everything I want to do in life from the comfort of my bed. What else can I work on to become more desirable to serious feeders? Do any feeders out there have any tips?
If you want to be a better feedee to your feeder, then talk to him. Find out what he likes or doesn't like. See if there are any fantasies he wants to try. Tell him about what you want to try too. Stuff like that.
2 years
Went from 115 to 168 at 5'7". Not interested in gainer more because I feel happy with how I look now.
2 years
Jessica1986Lynn:
I'm fairly new to the feederism world my ex introduced me . I was always taught fat was ugly and spent my life dieting and exercising. This is the exact opposite and personally I don't find huge sexy . My ex thought the bigger the better.
I'm an FFA and a dom feeder. I love it when a man gains weight under my care. It's two fold for me. I love the look, and I love doting on people. Every bit of flab is proof of my affection.
2 years
I'm on the spectrum, so I don't like most noises. But I do enjoy hearing a fat belly getting smacked or a belch to free up some room for more food. Not keen on farts. Or belching for the sake of belching.
2 years
swoledaze:
When you word it like that, I agree. It seems like interaction has become more and more difficult to where I even put my guard up. I wanna say it's possible, it's just seems like an uphill climb to find it.
Exactly. You have to put the person first and the fetish last. And on a site where everyone has similar interests, you have stand out from the crowd. That's where that personal connection comes into play.
Don't come into my inbox, give me your government name, and tell me to hop on kik. I don't know you enough to trust you. Instead, take the time to get to know me. Let me get to know you. It's a give and take kind of deal.
2 years
I don't think the fetish is the issue. People with all kinds of fetishes and kinks find love all the time.
The problem I'm seeing is how people approach the fetish. Mind you, not everyone on this site is like this. A lot of you are perfectly lovely. Still, there is a sizable chunk of people who do not know how to interact with others.
I've personally dealt with people who are terrible conversationalists, too pushy, do not respect boundaries, do not listen, are manipulative, etc. So, when I interact with others, my guard is up. Add to the fact that a lot of us have our own personal traumas? Oy vey
2 years
I'm the proud owner of a 36D rack. A bra is a support item. It doesn't do a whole lot besides that.
Bras come in many styles. I personally adore wire free bras with lightly lines cups.
If you find sports bras constricting, you may be wearing the wrong size. Your typical low impact sports bra should be no more constricting than a tank top. They also come in several different shapes, so you might need to see which one you prefer.
I don't mess with bralettes because they offer no support for me. I'm a very active person. But if you live a more sedentary life, you might like them.
2 years
Eirtae feedee:
I'm waiting for a call from the doctor today. I think he will tell me that I have diabetes.
Will I be able to continue gaining weight?
Just wondering what other people in the same situation do
GainingLear:
Can you continue gaining?
Yes, but it takes a lot more work to not throw everything off.
If you are diagnosed I suggest holding off on continuing gaining til you're getting stable numbers. Once you have meds that work to keep your blood sugar even you can test the boundaries and figure out how to gain again. Everyone is a bit different, not everyone's system will be spiked by the same foods so some testing is necessary.
You won't have particularly rapid gains, because all the good calorie bombs are high in sugar. But you can continue gaining.
Diabetic here. Been one for all my life. I second what he says. You can gain, but you have to be very careful how you do it.
It is best to stabilize your blood glucose levels because that can work against you. Not just the whole insulin spike thing either. If your sugar gets too high, you can actually lose weight.
Get your levels right. Find out what your boundaries are. You may need to switch to healthier alternatives like nuts and avocados. Takes longer to do, but it's a journey, not a race.
2 years
I've never been fat, but I have gained a considerable amount of weight. I went from 115 to 168-ish pounds in about 5 or 6 years. Most of that is muscle.
My mom and grandma freaked out and told me I was getting fat (which makes no sense because I have abs.) At some point I decided enough was enough and made it clear their comments won't be tolerated. I don't think I changed their mind about my body, but at least they've since shut up.
2 years
