Yes, people switch pretty often.
As I child I had both feedee and feeder fantasies, but after puberty was feeder only.
9 years
I think there's more acceptance of diversity in general, or at least I hope so!
9 years
How about the pros and cons of NOT gaining?
Pro: Trendy and superficial people will like you better.
Con: Going through life and never living your dream.
9 years
drvbnkr:
But I didn't plan on eating a bakery, at least not in front of the kid.
I chatted with a woman with the same plan when she started gaining: she was careful to eat moderately in her children's presence. But since then she's gained a lot and built up her appetite so much that she needs to stuff herself when she eats, even in front of the kids.
9 years
Many feedees have to be careful they don't get too fat to take care of themselves.
You obviously have to be even more careful, since you have additional responsibilities.
As far as her being bullied for having a fat father...I wouldn't worry about that too much. But of course it is possible.
The main issue is: do you overeat in front of her or hide it? Hiding requires less explanation but can be hard to pull off.
Some feedees not only overeat in front of their children but allow their children to eat all the goodies they want. Their children tend to be really fat. I think this is messed up. People should be able to get fat if they want, but it's not a decision a child can make.
Some feeedees overeat in front of their children but make it clear that "the doughnuts are only for Daddy". This is doable, but may require some kind of explanation. You may be able to lump it in with other adult behaviors (like drinking and smoking) that adults can do but children can't.
In any event, I'd figure out the narrative you're going to use and get your wife on board before gaining any serious amount of weight.
9 years
Nattily:
So no matter how fat I am on the outside, well, that part of me doesn't need anything larger sized and nor would I want that part of me stretched out ... does that make sense?
Yes. Okay, what about this: Your feeder bf only makes love with you when you've gained a pound?
9 years
TalesOfAGrowingBelly:
All of those except number 5, since she doesn't yet know about the whole fat-fetish thing. Apart from that I just like the feel of the extra flab on my belly, it's fun to fiddle and play with whenever I get a spare moment to myself.
Can you rank them?
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