Pretty much. You also have to respect the other person if what they want changes. Their body, their choice. You gotta check in, have serious conversations, and be honest. If you think that's way too much work, then you aren't ready to be in a feedee feeder relationship.

If your feedee wants to be stuffed to the gills all day every day, that's great! Good for you. But if they don't? Then you gotta respect their boundaries.

I've had this for about as long as I can remember. I remember being little and utterly fascinated with Sumo wrestlers. Not the sport or the wrestlers themselves. Just how big and powerful they looked. I'd get a funny feeling if I thought about them for too long.

I remember my favorite episodes for any show were always the obligatory obesity episodes (or that one from Suite Life of Zach and Cody where Maddy started stuffing herself so she wouldn't have "chicken legs". I was a scrawny kid myself, so that resonated with me. I also loved it when I saw bigger guys who loved food and were unapologetic about their size.

I thought I was the only one who liked this sort of stuff until I stumbled upon Dimensions Magazine. Suddenly, everything just ... clicked. It's amazing how happy you can get when you can put a name to something when you know you aren't alone.