BlackjackandBerries:
I shouldn't even say "distancing" myself from it, still very much always going to be into plus size women. Just distancing as in I no longer wish to gain. I know this is ok, but feels touchy to talk about here.
Wondering if anyone else can relate and what your end result ended up being. Did you continue to gain or did you stop and scale back never to return again? Or is it a yo-yo thing?
Has anyone else here started off as an athletic feeder but fell into the feedee/feeder category and gained weight?
I did, and I'm in the beginning stages of losing most of it for multiple reasons. Mainly to "start over".
I personally feel bad that I'm letting down hundreds of people that encouraged me to gain over the last 3 years, but this is where I have to distance myself. I felt better when I was smaller so I am making myself smaller again.
Just a personal vent. I probably won't succeed in shedding weight, which I'm also prepared to live with.
I used to be a gainer, but I stopped at some point. Not for health reasons. I just lost interest. Became a feeder not long after. Never regretted my choice. But I was also not a very good gainer either.
2 years
FatDave:
One thing I've been wanting to do more of lately is eat in bed.
The only concern I have is the possibility of crumbs and food falling onto my sheets. For now I've been doing snacking but ideally I'd like to enjoy full meals in bed.
Any tips on how to pull this off in a clean way?
Super easy fix. Eat with a towel. Easy cleanup.
2 years
DollyXXDimples:
Nope.
At least you are honest.
2 years
I spent about a month or two on this site with a blank profile just so I could poke around the site a bit before venturing out. And even then, it took me a month or two to mostly figure out the site.
Of course, I'm still learning new things all the time. Plus there are new features from time to time as well. FF as it is now looks a bit different from how it did a year ago
2 years
Lovelyxx:
Hi guys! I’m an FA/feeder and I very much care about my partners feelings. If he wants to lose or gain weight it’s up to him, I like anyway. Have any feedees/FAs had any bad experiences? How do other feeders feel about it?
I feel like many feeders force their partners into situations they are not comfortable in.
Hm. As an FA/feeder, I do prioritize my partner's wellbeing an comfort above all else. However, I would like to think I am not unique in this regard.
Of course, I am not so silly to say there aren't toxic/abusive FAs/feeders out there. I've even interacted with some personally, and I'm not even a gainer or a feedee. Heck, I'm not even fat or chubby.
2 years
Solarflare43:
So to start this post I want to say I love & support my girlfriend regardless of her size
When I met her she was on the thicker side, however she always wore clothes a few sizes too small. I'd have to help her zip up dresses that were clearly ripping at the seams or breaking
She eventually told me that she gained weight over covid and used to be quite petite. Now over the course of our relationship (1.5 years) she's put on about 30 additional pounds and definitely can't fit her old clothes
I know she wants to lose weight, and I support her. But she barely eats (like 1 small meal a day & energy drinks). I'm worried about her nutrition, and her weight isn't changing.
None of her clothes fit right & she keeps ordering clothes that are too small and being disappointed when they don't fit.
I've bought her a few things here & there that actually fit, so they've become her wardrobe staples
She knows she's gained weight, she isn't in denial of the numbers. But I think she thinks her clothing sizes are much smaller than they are
Would it be a horrible idea for me to buy clothes that I think would actually fit her? I've been right at guessing her size so far. Maybe for a Christmas present. Cute stuff I know she'll like
Let me know if I'm making a massive blunder or not
Seems fine to me. Get a few cute pieces that she'll like. She'll probably be touched.
2 years
No_Limit_Soldier17:
I am not what sure what to say about this. I know I like women. I have always thought of myself as straight. However, I have seen pictures and videos of some male users and I can't help but feel turned on.
It's weird, because in my everyday life, I don't feel any attraction to guys. What is the deal?
Munchies:
My feedee is a cishet man. However, he gets turned on when I send him pictures and videos of fat men being gluttons. It's not that he's sexually attracted to them. It's that it's a reminder of all the things I want to do to him or a manifestation of how he might look as I stuff him.
It's like Thaynor said: Do you want to be them or do you want to do something with them?
WideJuan76:
I have had women whom I have dated who have sent me pics of fat men and it was mostly to inspire me to keep gorging and some would specifically choose those pics who had the same type of body that I had just way more flabby. It was a way to see myself like that not as a form of attraction. Munchies is doing that and it is enticement like that is the best.
Hee hee ~
Why thank you, my good sir.
2 years
