Fantasy Feeder

Tell me your embarrassing fat moments

Voluptuouslover:
What do you expect while you were out in public. But all she could do later is think about how nice it would be to be having sex with you bumping into you new fat belly.

Bobo:
I hate when men answer my posts

Dude, what is wrong with you?

Imma level with you. Women tend to not respond to posts about men having sexual fantasies involving their ex. That's something that will attract other men.

If you want women to engage with you more, then make posts women will care about.

3 months

Munchies

I want to ask the feedee

Viktoshka:
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.

Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?

Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.

Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?

I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?

I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.

Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.

My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.

I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.

Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.

3 months

Munchies

Switching from milk to heavy cream

FattenedByCirce:
I’m not the biggest caramel fan but I’ll see what else tickles my fancy. That sounds like such a good addition

Kitsune:
I recently saw a Super Bowl ad for cold foam which reminded me of this thread. My store carries some brands of this stuff. Not sure how fattening it is but I imagine it's similar calories to whip cream. I hope this gives you inspiration!

Cold foam is usually just whipped milk. It's not as sweet as whipped cream. It's also lighter and airier because it's made to kinda meld with the drink. Give it a smooth, creamy texture.

3 months

Munchies

I want to ask the feedee

Viktoshka:
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.

My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?

Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.

3 months

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Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

JN_TumLover56:
I feel like that I have seen enough content from Nas Daily to say something on this topic. Especially since the main guy ALWAYS preaches about living forever.

I think it’s one thing to say that you want to live healthy and as long as you can, especially when you wanna be there for your family and their achievements and whatnot. All that’s great and all, but at the same time why are we also told about the inevitable truth of how nothing lasts forever?

In other words, if someone wants to live long and healthy then more power to them I guess. But what about you (and I’m asking myself this)?? Do YOU want to live forever? Especially with all of the pains and unfairness that you go through of growing and living? Essentially when that means that you’re basically doing (what will feel like) the same thing almost every day but longer until you get too old to do the things that you wish you could do when you’re still young and functional? That doesn’t sound like something that’s worth living long in my opinion.

Now I’m not trying to judge here, I’m more so asking a question. Because while sure I don’t mind living long enough to pass at a respectable old age, I think that it’s better to live a good life other than a long one. Especially when that means that a lot of people who you care about will pass before you do, while this will be different for everyone… I don’t think not everyone is going to handle it.

It might shock some of y'all to know, but I'm death positive. If you wanna know more about it you can check out this page from The Order of the Good Death:

orderofthegooddeath.com/death-positive-movement/

With that said most people who want to live forever fear death. And I get it. Western culture is removed from death. End of life care is very cold, and how we treat the elderly and infirm is appalling. It's no wonder that most people want nothing to do with it.

This is why so many people live bland lives with bland food. To them, a dull, safe, soulless life is better than death. It gives the illusion of control.

We all want a good life, but it shouldn't be lived in fear of death. For death comes for us all.

3 months

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Interested in rp, but i don’t want to upset my wife

Bobbby:
It's all about honesty man. You should ask your wife how she feels about you rping with other people since she's not as into it. That sounds reasonable to me, but it can only be decided by both of you together as a couple!

Beloved, he deleted.

3 months

Munchies

What ya listening to?

Arame:
Nah, the last song I was listening to is way too violent 😅😅😅.

Okay, but now I wanna know

3 months

Munchies

Gaining question

Ultimateaaron12:
This question is for those who went from rail thin to super fat. how did you keep up eating consistently? I find it very stressful trying to make sure I eat enough to reach my daily calorie goal, does it eventually become second nature to eat loads without having to put much thought into it?

Do little things consistently, and you will see changes over time. If you struggle to get enough calories in you, start small. Switch to whole milk. Add sauces and cheese to everything. Always flavor your water. Drink juice. Have snacks in easy reach.

Over time, you'll realize you've started to eat quite a bit without forcing yourself.

3 months

Munchies

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.

Bigwideland:
Yes I assumed that you are in aspect of society that is supported to live longer, forgive my white male privilege that is my paradigm to understand and be mindful of when posting.

It's all good.

I do respect those who would rather have a good life over a long life. I have encountered many people who are so focused on not dying that they fail to enjoy living.

I think there's a balance to strike. Leaning too far into pleasure at the expense of life is a dangerous way to live. Ironically, it negatively impacts your quality of life and the lives of those around you. But living your life just to avoid death is a waste of time.

3 months

Munchies

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.

MRFATS53:
You might need help!

If you are offering to put in the work to advocate for black people, I am for it.

3 months

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